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Three years have passed since the tragic death of Stephen “tWitch” Boss, yet tensions remain high between his mother, Connie Boss Alexander, and his widow, Allison Holker, as they continue their legal disputes.
According to court documents filed in September 2025, Connie Boss Alexander claimed that Allison Holker has prevented her and other family members from communicating with or visiting the children of the late entertainer. “Unfortunately, shortly after my son’s passing, Allison refused to allow me or any other members of our family to communicate with or see the minor children,” Alexander alleged, according to a report by the Daily Mail on Wednesday, February 18. “At times, contact would be cut off altogether and only resumed after I reached out repeatedly. Over time, our communication became increasingly infrequent, and at this point, we’re no longer in contact despite my numerous attempts.”
Alexander emphasized her desire to maintain a connection with the children, stating, “I believe it is in the best interests of the children to continue to have a relationship with their father’s family, especially now that he is no longer present in their lives.”
She expressed hope that the court would grant her a limited grandparent visitation arrangement that respects Holker’s parental rights and does not disrupt the children’s lives. “My hope is that this Court can grant me limited grandparent visitation in a way that neither infringes on Allison’s autonomy nor disrupts their life,” she added in her filing.
Meanwhile, Holker, who has since moved her family to Utah, reportedly countered that Alexander seldom reaches out to the children and has declined invitations to visit them.
“If Connie had called to speak to the children between April and September 2025 the children would likely have told her about our move as they were very excited about it and told everyone. At all times Connie has had all of the children’s contact information, including my telephone number and email and my assistant’s email and telephone number,” the DWTS alum, 38, alleged in her February 2 filing.
Holker has three children, daughter Weslie, 17, from a previous relationship, and son Maddox, 9, and daughter Zaia, 6, with the late dancer. She has since moved on and is engaged to fiancé Adam Edmunds.
Alexander’s lawsuit, which she filed in California, was dismissed on February 11 due to lack of jurisdiction.