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Clay Gravesande and AD Smith: Relationship Ends
Clay Gravesande had long been wary of marriage, influenced by his father’s infidelity, yet AD Smith remained hopeful about their future as a couple. Despite these reassurances, the relationship took a turn when the wedding day arrived.
Standing at the altar, Clay made a surprising decision. Instead of committing to a lifetime together, he chose to say “I don’t.” He explained to AD that it would be “irresponsible” to marry when he wasn’t fully prepared to take that step.
The revelation left many stunned.
“I’m willing to put in the effort for you,” Clay told AD. “We’ll navigate this journey as a team. Regardless of what others think, I know I’m not ready for marriage, and you deserve someone who can give you their all. If I can’t offer you 100 percent, I can’t move forward with marriage at this point. I simply can’t say yes right now.”
It was a revelation that made AD declare through tears that the relationship was a waste of her “f–king time.”
As for Clay, he also revealed that financial—and emotional—ties played a big part in him walking away. “I looked at myself in the mirror and said, ‘Am I a husband?’” he admitted, “and the answer was no. Am I deeply in love? The answer was no.’”
During the reunion, Clay expressed that he made a mistake and wanted to date AD, but she played coy on if she’d ever consider getting back together.
AD confessed that she did go on a couple dates with costar Matthew Duliba after filming wrapped, but they are not together.
She announced in May 2025 she’s expecting her first baby with fiancé Ollie Sutherland.