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Driven by an insatiable wanderlust, Sarm Heslop embraces a lifestyle fueled by diverse jobs that support her love for exploration and sailing.
Her career path is as varied as her travels; she’s been a flight attendant with Flybe in the UK, a waitress in both Gibraltar and Malta, and has even taken on call center roles to finance her adventures across the globe.
In the course of her travels, Sarm connects with Ryan Bane on Tinder. Their relationship grows quickly, leading her to relocate to the Virgin Islands. There, she joins Bane on his 47-foot luxury catamaran, the Siren Song, taking on the role of chef.
The “Siren Song” serves as a charter yacht available for private hire, anchored in a serene bay off the western shores of Saint John, US Virgin Islands. Immersed in this idyllic setting aboard what is known as the Virgin Islands Premier Luxury Sailing Charter, Sarm is truly living her dream.
On the night of March 7, Sarm and Bane venture to Saint John for a dinner outing. After their meal, they return to the Siren Song via a short 200-foot dinghy ride. According to Bane, Sarm was asleep by 10 p.m.
Around 2:30 a.m., Bane awakens but can’t find Sarm.
He takes a dinghy to the shore to report her missing to island police, suggesting she may have fallen overboard. Police tell him to call the Coast Guard. Bane does not notify the coast guard immediately.
For reasons unknown, he waits until 11:45 a.m. to notify the Coast Guard that Sarm is missing.
When coast guard officials arrive, an intoxicated Bane refuses to allow them to board the catamaran to conduct a search.
Police not being allowed to search the boat leads them to issue citations to Bane on account of not being allowed to search the boat, not having registration documentation, and safety equipment violations.
The nine-hour time gap between when Bane contacts Island Police and the time he calls the coast guard has been questioned by Sarm’s family and even a fellow skipper on a boat moored nearby the Siren Song.
The skipper says he heard no shouts from the catamaran, nobody hollering for someone who might have fallen overboard. Sarm’s phone, wallet, and passport are left behind on the boat and are turned over to the police.
An intensive search of the coastline begins with dogs on shore, divers in the water, and drones overhead. As word spreads of the missing woman, a local dog walker on Saint John says they heard a scream out at sea, in the direction of where the catamaran is anchored, around the time of Sarm’s disappearance.
Jeff Jones, ASAR/Disaster Area Response Team A volunteer, tells Nancy Grace he spoke to the captain there the night she went missing.
He actually comes on base Sunday morning and drops anchor about one hundred twenty feet away from the Siren Song, and he is there overnight on the vessel.
He’s also a term charter captain with another catamaran for hire, and he saw nothing, heard nothing, and was unaware of any unusual foul play until the next day when the coast guard showed up.
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