Taylor Swift and Selena Gomez’s Heartfelt ‘Godmother Pact’ Unveiled: What It Means for Fans

It’s unlikely that Blake Lively will become a godmother to Taylor Swift’s future children, and not only due to their recent falling out. Sources reveal that Selena Gomez, rather than Lively, is the front-runner for this cherished role. Swift and Lively’s friendship blossomed in the mid-2010s, with the pair often seen together. Before rumors of a rift emerged—reportedly tied to Lively’s legal issues with Justin Baldoni—Swift was already a godmother to Lively and Ryan Reynolds’ daughters, while they also have one son.

Speculation suggests that Swift distanced herself from Lively following a string of negative publicity. As evidence of their estrangement, Lively and her family were notably absent from Swift’s wedding to Travis Kelce. Insider reports from the Daily Mail indicate that Lively was probably never a top contender for godmother anyway, given Swift’s long-standing friendship with Gomez. The “Shake It Off” singer and Gomez have been inseparable since the late 2000s, a bond much stronger than her history with Lively.

Allegedly, Swift and Gomez have pledged to be godmothers to each other’s kids. While Swift did not have bridesmaids at her wedding—details of which remain largely private—she did honor Gomez by speaking at her wedding. Early in 2026, fans noted that Gomez displayed a cherished photo of her and Swift as teenagers on her mantel, hinting at their profound connection that will likely extend to future godchildren.

Recent reports suggest Swift has distanced herself from Lively and Reynolds’ children. Sources have disclosed to the Daily Mail that Swift has even stepped down as their unofficial godmother. As there was no formal agreement, the relationship waned naturally as her friendship with Lively cooled. Nonetheless, insiders emphasize that Swift still cherishes Reynolds’ and Lively’s children, according to gossip from Rob Shuter’s Naughty But Nice Substack.

Connections with children often hinge on the parents’ relationships, and with Swift and Lively parting ways, her role in their lives has diminished. Though one source mentioned that choosing Gomez as godmother was “a slap in the face” for Lively, it seems she is not vying for the role. The practical decline in Swift’s interaction with Lively’s family precludes such a possibility. Meanwhile, Swift’s deeply rooted friendship with Gomez continues strong, suggesting this choice was best for all. Hopefully, the children are not too affected by her absence.