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Kenedi Hyler, a 30-year-old woman from the United States, has embarked on the journey of bringing three children into the world as a commercial surrogate. While this path has brought her fulfillment, it hasn’t been without its share of criticism. People have accused her of “playing God,” claimed she is doing a disservice to her son, or even charged her with “selling her body.”
Hyler is candid about her motivations, acknowledging that while financial compensation is not the sole reason for her involvement in surrogacy, it certainly provides a welcome benefit.
However, she has faced plenty of judgement along the way — from people who say things like she’s playing God, doing a disservice to her son, or selling her body.
“It’s not all about the money, but it’s definitely helpful.”

Kenedi Hyler, 30, has given birth to three children as a commercial surrogate in the United States. Source: Supplied
The American surrogate says she wouldn’t have pursued surrogacy so often if there was no compensation.
One of the families Kenedi carried a baby for lives in Australia, where currently there is a nationwide review into our surrogacy laws, policies and practices.
The state of surrogacy in Australia
But the ALRC is reviewing this standpoint and has been asked by the attorney-general to make recommendations for regulating surrogacy.
There was a rise in 2023-24, with approximately 361 Australian children being born through overseas surrogacy. The private Facebook community Surrogacy Community Australia has over 3,000 members, many of them Australians exploring surrogacy both domestically and internationally.

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Some Australian couples have felt forced to seek surrogacy overseas due to its lack of accessibility in Australia, where there is a shortage of altruistic surrogates.
Anthony Fisk and his partner experienced this firsthand.
Seeking commercial surrogacy abroad
They paid surrogates in Thailand and then Cambodia to carry their three children in 2014 and 2016, respectively.
This ban happened when their surrogate was six months pregnant. However, their first-born Celeste was able leave the country for Australia under an amnesty.

Joseph and Anthony with their three kids.
“We went again to Cambodia, where it was also legal … but this time was even harder,” Anthony said.
Last month, Western Australia passed legislation removing discriminatory barriers for people seeking surrogacy. This means that same-sex couples such as Anthony and Joseph could seek altruistic surrogacy in the state — although not until mid 2027.
Reviewing Australian surrogacy laws
Two of its main policy objectives include promoting the best interests of children and preventing exploitation of everyone involved, according to the Surrogacy Inquiry Discussion Paper.
Additional ideas proposed by the ALRC regarding Australian surrogacy reform include establishing a nationwide legal and regulatory framework, implementing safeguard screenings and providing legal advice at the outset of a surrogacy arrangement, and establishing an administrative pathway to legal parentage.
Are the current surrogacy laws effective?
The Bond University assistant professor of law believes that proper regulation, instead of “blanket prohibition” is a better path for commercial surrogacy in Australia.
Prohibition does not prevent commercial surrogacy — it externalises it.
Dr Tammy Johnson
“Australia’s approach exports risk to other countries rather than managing it locally.”
Exploitation concerns
“However, I also am not convinced that domestic commercial surrogacy would be a better arrangement necessarily, insofar as I think that there are still possibilities for exploitation even when it’s regulated in Australia.”
The sorts of people who would be involved in the market are not necessarily willing participants, but rather because of situations of social disadvantage.
Dr Xavier Symons
“And the sorts of people who would be involved in the market are not necessarily willing participants, but rather because of situations of social disadvantage.”
Reproductive autonomy
“As well as the clinic getting 15 or 20 grand, why can’t she also pay her bills and look after herself if something goes wrong?”

Alice Clarke was Australia’s first IVF surrogacy-conceived person. Source: SBS