Share and Follow
A Nigerian woman has ignited a conversation online by questioning why some men become annoyed when she requests financial assistance in a relationship.
In a video that has gained traction on X (formerly known as Twitter) shared by @dammiedammie35, she contends that many men are initially attracted to women for their looks. Thus, she wonders, why is it frowned upon for a woman to expect some financial support?
“I have a question for you all. When you see a woman and think, ‘Wow, she’s gorgeous,’ and wouldn’t have approached her otherwise, why do you become upset when she asks for money?” she questioned.
The debate underscores what she perceives as a prevalent double standard.
She pointed out that men frequently pursue women based on their appearance, yet feel displeased when women request financial security or assistance in return.
She also stressed that attraction alone cannot sustain a relationship and that clear expectations should not be treated as a crime.
“You see a beautiful lady, she’s well endowed, then why you angry when she comes for financial gain, when you know you only ask her out because you’re beautiful?” she added.
Her comments have continued to stir debate online, with social media users sharing mixed opinions.
One user commented, “She actually has a point. Men come for beauty, women come for stability. Let’s stop pretending.” Another wrote, “If money is the only thing keeping a relationship, then it’s not love.”
Watch video below…