642

Credit: Instagram

Tamra Judge posted a message on her Instagram Story on Sunday that didn’t sit well with Gretchen Rossi.

After the 57-year-old Real Housewives of Orange County came across a sneak peek at this week’s new episode of season 19, which saw Gina Kirschenheiter, 41, wondering if she was truly concerned about her mental health, Gretchen, 46, and Katie Ginella, 41, saying she wasn’t taking accountability for her actions, and Heather Dubrow, 56,  calling her “selfish” for leaving New Orleans early and temporarily quitting the show, Tamra gave a nod to Shannon Beador‘s DUI as she targeted their lack of empathy.

“God forbid you guys ever have to deal with the pain [and] depression I was dealing with. They wonder why I left? Maybe I should of gotten a DUI to feel compassion,” Tamra stated on August 17.

Right away, after seeing what her co-star had written, Gretchen shared a series of posts of her own, reminding Tamra, who was dealing with Teddi Mellencamp‘s brain cancer diagnosis at the time of filming, of the way she treated her when she was dealing with the deaths of loved ones.

“I just got sent this post that Tamra did, and I have to say this really rubs me the wrong way,” she wrote in her first post. 

Then, in the second, Gretchen said that even after her former fiancé, Jeff Beitzel, and Slade’s son, Grayson, died, Tamra was not only uncompassionate but also lied and plotted against her.

“YES Tamra I have actually dealt with the pain [and] depression you are talking about [and] it was horrible (remember my fiance actually died, [and] Slade’s son actually died from cancer) but you had not one [ounce] of grace for us. Instead you spun lies about me [and] Jeff [and] plotted with the guy (who I took to court and now have [seven] counts against [and] over a million dollar judgement) to cause me pain [and] suffering during that time. And then you went on your podcast [and] made false statements about Slade [and] I after his son died [and] [spun] lies about us again. With no remorse for your actions … only excuses, like you always do,” Gretchen stated. 

“You never gave us grace, [and] [you] never gave your bestie Shannon grace when she was going through the worst time in her life. Instead you buddied up to [Alexis Bellino], [and] called Shannon every name in the book last year,” she continued. “So this is pretty rich coming from you.”

Gretchen also shared the same post on her Instagram feed.

The Real Housewives of Orange County season 19 airs Thursdays at 8/7c on Bravo.