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Stephen Miller, a prominent advisor to former President Donald Trump, shares a notable age difference with his wife, Katie Miller, with whom he tied the knot on February 16, 2020. As of October 2025, Stephen is 40 years old, having been born on August 23, 1985, the same year “Back to the Future” captivated audiences as the top-grossing film. Katie, on the other hand, was born on October 4, 1991, during the era when “Terminator 2: Judgment Day” was a box office smash, making her 34. Such age disparities are not uncommon among celebrities and public figures, and this difference might shed light on some of the intriguing aspects of Stephen and Katie’s marriage.
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Both Stephen and Katie Miller have frequently found themselves in the media spotlight due to their candid remarks about their relationship. Katie attracted considerable attention when she shared intimate details during an appearance on Jesse Watters’ Fox News program, as reported by The Independent. Watters humorously dubbed her “the envy of all women” for being married to Stephen, to which Katie responded by calling her husband a “sexual matador.” She elaborated, saying, “He is an incredibly inspiring man who motivates me each morning with his speeches about defeating the left and winning the day.”
Unsurprisingly, Katie’s colorful portrayal of her husband’s romantic abilities sparked a flurry of reactions online. Meanwhile, Stephen Miller himself has never shied away from sharing his thoughts on relationships, often striking a controversial chord.
Despite not being widely regarded as a relationship expert, Stephen has offered advice to young Republican men seeking to find a partner. During another interview with Jesse Watters, he suggested integrating political allegiance into dating strategies. “If you’re a young man during election season wanting to impress and attract, the best thing you can do is openly support Trump,” he advised, as cited by The Independent. He added, “Show that you’re not a beta. Be proud and loud as a Trump supporter, and your dating life will thrive.”
Whether Stephen’s own devotion to Trump played a role in winning over Katie is uncertain. However, Katie did reveal that a conversation about border security was pivotal in their relationship. In a podcast affiliated with Breitbart in September 2025, Katie recounted, “I was the chief spokesperson when we closed the border to build the wall. Stephen and I ended up in numerous meetings together, discussing border security.” She fondly remembered, “Our first one-on-one conversation happened as I prepared for my debut radio interview with Matt Boyle’s show.” It’s a love story with a political twist.
Stephen Miller shared interesting dating advice to right-wingers
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Stephen Miller doesn’t exactly give off relationship guru vibes, but that hasn’t stopped him from dishing out relationship advice to young Republican men, who may be looking to land a wife like he did. Unsurprisingly, he weaved Donald Trump into the mix during his own interview with Jesse Watters. He said: “If you are a young man — it’s very important in election season — who’s looking to impress the ladies, to be the alpha, to be attractive … The best thing you can do is wear your Trump support on your sleeve” (via the Independent). He continued, “Show that you are a real man. Show that you are not a beta. Right? Be a proud and loud Trump supporter and your dating life will be fantastic.”
It’s unclear if Stephen’s own Trump devotion is how he landed his wife, Katie Miller. But apparently, a convo about border security was a key aspect in the MAGA couple’s love story. Katie shared as much on a Breitbart-affiliated podcast in September 2025. “I was the chief spokesperson when we shut down the border to build the wall,” Katie explained during the interview (via the Daily Beast). “And as luck would have it, Stephen and I ended up in a lot of meetings together, talking about securing the border.” She continued, “Our first one-on-one conversation actually came when I was preparing for my very first radio interview, on Matt Boyle’s show.” It’s like a fairy tale, really.
