In a recent discussion with SBS Examines, clinical psychologist Amanda Gordon highlighted a rising trend among families who are turning to professionals for guidance on addressing antisemitism with their children. This concern is prompting parents to seek advice on how to initiate these important conversations at home.
Gordon emphasized that discussions about antisemitism need to be tailored to children’s developmental stages. Young children require a different approach compared to teenagers, as they process information differently. It’s crucial to adapt the conversation to suit their level of understanding and maturity.
Olga Weintraub Elia, an early childhood educator, believes that even the youngest children can grasp the basic concepts of kindness and inclusivity. She advises parents not to delve into complex political explanations but to focus on key values such as fairness, kindness, and respect. Through these values, children can begin to understand and appreciate diversity.
Conversely, Shoshana, who teaches high school students, notes that guiding teenagers through these conversations can be more complex. Adolescents are more likely to encounter diverse perspectives and may require a more nuanced discussion that acknowledges their ability to engage with more sophisticated ideas and social issues.
“You don’t need to provide some political explanations, but you can talk about fairness, being kind, being respectful,” she said.
Shoshana, a teacher of high school students, said it can be harder to navigate these conversations with teenagers.
It’s not if they’ve seen antisemitism, it’s when they’ve seen antisemitism.
Shoshana said her students often shared jokes or memes online without realising they had antisemitic origins.
“You have to be able to just talk to them about it, frankly … model to them what rational thought looks like when it comes to things like antisemitism and racism.”
In this week’s episode, SBS Examines asks — how should we talk to children about antisemitism?
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