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Meet Max and Laurie: Roommates Redefining Modern Living with 54 Years Between Them

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There’s a 54-year age gap between Melburnians Laurie Darby and Max Flett, but the retired teacher had no problems welcoming her 23-year-old gardener into her spare room.

Faced with an empty bedroom and mounting expenses, Darby suggested an innovative solution: intergenerational home sharing, after hearing about Flett’s housing difficulties.

“She simply said, ‘I’ve got a spare room. Why not give me some cash, and you can stay here while you study,'” Flett recounted.

Laurie Darby and Max Flett intergenerational living story February 19 2026
Laurie Darby and Max Flett intergenerational living story February 19 2026 (Nine)

“My doctor even asked, ‘Do you trust this man?’ and I confidently replied, ‘Absolutely,'” Darby shared.

The gardener, who is also an aspiring comedian, moved into Darby’s home, where he stayed for nearly a year and a half.

“He quickly realized that I wasn’t going to impose any rules, except regarding the tea towels,” Darby noted.

Flett and Darby are part of a growing movement matching older landlords with renters, in a bid to offer a quick fix to one of the country’s biggest problems.

About 13 million spare bedrooms are sitting empty across Australia while young people are struggling to find a home.

While the pair met by chance, others are connecting through a social enterprise called Life Shared.

Laurie Darby and Max Flett intergenerational living story February 19 2026
Laurie Darby and Max Flett intergenerational living story February 19 2026 (Nine)

Co-founder Jacinta Duffy believes the concept could be the answer to Australia’s rental crisis.

“We are a matching service and we’re also a monitoring service, so the matching is really intensive, and it is doing background checks, it is doing police checks,” Duffy said.

Advocates are calling on the government to help unlock the millions of spare rooms across the country, with concerns current legislation could penalise aged pensioners for opening their door to those looking for a home.

Queensland University of Technology’s Dr Lyndall Bryant said intergenerational home sharing happens “all over the world”.

Laurie Darby and Max Flett intergenerational living story February 19 2026
Laurie Darby and Max Flett intergenerational living story February 19 2026 (Nine)

“It just doesn’t have a big take-up in Australia because it’s not well understood,” Bryant said.

“We can fix this crisis right now, and the government could fix it at the swipe of a pen,” Queensland University of Technology’s Dr Lyndall Bryant said.

“We have our existing housing stock, let’s use it more effectively and build community.”

It’s certainly worked out well for Flett, who was able to move out with savings, plus lots of material for his show at the Melbourne Comedy Festival.

Meanwhile, Darby’s in the market for a new roomie.

“Well, Max says get somebody else, and I said I’ll never get another Max, but I have thought about it,” she said.

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