Jilly Cooper dies aged 88
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Tributes have poured in for celebrated novelist Dame Jilly Cooper after her death following a fall.

The ‘Queen of the bonkbuster’ author was famed for her raunchy romance novels, selling more than 12million books in her career. 

Dame Jilly’s children, Felix and Emily, expressed that her passing on Sunday morning, which was made public today, was a ‘complete shock.’ They referred to her as the ‘shining light’ in their lives.

Queen Camilla, whose first husband Andrew Parker-Bowles is speculated to have inspired Dame Jilly’s fictional character Rupert Cambell-Black, praised the author as a ‘legend’ and described her as a ‘brilliantly witty and empathetic friend.’ 

Author Gyles Brandreth described Dame Jilly as ‘utterly delightful. She was brilliant, beautiful, and incredibly funny as well as charming, the perfect companion, and the most generous, considerate, and kind-hearted friend.’

Victoria Smurfit, who starred in the recent TV adaptation of her novel Rivals, said the author was a ‘divine queen’. 

Her agent Felicity Blunt issued a similarly warm tribute, saying the author was ‘sharply observant and utter fun’. 

Dame Jilly was best known for her books in The Rutshire Chronicles. The depiction of the bedroom antics of the polo-playing classes proved a huge hit with millions seeking naughty bed-time reading. 

The novelist lost her husband Leo, who she married in 1961, to Parkinson’s disease in 2013. 

The author had known him since she was nine years old and refused to send him into a care home even when his condition worsened.

Dame Jilly confessed that she only continued to write novels in her later life to pay for her husband’s medical bills. 

Celebrated novelist Jilly Cooper has died aged 88 after a fall, her family has announced

Celebrated novelist Jilly Cooper has died aged 88 after a fall, her family has announced

Jilly Cooper pictured at home in Putney, December 1st, 1978

Jilly Cooper pictured at home in Putney, December 1st, 1978

Dame Jilly and Leo first met at a children’s party in the late 1940s.

The couple became an item after the collapse of Leo’s first marriage.

They went on to adopt son Felix and daughter Emily in 1968 and 1971 respectively.

Their marriage – a famously happy one – survived Leo’s ‘cataclysmic’ affair in the 1990s. 

Dame Jilly’s family said in their statement: ‘Mum was the shining light in all of our lives.

‘Her love for all of her family and friends knew no bounds. Her unexpected death has come as a complete shock.

‘We are so proud of everything she achieved in her life and can’t begin to imagine life without her infectious smile and laughter all around us.’

Dame Jilly’s first novel in the Rutshire series, Riders, was published in 1985, when the author was 48. 

The book’s release, which came after Dame Jilly had been sacked from 22 jobs in public relations, marked her big break in her literary career. 

Riders made the BBC list of 100 important English language novels in the love, sex and romance selection alongside Jane Austen’s Pride And Prejudice. 

The second book in the series, Rivals, was recently adapted for television by Disney+. 

In a signal of how she remained very active in her later years, Dame Jilly held a party for the cast at her home in Gloucestershire in August. 

Also among the attendees was the ‘famously naughty’ Andrew-Parker Bowles, who remains close to his ex-wife the Queen. 

Dame Jilly and Queen Camilla met in March this year when the author attended the launch of the Queen’s Reading Room medal at Clarence House.

Camilla told her: ‘I’m so proud of you. For all you’ve done.’ 

The Queen said in her tribute today: ‘I was so saddened to learn of Dame Jilly’s death last night.

‘Very few writers get to be a legend in their own lifetime but Jilly was one, creating a whole new genre of literature and making it her own through a career that spanned over five decades.

‘In person she was a wonderfully witty and compassionate friend to me and so many – and it was a particular pleasure to see her just a few weeks ago at my Queen’s Reading Room Festival where she was, as ever, a star of the show.

‘I join my husband The King in sending our thoughts and sympathies to all her family.

‘And may her hereafter be filled with impossibly handsome men and devoted dogs.’

Her agent Ms Blunt said in reaction to her death: ‘The privilege of my career has been working with a woman who has defined culture, writing and conversation since she was first published over fifty years ago.

‘Jilly will undoubtedly be best remembered for her chart-topping series The Rutshire Chronicles and its havoc-making and handsome show-jumping hero Rupert Campbell-Black.

‘You wouldn’t expect books categorised as bonkbusters to have so emphatically stood the test of time but Jilly wrote with acuity and insight about all things – class, sex, marriage, rivalry, grief and fertility.

Dame Jilly made a cameo appearance in the Disney+ adaptation of her novel Rivals 

Queen Camilla and Jilly Cooper speak during a reception to mark the launch of the Queen’s reading room medal at Clarence House on March 25, 2025

Jilly Cooper and her husband Leo. He died in 2013 aged 79 in 2013

Jilly Cooper and her husband Leo. He died in 2013 aged 79 in 2013

Dame Jilly Cooper wears a figure hugging leopard print sweater top as she poses with a tiger cup for a charity photo shoot at the Savoy Hotel, 1992

Dame Jilly Cooper wears a figure hugging leopard print sweater top as she poses with a tiger cup for a charity photo shoot at the Savoy Hotel, 1992

Jilly Cooper on the Russell Harty show in 1973

Jilly Cooper on the Russell Harty show in 1973

Jilly Cooper's 1985 novel Rivals, which is the first in her Rutshire Chronicles series

Jilly Cooper’s 1985 novel Rivals, which is the first in her Rutshire Chronicles series

Jilly Cooper with her adopted children Felix and Emily and their dogs, circa 1978

Jilly Cooper with her adopted children Felix and Emily and their dogs, circa 1978

Dame Jilly Cooper after being made a Dame Commander of the British Empire by King Charles III during an investiture ceremony at Windsor Castle on May 14, 2024

Dame Jilly Cooper after being made a Dame Commander of the British Empire by King Charles III during an investiture ceremony at Windsor Castle on May 14, 2024

Dame Jilly Cooper with her dog. The author was celebrated across the world

Dame Jilly Cooper with her dog. The author was celebrated across the world

Dame Jilly at her home in Bisley, Gloucestershire, in 1991

Dame Jilly at her home in Bisley, Gloucestershire, in 1991

Jilly Cooper's home in the Cotswolds, pictured in 2016

Jilly Cooper’s home in the Cotswolds, pictured in 2016

Dame Jilly enjoys a playful smooch with Rivals star Alex Hassall

Dame Jilly enjoys a playful smooch with Rivals star Alex Hassall 

‘Her plots were both intricate and gutsy, spiked with sharp observations and wicked humour. 

‘She regularly mined her own life for inspiration and there was something Austenesque about her dissections of society, its many prejudices and norms.

‘But if you tried to pay her this compliment, or any compliment, she would brush it aside. 

‘She wrote, she said, simply “to add to the sum of human happiness”. In this regard as a writer she was and remains unbeatable.’

She added: ‘Emotionally intelligent, fantastically generous, sharply observant and utter fun Jilly Cooper will be deeply missed by all at Curtis Brown and on the set of Rivals.

‘I have lost a friend, an ally, a confidante and a mentor. But I know she will live forever in the words she put on the page and on the screen.’

Ms Smurfit, who played Maud O’Hara in Rivals, shared a snap of Dame Jilly on Instagram.

She said in the caption: ‘Our divine Queen has gone to the sky. Her words will live forever but the way she made you feel, when in her company was human sunshine. Jilly was everything that was good about being a person.

‘Paddington bear with a naughty twinkle. All love to her beautiful and loving family and friends. #jilly #rivals #rip Will miss that Dame so much.’

Mr Brandreth added: ‘Jilly Cooper brought sunshine & laughter into the world. And she could write a sizzler of a story. What a lady! What a life! RIP.’ 

Kirstie Allstopp tweeted: ‘And now Jilly Cooper has died, she always seemed so young and vibrant, I know 88 is a good age but this is very sad news.

‘A British institution, funny, enthusiastic and self deprecating, we don’t see enough of it these days. Bless you Dame Jilly, Rest in Peace.’

Born in Hornchurch, Essex in 1937, Dame Jilly grew up in Yorkshire and attended the private Godolphin School in Salisbury.

Her father was a brigadier and her family moved to London in the 1950s where she became a reporter on The Middlesex Independent when she was 20.

Born in Hornchurch, Essex in 1937, Dame Jilly grew up in Yorkshire and attended the private Godolphin School in Salisbury

Born in Hornchurch, Essex in 1937, Dame Jilly grew up in Yorkshire and attended the private Godolphin School in Salisbury

Dame JIlly with husband Leo Cooper and their son Felix with his wife Edwina, 2001

Dame JIlly with husband Leo Cooper and their son Felix with his wife Edwina, 2001

Dame Jilly Cooper and husband Leo at their home in 2001

Dame Jilly Cooper and husband Leo at their home in 2001

She has said she moved to public relations and was sacked from 22 jobs before ending up in book publishing.

In 2024, she revealed in documentary In My Own Words: Jilly Cooper how she was silenced and mistreated after almost being raped by a fellow author when working in publishing.

She said the author was ‘a great big gross creature’ who ‘ripped off’ her clothes in a taxi.

The author claimed a male superior expressed concern but then dismissed her when she revealed who the culprit was.  

‘Finally I… muttered out the person’s name and he said, “Oh. That is one of our authors. Out.” I was very shocked,’ she said. 

‘I was almost raped and there I was being kicked out of the office. It was attempted rape. He did not actually rape me but he tried jolly hard.’ 

Dame Jilly was a newspaper columnist for the Sunday Times in the 1960s, writing about marriage, sex and housework.

She started writing novels in the 1970s, but it wasn’t until Riders in 1985 that she had her breakthrough. 

Her work has been adapted at various points, including an ITV series of The Man Who Made Husbands Jealous with Coronation Street star Stephen Billington and Downton Abbey actor Hugh Bonneville, while Marcus Gilbert starred in a Riders series during the 1990s.

She won the inaugural Comedy Women in Print lifetime achievement award in 2019 and was made a dame for her services to literature and charity in 2024.

The author was a survivor of the 1999 Ladbroke Grove rail crash, in which 31 people died and more than 400 were injured when two trains collided in London.

Dame Jilly was a passenger in one of the derailed carriages and had to crawl through a window to escape. 

She later recalled being ‘absurdly concerned’ about a manuscript she was carrying at the time.  

A new book by Dame Jilly is due to be published through Transworld in November.

How To Survive Christmas is described as ‘an irreverent and witty guide to surviving the festive season.’

Her publisher Bill Scott-Kerr said: ‘Working with Jilly Cooper over the past thirty years has been one of the great privileges and joys of my publishing life.

‘Beyond her genius as a novelist, she was always a personal heroine of mine for so many other reasons. 

‘For her kindness and friendship, for her humour and irrepressible enthusiasm, for her curiosity, for her courage, and for her profound love of animals.

Jilly Cooper interviews prime minister Margaret Thatcher in 10 Downing Street, 1985

Jilly Cooper interviews prime minister Margaret Thatcher in 10 Downing Street, 1985

Dame Jilly with her damehood on the day she received it at Windsor Castle, May 2024

Dame Jilly with her damehood on the day she received it at Windsor Castle, May 2024

Dame Jilly being made a Dame by King Charles at Windsor Castle, May 2024

Dame Jilly being made a Dame by King Charles at Windsor Castle, May 2024

‘Jilly may have worn her influence lightly but she was a true trailblazer.

‘As a journalist she went where others feared to tread and as a novelist she did likewise.

‘With a winning combination of glorious storytelling, wicked social commentary and deft, lacerating characterisation, she dissected the behaviour, bad mostly, of the English upper middle classes with the sharpest of scalpels.

‘It is no exaggeration to say that Riders, her first Rutshire Chronicle, changed the course of popular fiction forever.

‘Ribald, rollicking and the very definition of good fun, it, and the 10 Rutshire novels which followed it, were to inspire a generation of women, writers and otherwise, to tell it how it was, whilst giving us a cast of characters who would define a generation and beyond.’

He added: ‘A publishing world without a new Jilly Cooper novel on the horizon is a drabber, less gorgeous place and we shall mourn the loss of a ground-breaking talent and a true friend.’

Dame Jilly’s funeral will be private in line with her wishes, according to her agent.

A public service of thanksgiving will be held in the coming months in Southwark Cathedral to celebrate her life, with a separate announcement made in due course.

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