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But how did it come about?
The first meals
One of the best-preserved hunter-gatherer sites we’ve found is located on the shores of the modern-day Sea of Galilee (also called Lake Tiberias or Lake Kinneret) in Israel, and dating back some 23,000 years.

The fertile crescent covers the rich, biodiverse valleys of the Tigris, Euphrates and Jordan rivers. Source: Shutterstock / The Conversation
In addition to several small dwellings with hearths, it provides evidence of diverse food sources, including more than 140 types of seeds and nuts, and various birds, fish and mammals.
It quickly became common to eat one light meal early in the day, followed by a larger hearth-prepared meal later on. The specific timings would have varied between groups.
Eating together as a rule
The men gradually shared generational knowledge with the young boys, who themselves would join the tables by age 20.
The eating habits of Spartan women are missing in the texts, although it is implied they ate at home.
Bunches of lunches
Nattmal was the cooked evening meal, while dagmal usually consisted of leftover nattmal with the addition of bread and beer or mead.

The once-daily meal would have been supplemented with snacks throughout the day.
Three’s the magic number
Some sources suggest the term square meal may have come from the square wooden trays meals were served in.

Initially, sailors recieved a daily gallon of beer with meals. This was later changed to watered-down rum, the infamous “grog”, which is being handed out in this 1940 photo taken aboard HMS King George V. Credit: Imperial War Museums
The Industrial Revolution, which started around 1760, arguably also played a role in formalising the concept of three specific mealtimes across the Western world.
With minimal breaks, and no time for snacking, three substantial meals became necessary.
The fall of the holy trinity
The COVID pandemic also impacted how and what we eat, leading us to eat larger amounts of higher-calorie foods. The rapid growth of delivery services also means a meal is no more than a few minutes away from most people.

The ways in which we eat and share food continue to evolve alongside our societies and cultures. Source: Shutterstock / The Conversation
All of this has resulted in mealtimes becoming less rigid, with social meals such as brunch, elevenses and afternoon teas expanding how we connect over food. And mealtimes will continue to evolve as our schedules become ever more complicated.