Victoria Beckham and Nicola Peltz's bond decoded
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Victoria Beckham and Nicola Peltz’s dynamic has dramatically shifted from being close-knit companions to a strained and distant connection, ultimately severed by a startling revelation from Brooklyn Beckham.

What once was a warm friendship has now ended in silence, following the escalation of a conflict involving Brooklyn and his family, which erupted into a full-blown crisis seemingly overnight.

Brooklyn’s assertions about his family have garnered significant attention, but they have also brought Nicola’s relationship with her mother-in-law, Victoria, into sharper focus.

Initially, the relationship between the two seemed far from tense, as evidenced by their ‘playful and affectionate’ interactions captured in various clips before the family discord emerged.

Nevertheless, body language specialist Judi James has analyzed how the relationship unraveled, highlighting Brooklyn’s futile attempts to satisfy ‘both Queen Bees in his life,’ which ultimately proved unsuccessful.

Reflecting on Brooklyn’s statement itself, she told Daily Mail: ‘Brooklyn’s statement includes several clues to a rather passive/aggressive behavioural coping style, best defined as ‘store it up, save it and let it stew before serving it’. 

Victoria Beckhamand Nicola Peltz's relationship evolved from 'playful besties' to 'frosty and fraught,' beofre relations were severed were good by Brooklyn's bombshell statement

Victoria Beckhamand Nicola Peltz’s relationship evolved from ‘playful besties’ to ‘frosty and fraught,’ beofre relations were severed were good by Brooklyn’s bombshell statement

‘His gripes start early with his ”For my entire life…” opener and his ”storing it” trait comes from his ‘I have been silent for years’. He states that, like the Truman Show, he was ”Born into a life of inauthentic relationships.” 

‘So, was that what the fans were being served in the earlier body language poses between Nicola and Victoria, when things were looking frosty, fraught and a little less than idyllic, or was the playful joy of their more recent poses the actual fake news? 

‘Because the body language narrative we’ve been shown of this relationship appears to define waves of growing closeness, warmth and even strong friendship after earlier signals of awkwardness, division and perma-frost.’

In the wake of Brooklyn’s statement, a 2023 clip emerged that showed a stony-faced Nicola posing with Brooklyn’s family at the premiere of David Beckham’s Netflix docuseries.

The video offered a hint at tensions brewing behind the scenes, with Judy echoing this point by noting how the actress looked ‘uncomfortable’ and was attempting to ‘cold-shoulder’ the family .

She said: ‘An air of frost appeared to have descended early, as this family line-up grouping of the new, extended Beckham family appeared rather off-brand in terms of emotional unity and closeness. 

‘Victoria, David et al were posing up a red-carpet storm here and Brooklyn and Nicola went to join them. 

‘Nicola glanced at Victoria as though questioning how to pose or how she was going to be included but there was no place at the bosom of the family, instead she was placed down at the end of the line-up.

The once-close pair are now no longer speaking after a feud between Brooklyn and his family, which began last year, turned nuclear overnight

The once-close pair are now no longer speaking after a feud between Brooklyn and his family, which began last year, turned nuclear overnight

Body language expert Judi James has picked apart how relations deteriorated between Victoria and Nicola, noting that Brooklyn attempted to please 'the Queen Bees in his life'

Body language expert Judi James has picked apart how relations deteriorated between Victoria and Nicola, noting that Brooklyn attempted to please ‘the Queen Bees in his life’

In the wake of Brooklyn's statement, a 2023 clip emerged that showed a stony-faced Nicola posing with Brooklyn's family at the premiere of David Beckham's Netflix docuseries

In the wake of Brooklyn’s statement, a 2023 clip emerged that showed a stony-faced Nicola posing with Brooklyn’s family at the premiere of David Beckham’s Netflix docuseries 

‘The following rituals seemed to show a sandwich-filling Brooklyn trying to please both the Queen Bees in his life, leaning in behind his mother with the signature fixed social smile for the cameras while throwing out gestural bread-crumbs to lure Nicola in to pose close beside him. 

‘You can hear the photographers calling out for a move to the middle here but Nicola appeared reluctant and its Brooklyn placing a hand round her waist to gently coax her into a nice cosy huddle.

‘Nicola’s unsmiling facial expression made her appear reluctant and uncomfortable. She pushed her chin into the air but only seemed to manage a lifting of the upper lip to hint at a weak smile. 

‘Brooklyn was even walking backwards into the lineup at one point, to apparently lure her in gently, but his hand on his waistband suggested some inner awkwardness or anxiety here. 

‘Victoria’s chosen pose didn’t slip and, with her torso turning slightly inward towards her husband, the look (unfairly) was suggested to be one of cold-shouldering the couple here.’

By the time Victoria and Nicola posed together again at the premiere of the actress’ film Lola, it seems they were trying to dispel rumours of a feud.

At the time, rumours were rife that all was not well in the Beckham clan, with claims Victoria and Nicola had fallen out after the former pulled out of designer her daughter-in-law’s wedding dress.

The pair’s attempts to maintain that relations were friendly were evident, with Judi noting: ‘The two women gave a red-carpet performance of playful affection here. Nicola looked excited to be with Victoria and her gestures and body language suggested no ounce of reservation about being anything but relaxed in her company.

‘Her poses give off vibes of being a non-verbal ‘disruptor’ here, throwing one arm around Victoria’s neck and letting it dangle there as though she was hanging with one of her besties.

‘The arm looked proprietorial and she appeared to be gently flaunting their relationship as though happy to boast to the press about her pride in her fabulous trophy mother-in-law. 

The video offered a hint at tensions brewing behind the scenes, with Judy echoing this point by noting how the actress looked 'uncomfortable'

The video offered a hint at tensions brewing behind the scenes, with Judy echoing this point by noting how the actress looked ‘uncomfortable’

By the time Victoria and Nicola posed together again at the premiere of the actress' film Lola, it seems they were trying to dispel rumours of a feud

By the time Victoria and Nicola posed together again at the premiere of the actress’ film Lola, it seems they were trying to dispel rumours of a feud

Reacting to a clip of Victoria and Nicola dancing together to a Spice Girls hit, Judi said this only helped to 'drive' the narrative that they were still close after rumours of a family feud

Reacting to a clip of Victoria and Nicola dancing together to a Spice Girls hit, Judi said this only helped to ‘drive’ the narrative that they were still close after rumours of a family feud 

The clip has gained new attention in the wake of Brooklyn's statement, after he accused his mother of hijacking his first dance with Nicola at their 2022 wedding

The clip has gained new attention in the wake of Brooklyn’s statement, after he accused his mother of hijacking his first dance with Nicola at their 2022 wedding

‘Nicola’s wide, teeth-baring grin came with her chin pushed out towards the cameras to register that pride in Victoria, but it might need to go on record that Victoria was not matching the energy or the playfulness of Nicola.

‘Victoria’s poses are legendary and very much part of the brand. Her response to the casualness of Nicole was to adhere to her chosen pose, coping with the hanging arm disruption by gently clutching Nicole’s fingers. 

‘Nicole looked here like the wave of playful energy blasting through the Beckham brand and maybe melting Victoria’s constant desire for pose perfection.’

Victoria and Nicola’s public displays of family continued when the pair danced along to the Spice Girls hit Wannabe at the Lola premiere party in 2024.

Judi noted that this only helped to drive the ‘narrative’ that Victoria and Nicola were close, saying: ‘Poses of the two women partying together seemed to plug the ”besties” narrative. 

‘Nicole and Victoria were burning up the dancefloor together, throwing their arms in the air and enjoying each other’s company.

‘Only one photo gave possible clues to a more territorial approach when Nicole stood talking to Brooklyn and his mother and Victoria appeared to have an arm of ownership around her son’s neck as he stood laughing.’

In happier times, Victoria also shared a video of Nicola dancing with her on the beach to celebrate her 29th birthday in 2024.

‘Happy birthday @NicolaAnnePeltzBeckham… We love you so much!! Your love, kindness, talent and your ability to dance on sand in a major wedge!!

‘The best dance partner and loving daughter in law. We love you, have an amazing day!!!!! Xxxxxx,’ the designer wrote.

Judi noted that at this time it seemed the pair were displaying the ‘ultimate act of friendship and closeness.’

She said: ‘These video clips showed us two women in what might be the ultimate act of friendship and closeness. 

‘As the sun is going down and apparently alone on an idyllic beach, they dance together like besties on a hen night in Brighton. 

‘There is no filter and no inhibitions, they both look infused with the joy of being alive and having fun while the camera appears to monitor them from a furtive distance. The signals here are of trust and uninhibited shared fun. 

‘For fans of the Victoria Beckham granite poses it was good to see her letting her hair down and relaxing.’

While this final clip seemed to show Nicola and Victoria’s relationship in far happier times, relations have signficantly broken down since then.

Brooklyn took to Instagram on Monday night to share a six-page statement where he said he has no wish to reconcile with his family.

Brooklyn and his wife Nicola have been at the heart of the acrimonious divide that has resulted in them snubbing all significant family celebrations over recent months, including his father David’s milestone 50th birthday and knighthood.

The chef went as far as to say he has been ‘controlled by a family that values public promotion above all else’ and that since being with his wife Nicola, he has found ‘peace and relief’ after battling crippling anxiety.

Brooklyn also claimed Victoria, who has her own fashion brand, cancelled making Nicola’s wedding dress at the ‘eleventh hour’ and hijacked their first dance which left him so ’embarrassed’ they decided to renew their vows without his family last year.

Rumours of tension first emerged after the actress sported a stunning couture Valentino bridal dress, after previous reports she would wear a design from Victoria. 

While Victoria is yet to comment on all the allegations Brooklyn has made about his famous family, David has had to face the public while attending the World Economic Forum in Davos.

While there, David recorded a podcast about ‘resilience, failure, regret and disappointment’, which is expected to be released on Wednesday.

David had looked weary-eyed and struggled to smile minutes before, no doubt full of concern over his son’s very public broadside to his family. 

Brooklyn Beckham’s statement in full

I have been silent for years and made every effort to keep these matters private. Unfortunately, my parents and their team have continued to go to the press, leaving me with no choice but to speak for myself and tell the truth about only some of the lies that have been printed.

I do not want to reconcile with my family. I’m not being controlled, I’m standing up for myself for the first time in my life. For my entire life, my parents have controlled narratives in the press about our family. The performative social media posts, family events and inauthentic relationships have been a fixture of the life I was born into.

Recently, I have seen with my own eyes the lengths that they’ll go through to place countless lies in the media, mostly at the expense of innocent people, to preserve their own facade. But I believe the truth always comes out.

My parents have been trying endlessly to ruin my relationship since before my wedding, and it hasn’t stopped. My mum cancelled making Nicola’s dress in the eleventh hour despite how excited she was to wear her design, forcing her to urgently find a new dress. 

Weeks before our big day, my parents repeatedly pressured and attempted to bribe me into signing away the rights to my name, which would have affected me, my wife, and our future children.

They were adamant on me signing before my wedding date because then the terms of the deal would be initiated. My holdout affected the payday, and they have never treated me the same since. 

During the wedding planning, my mum went so far as to call me “evil” because Nicola and I chose to include my Nanny Sandra, and Nicola’s Naunni at our table, because they both didn’t have their husbands. Both of our parents had their own tables equally adjacent to ours.

The night before our wedding, members of my family told me that Nicola was “not blood” and “not family.” Since the moment I started standing up for myself with my family, I’ve received endless attacks from my parents, both privately and publicly, that were sent to the press on their orders.

Even my brothers were sent to attack me on social media, before they ultimately blocked me out of nowhere this last Summer. 

My mum hijacked my first dance with my wife, which had been planned weeks in advance to a romantic love song. In front of our 500 wedding guests, Marc Anthony called me to the stage, where in the schedule was planned to be my romantic dance with my wife but instead my mum was waiting to dance with me instead. 

She danced very inappropriately on me in front of everyone. I’ve never felt more uncomfortable or humiliated in my entire life. We wanted to renew our vows so we could create new memories of our wedding day that bring us joy and happiness, not anxiety and embarrassment.

My wife has been consistently disrespected by my family, no matter how hard we’ve tried to come together as one. My mum has repeatedly invited women from my past into our lives in ways that were clearly intended to make us both uncomfortable.

Despite this, we still travelled to London for my dad’s birthday and were rejected for a week as we waited in our hotel room trying to plan quality time with him. He refused all of our attempts, unless it was at his big birthday party with a hundred guests and cameras at every corner.

When he finally agreed to see me, it was under the condition that Nicola wasn’t invited. It was a slap in the face. Later, when my family travelled to LA, they refused to see me at all.

My family values public promotion and endorsements above all else. Brand Beckham comes first. Family “love” is decided by how much you post on social media, or how quickly you drop everything to show up and pose for a family photo opp, even if it’s at the expense of our professional obligations.

We’ve gone out of our way for years to show up and support at every fashion show, every party, and every press activity to show ‘our perfect family.’ But the one time my wife asked for my mum’s support to save displaced dogs during the LA fires, my mum refused.

The narrative that my wife controls me is completely backwards. I have been controlled by my parents for most of my life. I grew up with overwhelming anxiety. For the first time in my life, since stepping away from my family, that anxiety has disappeared.

I wake up every morning grateful for the life I chose, and have found peace and relief. My wife and I do not want a life shaped by image, press, or manipulation. All we want peace, privacy and happiness for us and our future family.

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