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A woman has ignited a wave of discussion on social media by advising women to abandon pretenses when men invite them to ‘chill,’ suggesting they should clearly articulate their own expectations.
In a video currently circulating on X (formerly known as Twitter), the woman urged her peers to be direct whenever a man proposes spending time together or invites them over.
She emphasized that such invitations are seldom innocent, and women should stop feigning ignorance about the underlying implications.
In her statement, she expressed:
“As a woman, you should value your body. If a guy asks you to hang out or spend time with him, don’t pretend to be unaware that he is essentially asking you to sleep with him.”
She went further to advise women not to feel embarrassed about asking direct questions regarding what they stand to gain from such meetings.
“Don’t be ashamed to ask him, ‘So what am I going to benefit from coming to chill with you? What is the benefit? What are you offering?’ And if he says he doesn’t understand, tell him clearly what you want.”
The lady also dismissed the fear of being judged or being called a hoe, noting that women are often criticised regardless of what choice they make.
Her remarks have since generated mixed reactions online. While some users applauded her boldness and called her advice realistic, others criticised it as encouraging transactional relationships rather than genuine connections.
One user wrote, “She just said what many people are afraid to say out loud.” Another commented, “This sounds like turning relationships into business transactions.
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Put a price tag on your cook!3, lady advises 5 billion women in the world! 👀 pic.twitter.com/dQgcOXWdEs
— TENIOLA (@Teeniiola) February 8, 2026