The first month of school always feels like a fresh start and kids are buzzing with both nerves and excitement. But beyond the school supply lists, what really sets the tone for the year isn’t in the backpack. Teachers say it’s about these six things that will help to set the tone for the year during the first month of school.

In a recent release from ProCare Therapy, educators shared what they wish families would prioritize during those crucial first weeks.

Prioritize rest and emotional readiness
“Making sure your child is prepared for school doesn’t mean having the fanciest supplies,” says SarahLaine Magana, a ProCare education professional with nearly a decade of experience as a curriculum specialist and teacher in a recent interview with Parents. “It means ensuring students come to school well-rested, fed, and emotionally regulated.”

Teachers say the best start comes from kids who’ve had a good night’s sleep and know basic expectations like listening, following directions, and transitioning calmly between activities.

Let kids own their homework
It’s tempting to swoop in when your child is stuck, but teachers can always tell when parents do the heavy lifting. When kids do their own work, teachers see where they’re thriving and where they need help. More importantly, kids learn confidence in their own abilities.

Parents should build early communication with teachers
Teachers say they often only hear from parents when something is wrong. A simple “looking forward to the year” email can go a long way in building trust. Sharing things like learning styles, emotional needs, or recent life changes early helps teachers support kids better before challenges pop up.

Keep reading a nightly habit
Yes, even for older kids. Just 15 minutes of reading at home each evening can boost vocabulary, comprehension, and focus. Teachers promise the payoff is obvious by fall conferences.

Labels, Labels, Labels!
Label water bottles, jackets, lunchboxes, if it leaves the house, put a name on it. “You’d be shocked how many identical water bottles, backpacks, and lunchboxes go missing each week,” Magana explains. “A simple name label saves time, frustration, and meltdowns.”

Give kids more responsibility
Let your child pack their own lunch, remember their homework folder, or tie their shoes, whatever’s age-appropriate. These small steps toward independence free up classroom time and build your child’s confidence.

“The first month sets the pace for the rest of the school year,” Magana says. “We don’t expect perfection; just a willingness to communicate, be consistent, and stay engaged.”