A Nigerian lady has shared a dramatic account of what happened after her friend, who was dating a married man, allegedly decided to confront the man’s wife and introduce herself as his side chick.

Taking to X, @Fareedatu002 recounted the tense showdown and its fallout, despite warning her friend of it being a bad idea.

According to the poster, the friend approached the wife expecting acknowledgement but was met with a firm denial from the married man, who reportedly insisted he did not know her.

The husband then warned the woman to stay away from him, “or else,” leaving the would-be confrontor shocked and embarrassed.

“My friend is dating a married man and is about to confront the wife. I’m so nervous for her. i was like girl what???????? okay the things i’m hearing from her are just frying my head now. okay this was unexpected 😭. that man is denying everything??????? why men are so 🤮.”

“The husband denied knowing her and it’s a Gameover for her.. And he warned her to stay out of his way or else …. It’s time for me to stay away from her before she follows my own man one day!!”

My friend is dating a married man and is about to confront the wife. I’m so nervous for her

— Rheedah 💗 (@Fareedatu002) September 26, 2025

The thread has drawn attention online as users debate the dangers of involvement in secret relationships and the risks of confronting partners’ spouses.

passionforana reacted: “As if the wife already didn’t have a hunch? As if the husband has any plans on leaving the wife? She just want to confront the wife in hopes that it results in the marriage ending. Because wives divorce, men don’t.”

DonDan72 noted: “She’s not about to confront the wife, she’s about to unlock the UFC main event 😭 and yes please tell her to livestream it, we deserve front row seats😭😭😂😂😂😂.”

hun_amna said: “Honestly, the person who deserves the confrontation is the married guy—he’s the one breaking vows and lying to both women.”

ms_mom_365247 advised: “Would not recommend…certain types of men don’t take kindly to this kind of behavior. The saying “A man will risk his life for the woman/family he loves & go cheat with a woman he would help kill” comes from somewhere… 😬🤨.”

MagnificentBR penned: “Na Wetin sukurat dey do be this! I shock, after telling me she talked to the wife on the phone she went ahead to tell me “Abu”(my friend) had threesome Abi na twosome, say he go soon die. You wey Dey sleep with married man, still get mind follow the wife talk for phone. Mad ppl.”