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Matthew Richards addresses the court during his sentencing hearing on March 26, 2025, in Johnson County, Kansas (Law&Crime).
A youth pastor in Kansas will spend nearly three decades behind bars for stabbing his wife and kids because the family was going to be evicted from their home due to his piling debt.
District Judge Jason B. Billam sentenced 42-year-old Matthew Lee Richards on Wednesday to 188 months in prison for one count of attempted first-degree murder and another 165 months for a second count of second-degree murder. The sentences will run consecutively, for a total of 353 months behind bars which works out to 29 years and five months. Richards will receive credit for the 558 days already served.
Richards expressed emotion throughout the hearing, wiping away tears into his black and white jail garb. His mother and sister spoke on his behalf.
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“My little boy yesterday, my friend today, my friend forever,” his mother said as her son sat with his lawyer choking back tears. “Never forget that I am so proud of you and I love you more than anything in this world.”
His sister said she was speaking for herself and her brother’s wife who was present for the hearing but did not address the court. She said it was a unique case.
“This is not one where a bad guy did a bad thing,” she said, fighting back tears herself. “He’s a good guy that did a bad thing. There are consequences to this and no one is denying this situation. Nobody. We all know there’s consequences.”
But she argued that her brother’s kids should not be without their father for so long.
“He’s a wonderful man who helped everyone that he could,” she said. “He just didn’t know how to help himself.”
Her brother had an untreated mental illness that is now being addressed, she said.
Richards was most emotional when he stood and addressed the court.
“My actions have brought disgrace, shame, humiliation and sorrow on myself, my family, kids and classrooms, soccer fields, trusted friends and my community,” he said, his voice cracking throughout his statement. “This came from the shame that kept me from reviewing my faults and sins because I was afraid of the truth. I was afraid to ask for help. The shame and fear led me down a path that brought out not only disgrace but also violence into the lives of my family.”
He went on to say his “lies became my seeds and I buried them and they grew into a giant crop of consequences.”
“Not just for myself but for everyone around me as well,” he said.
Richards looked toward his family and apologized to them and asked for their forgiveness.
“While I do offer a short apology today, the most important words one day, hopefully soon, should be shared and will be shared in private moments when they are ready,” he said, pausing as he tried to gather himself.
Billam acknowledged the emotion of the case but said he was sticking with the agreed-upon plea and recommended sentence. Richards was originally charged with five counts of attempted first-degree murder and aggravated arson. Last month, he pleaded guilty to two counts of attempted first-degree murder, the Johnson County District Attorney’s Office said.
As Law&Crime previously reported, several 911 calls came in shortly before 4 a.m. on Sept. 16, 2023, for a house fire and a stabbing at a home in Shawnee, a suburb of Kansas City.
“One of the callers said their dad [was] chasing them with a knife and the dispatcher could hear a fire alarm sounding in the background,” the affidavit said. “An additional caller stated she had been stabbed.”
Officers arrived at the home and found three stab wound victims outside. Smoke was billowing from the home and an explosion occurred, which blew out the garage doors, investigators said. Detectives determined Richards’ wife, four sons, one of whom is 19 while the others are minors, and daughter were all stabbed. His wife was suffering from multiple stab wounds and was rushed to the hospital in critical condition, the affidavit said. Two of the children also suffered serious stab wounds.
One of the kids told officers “they were all in bed when dad came around stabbing everyone and they all ran outside. He stated his dad stabbed him,” the affidavit said. Officers took Richards out of the home and to the hospital for smoke inhalation. Once he was cleared, he told investigators “I stabbed my family” in an interview.
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“The defendant said that he had not been honest with his wife regarding their financial situation and the fact that they were supposed to be evicted that very day,” detectives wrote. “They had not packed anything and no one in the family knew they were being evicted.”
So Richards formulated a plan to burn down the house. He set the fire first and then grabbed a knife.
The next thing he remembered was his wife “on the ground and he was on top of her and struggling with her over the knife and she was screaming his name,” the affidavit said. She yelled for someone to call 911. He said he then recalled one of his children saying “dad has a knife” and followed the child until he escaped out the back.
Richards ventured to the top of the stairs “wanting to die,” investigators wrote.
“The defendant denied remembering stabbing the children,” the affidavit said. “He did admit that his [redacted]-year-old son, [redacted] said ‘dad why do you have the knife?’ when he was upstairs with the kids.”
Richards referred to himself as a “monster” and when a detective tried to minimize the statement, Richards allegedly said “I stabbed my kids, detective. I stabbed my wife.”
One of his sons suffered a horizontal slash wound across his neck, another son had stab wounds to the upper right chest and a “significant laceration across his abdomen and internal organs were exposed.” A third son had stab wounds to his colon, liver, neck and back. His daughter was slashed in the arm.
“According to a neighbor, they heard banging on their front door and opened the door and saw the children,” investigators wrote. “The children said their dad had gone from room to room throughout the house and stabbed them.”
Detectives found bloodstains all over the home.
The fire department was able to contain the fire, which was apparently started in the basement around a pile of clothing and wood, the affidavit said.
The normally quiet neighborhood was bustling with fire crews followed by police crime scene investigators and detectives.
“It’s sad, knowing that we’ve seen those kids out playing in their driveway, with their family. Dad’s walking the kids up and down the street with the dogs,” neighbor Jennifer Eggerman told ABC affiliate KMBC.
Richards had been a youth pastor at Crossroads Christian Church in Shawnee since 2016, his online bio said. He’s described on the church website as a “big kid who loves teaching little kids about Jesus” and has been married to his wife since 2003.
“He and his family have three rules: 1. Love God 2. Love People 3. Love Sports (especially the Jayhawks and Sporting KC),” says the bio, which appears to have been removed from the website.
The church’s senior pastor Kurt Witten released several statements on Facebook.
“The Crossroads Christian Church family is shocked, sickened, and saddened by [the] events involving our former children’s pastor. This is a tragedy beyond what any of us could have imagined,” he wrote, adding the church was giving support to the Richards family. “The road to recovery will be long — physically, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually. Please respect their privacy as they walk this incredibly challenging and painful road. Please join us as we continue to pray for and stand with them.”
The Shawnee Mission Post reported that Richards was also a seventh grade English teacher at Christ Prep Academy. The staff bio said one of his children recently graduated, while three currently attend the school. He previously taught at an international school in Austria and in Dallas, Texas. The bio has since been taken down.
Witten said the church had set up a fund to help the Richards family for expenses such as medical treatment, food and clothing.
