Heartbroken parents fight to find out why Tommy lived for only 23 days
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Tommy Starkie’s grieving parents are on a quest to uncover the reasons behind their son’s brief life, which lasted just 23 days.

In August, Tommy was delivered at Western Australia’s sole public maternity hospital, weighing a healthy 4.1 kilograms, and was considered full-term.

Yet, within a month, Alana and Paul Starkie, farmers from Manjimup, found themselves mourning the loss of their newborn son.

Manjimup farmers Paul and Alana Starkie are mourning son Tommy’s death. (9News)

“My son, our son, was born without signs of life, not breathing, without a heartbeat,” Mrs. Starkie shared with 9News.

“They managed to resuscitate him after two minutes, and though he survived for 23 days, he suffered from devastating brain damage,” she added.

They were left with just his ashes, a few precious memories and unimaginable grief.

“You never think that’s going to happen, you don’t think that’ll happen, that’s what happened,” Mr Starkie said.

The final stage of Mrs Starkie’s labour is yet to be explained.

Aged 37 and considered a high-risk pregnancy, she was induced at 38 weeks and six days.

Tommy Starkie’s heartbroken parents are determined to find out why he lived for only 23 days. (9News)

During her 5½ hours of labour she was seen by midwives, not an obstetrician, normal practice at King Edward Memorial Hospital.

It’s the last hour she’s desperate for answers about.

Mrs Starkie said her contractions stopped and it was only when Tommy became stuck – a condition  known as shoulder dystocia – that a code blue was called and an obstetrician came, releasing him.

“I couldn’t cope with the pain and I told them that and I said, ‘Something’s wrong, something’s wrong, something’s not right, I’m in so much pain, we need to get this baby out, we need to cut the baby out’, that’s what I told them,” Mrs Starkie said.

Paul and Alana Starkie were looking forward to welcoming their fourth child. (9News)

The couple has since met with doctors at King Edward but have had to request Mrs Starkie’s medical records from the birth via freedom of information laws.

They were told that could take three months. The process was sped up once police became involved but the Starkies were still yet to receive their son’s medical record.

“They have that data, we couldn’t get it, we’re begging for this,” Mr Starkie said.

“You can imagine, our son’s not moving, we’re trying to ascertain what’s wrong.   

“You ask the question, ‘Can we have that answer’, in an ‘open disclosure’ meeting in black and white.

“We couldn’t get it. We couldn’t get it.”

It’s hard to imagine but Mrs Starkie’s experience gets worse. 

It’s hard to imagine but Alana Starkie’s experience gets worse. (9News)

When she was still in pain after being discharged five days after giving birth, her GP in Bridgetown sent her for an MRI, which revealed she’d been sent home with a tear in her uterus. 

She said staff at King Edward didn’t mention the uterine tear despite a hospital ultrasound on September 1 finding the “possibility of a uterine or broad ligament structure tear” and “significant volume of hemoperitoneum” or internal bleeding.

“I didn’t find that out because the hospital didn’t tell me,” Mrs Starkie said.

North Metropolitan Health Service chief executive Robert Toms said it was undertaking a “thorough investigation into the care provided”.

“We apologise sincerely to Mrs Starkie for her and her family’s distress and are deeply saddened by their loss,” he said.

The Starkies called it “a disgrace”.

“I walked in there with a healthy full term baby and now he’s in here,” Mrs Starkie said.

“We’re one of the wealthiest places in the world that can’t be our standard of care.”

The investigation into Tommy’s death is known as a severity assessment code 1 (SAC 1), saved for the most serious instances of harm in a hospital.

The coroner is also investigating. 

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