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In a recent viral video, a Nigerian woman has stirred up a lively conversation online by addressing a common trend she has observed among men who send direct messages to women. These interactions often start with flattering comments and rapidly transition to ambiguous invitations to meet up.
Shared by the user @ChukEricE on X (formerly known as Twitter), the video highlights the woman’s humorous yet critical take on how men initiate conversations with women on social media. She notes that men typically begin with over-the-top compliments, such as “you’re so fine” or “you’re so pretty, I’ve never seen a girl like you before,” before quickly steering the conversation towards questions about her relationship status or suggesting a casual hangout.
In her candid remarks, she questions the intentions behind such invitations: “Hang out as what? Can I take you on a date, if possible spend some time with you. Spend some time with who, as your what? Your nanny, wife, or girlfriend? Do you even know me before?”
Her video has resonated with many online, sparking discussions about the nature of online interactions and the often unclear intentions behind such messages. The woman’s straightforward approach has struck a chord with those who find themselves in similar situations, prompting further dialogue on social media etiquette and respect in digital communications.
“Hang out as what? Can I take you on a date, if possible spend some time with you. Spend some time with who, as your what? Your nanny, wife, or girlfriend? Do you even know me before?”
She slammed men who hide their real intentions behind casual messages, saying most are only after one thing. Genuine support or respect is rarely offered.
“You can’t change all this your ‘spend some time with you’ to ‘I love what you do and I support you with this amount.’
No, you won’t do that one. You think I don’t know you want to sleep with me? That’s what you all have to offer, nothing else,” she added.
The video has sparked massive reactions online, with many women agreeing that men’s advances often come with hidden motives.
Reacting, one user wrote, “She said everything women have been thinking but couldn’t say.” Another commented, “If you want to date someone, say it clearly. This ‘let’s hang out’ nonsense is tiring.”
However, some men disagreed, arguing that not every DM has an ulterior motive, insisting that casual conversations don’t always mean bad intentions.
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“Some men really need to do better. You see a pretty girl online, next thing, after praising her, they’ll say, ‘let’s hang out,’ as if spending time together is innocent. We all know what men want. Some even use their eyes on almost n@ked pictures of women online.”👀
—Lady calls… pic.twitter.com/Tk9Ig2QxKD
— CHUKS 🍥 (@ChuksEricE) February 1, 2026