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Sydney Mum Thought She Finally Found The One on a Cruise

A Sydney woman hoping for a long-awaited shot at love believed she had met her real-life Prince Charming on a luxury cruise — until an unexpected message from his hidden fiancée brought the fantasy crashing down.

Sammi, a 44-year-old mother-of-one, crossed paths with 41-year-old Brit Liam McAuley during a nine-day cruise from Sydney to the Whitsundays in August, and said she was quickly captivated by the charming passenger.

For years, romance had taken a back seat in Sammi’s life after she devoted herself to caring for her son, Jett, following his diagnosis with an aggressive form of brain cancer 14 years earlier.

McAuley, whom she nicknamed “Mr UK,” appeared to say all the right things, treating her to lavish dates and even introducing her to his mother as their cruise romance intensified.

By the end of the voyage, the pair were so close that other passengers reportedly assumed they were a long-married couple rather than two strangers who had only just met at sea.

And when the trip ended, the couple vowed to carry on their romance despite living on opposite sides of the world. 

Lovestruck Sammi posted a string of photos of them both on social media and gushed: ‘This girl is no longer single.’

But her world came crashing down when a message from Mr McAuley’s fiancée appeared among the hundreds of comments congratulating her. 

Sydney woman Sammi thought she had finally found the man of her dreams on a luxury cruise holiday

Sydney woman Sammi thought she had finally found the man of her dreams on a luxury cruise holiday 

Sammi, 44, met British holidaymaker Liam McAuley, 41, while sailing from Sydney to the Whitsunday Islands on a nine-day cruise in August

Sammi, 44, met British holidaymaker Liam McAuley, 41, while sailing from Sydney to the Whitsunday Islands on a nine-day cruise in August

‘I was humiliated and heartbroken,’ she told the Daily Mail. ‘I genuinely had no idea and now people are saying I’m a homewrecker.

‘Yes I was caught up in a beautiful holiday romance, the kind you see on movies, but I’m not an idiot.

‘I asked the right questions, I met his mum, I spoke to his sister, I looked out for all the signs.’

Sammi had previously sworn off men after a run of bad dates but booked the holiday with her son Jett, 18, to celebrate his girlfriend’s birthday with her family.

‘I almost cancelled the whole thing,’ she said. ‘A few months before, I’d decided to put myself out there to meet someone.

‘I even started to share my journey on TikTok to keep myself accountable and encourage other women to do the same but most of my dates had been awful.

‘I did meet one lovely guy in April and we were planning to see each other again, then suddenly he stopped messaging and I found out on Facebook he’d died.

‘After that I just said, that’s it, I’m not doing this anymore and needed a break.’

But on the second day of the luxury trip Sammi had a change of heart.

‘I was all dressed in my Carla Zampatti gown for an elegant evening, had done my psychic reading and was like, “Girl, this is it”,’ she said.

‘I went to the nightclub by myself and that’s when I saw “Mr UK” and I was like, “who the heck is that”. 

Sammi dubbed her holiday dreamboat Mr UK

Sammi dubbed her holiday dreamboat Mr UK

Sammi says she was swept off her feet by the handsome Brit

Sammi says she was swept off her feet by the handsome Brit 

‘He was 6’1 [185cm] and so handsome. We chatted, he was funny, he had banter, we danced, and oh boy, could he dance and that British accent. He took my breath away.’

The night ended with a kiss and the pair quickly became inseparable.

‘He merged with my big family, I merged with his big family and the funniest thing is people actually thought we had been married for years,’ she said.

‘We just clicked, like really clicked, and it changed my world.’

During the trip, Sammi decided to continue posting TikToks about her dating experience. 

She poured her heart out as thousands of people started to follow along for the next instalment.

‘I was having the best time, but I was being realistic because I knew this man lived on the other side of the world,’ she said.

‘As I was posting about him I could see some comments saying he was love bombing me and that he probably had a wife at home.

‘But one of the first things I asked him was if he was married, if he was single – and he said he was.

During the trip she began sharing her story to her TikTok account which went viral

During the trip she began sharing her story to her TikTok account which went viral

Sammi poured her heart out about falling in love on the ship

Sammi poured her heart out about falling in love on the ship

‘Plus I had met his mum too and she was just so lovely to me, I knew there couldn’t be anything to worry about.

‘It wasn’t just that either, he wasn’t secretive with his phone, he used my charger and didn’t try to hide it or go off to take calls.

‘I was looking for signs because I had been cheated on before and that’s one of the reasons I stayed single for so long because I just didn’t trust anyone… but Liam was different.’

After the trip ended and Mr McAuley headed to the airport to fly home, Sammi realised she was falling in love.

‘I thought I would be ok but I wasn’t, I cried and cried. We spent 18 hours together every day for nine days so it’s kind of like dating someone for six months,’ she said. 

‘We promised to meet in Italy for the next school holidays and I was excited about that but as I was driving home, he messaged me to come back to the airport because he had extended his stay by another week.

‘And that was it, I was no longer single and falling in love. Of course, I had to fall in love with a guy who lives in the UK but I had never met anyone like him, he was witty, flirtatious and so unbelievably kind.

When McAuley headed to the airport Sammi broke down

When McAuley headed to the airport Sammi broke down 

‘We discussed long distance and relationship visas and even money. 

‘We had hard conversations and I told him if it worked out, he’d never get my house because it was for Jett and he agreed and said he would sign anything.’

Then last week, on the day McAuley was due to leave, Sammi woke up to frantic messages from a friend telling her to check her TikTok.

‘My videos had blown up and there were hundreds of comments from people saying that Liam was in an eight-year relationship with his fiancée back in the UK,’ she said.

Sammi said while she didn’t want to believe what she was reading, his long-term fiancée was among those who had commented. 

‘Hi, I am Liam, AKA Mr UK’s fiancée of eight years. I’m not one to publicly post, but I’ve been left no choice, happy for you to message me,’ it read.

Sammi immediately confronted him: ‘I woke Liam up and at first he denied it but then he told me it was true but complicated. I told him to pack his things and go.

‘He was already leaving that day anyway so I drove him to the train station in silence. He kissed me and said, “I have never loved anyone as much as I loved you” and he left.

‘My heart wanted it to work but my brain knew it couldn’t.

‘He is gone now and I have been humiliated online and people think I knew – or at least feel I should have seen the warning signs, but there weren’t any. 

When one of her TikTok videos went viral, Sammi received a message from Mr UK's secret fiancée

When one of her TikTok videos went viral, Sammi received a message from Mr UK’s secret fiancée 

Sammi says she was humiliated by the betrayal

Sammi says she was humiliated by the betrayal 

‘I feel awful for his partner. No one deserved that.’

Mr McAuley, now back in the UK, told the Daily Mail he had handled the situation badly but he still believes they can make it work.

‘Sammi knows how sorry I am for how it all ended and we both know what we feel is real,’ he said. 

‘It will take some work to get back to where we were.

‘I’m also sorry for hurting [my fiancée], even if in my head it had been over for a while but the way I have been portrayed by her family and friends is downright vindictive.

‘Sammi changed my view on what happiness can be like and I have to live with the fact I ruined it.

‘I’m not sure what the future holds but I’m along for the ride.’ 

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