A Nigerian man has ignited an online discussion after expressing his opinions on what men should contribute to a relationship before entering the dating scene.

In a widely circulated video on X, formerly known as Twitter, shared by user @feeztm, the man advised women to steer clear of men who frequently complain about not having money.

He suggests that men should achieve financial stability prior to dating, emphasizing that men were created by God with a sense of purpose and the ability to provide, even before women were created.

He articulated his viewpoint by stating:

“Listen to me, you don’t have any business with any man that is telling you ‘I don’t have.’ Any man that doesn’t have doesn’t need a relationship. What he needs is to make it.”

He further stated that women are not meant to suffer in relationships and should not be burdened with maintaining themselves financially while dating a man.

He also argued that men are often attracted to women because of their beauty and appearance, which require money to maintain, and therefore should not expect women to shoulder those costs.

“You saw the woman, she’s beautiful, and you went to toast her. If she didn’t look attractive, would you toast her?

She needs to maintain her beauty. You can’t come into her life and expect her to still use her money to take care of herself,” he added.

He concluded by advising women to be wise in their choices and urged men to stop pursuing relationships when they are not financially prepared.

Watch video below…

Women, you don’t have any business with any broke man, he should leave relationship and go and hustle.

~ Male feminists advices his fellow feminists. pic.twitter.com/AHBPY1qcuf

— FZ™ (@Feeztm) January 29, 2026