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Making it official? 90 Day Fiancé stars Usman “SojaBoy” Umar and Kimberly Menzies were one of the most captivating couples on season 5 of Before the 90 Days and the pair have since graduated to appear on the franchise spinoff, Happily Ever After?. With a nearly two-decade age gap and long-distance being factors in their relationship, fans are divided over if they will last in the end. Keep reading to find out the latest details on if Usman and Kimberly are still together.
Are Usman and Kimberly Still Together?
While the pair’s romantic connection didn’t look promising following the Before the 90 Days tell-all in April 2022, it seems the flames are still going strong with Usman changing the lyrics of “Zara,” which is about a former flame of his, to mention “Kimberly” instead in a recording booth session shared via Instagram Live in August 2022.
On top of those lyrical changes, the international lovers are back to document their love story on Happily Ever After?.
Returning for season 7, Kim is set to return to Nigeria to propose to Usman against the wishes of either of their families. While Kim’s adult son, Jamal, feels she’s rushing into the relationship, Usman’s mother would rather him be with a woman that can produce a grandchild.
While Kim is open to Usman taking a second wife, the San Diego native is adamant that she must be his first — despite his family’s determination to set him up with a younger partner.
Usman and Kim on ‘Before the 90 Days.’
Are Kimberly and SojaBoy Boyfriend and Girlfriend?
SojaBoy and Kimberly have both been outspoken about their feelings for each other, and unfortunately, that didn’t end up translating when the pair spent a night together on Before the 90 Days.
The “Zara” rapper explained to his new love that Nigerian culture frowns upon premarital sex, which is why he was moving more slowly with Kimberly than he did with ex-wife Lisa Robinson (née Hamme).
“It was a great first step that Usman stayed the night, but now, I want the other parts of it,” Kim admitted in her confessional in a January 2022 episode. “I want the kissing. I want the sex. I want the intimacy.”
“I’m really trying to be respectful of Usman’s culture, but we only have this time together before he goes back to Nigeria and I go back to the States,” she noted.
Since Kim only had a few days left in Tanzania, she applied pressure on Usman the following day and gave him an ultimatum: if they did not get intimate during this trip, she would no longer be interested in being friends with him and she would start dating other men when she returned to America.
Usman wasn’t ready to lose her, so he gave in, and they consummated their relationship in a February 2022 episode of the spinoff. The following morning Usman officially asked Kimberly to be his girlfriend and she accepted, which aired a week later. Once they became boyfriend and girlfriend, SojaBoy gave her the nickname “Queen Kimberly.”
Is Usman and Kim’s Relationship Real?
SojaBoy professed his love for Kimberly before their season of Before the 90 Days aired on TV, telling Entertainment Tonight in December 2021 that he adored her with “all my bones [and] my heart.”
The Bares All alum said that Kimberly initially had been a big fan of his and reached out to him personally via direct messages before they decided to meet face to face. He also discussed dating older women, telling the publication that his type is more correlated to “someone who is going to give me peace.”
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“Right now, I am in love,” he continued. “I love Kimberly, I can say that any way in the world. I love her. I’m not shy. I’m not ashamed. I am proud to say that I love her. I love her for real.”
How Does Kim Feel About Being In a Polygamous Relationship?
In a teaser clip from the September 18 episode shared by People, Kim and Usman got into a heated argument when he asked if she would allow him to have more wives.
While visiting Nigeria, Kim asked Usman’s friend KB about his polygamous lifestyle. After KB explained that he has two wives and nine children, Usman chimed in, “I have the potential to have nine [kids], you know. I don’t want to take [a] long time so why not have two more wives plus you four?”
Kim made it clear that she wasn’t a fan of the idea. “No, there’s no way … I can barely deal with one,” she replied. “I don’t give a damn.”
Usman wasn’t ready to give up on the idea and said, “If I have four wives plus you — like, I have three more. If this one gives twins, first birth, then the second wife give another maybe one or two. Before you know it, in just two, three years I can have like, 10 and we [are] done.”
“That is the dumbest thing I’ve ever heard. Look, we said one if I was cool with one,” Kim responded. “Now we are talking about three or four, no.”
Usman expressed his shock over Kim’s response in a confessional. “Kimberly cursing and being rude, giving me that kind of attitude and behavior, is unacceptable to any Nigerian man,” he said. “She’s being so mad. I started to doubt if Kimberly is actually okay with this idea of second wife. Maybe she was just saying that just to make me happy. I know it seems, in reality, she don’t think she can take it.”
As the couple continued to fight, Kim eventually had enough and stormed away as she splashed her milkshake at Usman.
Does SojaBoy’s Mom Approve of Kim?
Kim and SojaBoy were able to work past their issues and SojaBoy decided that he wanted to move forward with introducing Kim to his mother, Fadimatu. Before the formal introduction, SojaBoy visited his mom one on one so he could tell her about Kim in private. The first question that Fadimatu asked her son is how old was his new lady love. Fadimatu was not pleased when she learned Kim was 50 years old.
“God, really?” Fadimatu said. “As far as a request for marriage, I assure you that I won’t accept it.”
“I just want you to get married so that you will stop bringing such women from a far away world. And marry a fertile girl who is of tender age. I have a variety of girls among our people,” SojaBoy’s mom continued. “They are of different varieties. I cannot continue to sit by and watch you make mistakes. We want to celebrate in our way, so that one day we will be able to see your children.”
Fans will just have to wait and see if Kim ends up getting Fadimatu’s blessing.
90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? airs on TLC and Discovery+ on Sundays at 8 p.m. ET.
