This Gen Z When Harry Met Sally Pales Next To The Original
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RATING: 6 / 10

Picture this: A man and a woman, strangers at first, set off together on a road trip from their college. She’s an eternal optimist, finding joy in life’s little moments, while he seems to revel in complaining about everything imaginable. Their journey is far from smooth, and they both quickly agree they wouldn’t make a good couple — not that it was ever on the cards. Yet, as the miles pass, they start to connect in unexpected ways, and a budding friendship risks transforming into something more, a possibility they are too stubborn to acknowledge. Sound familiar?

Pros

  • Hard to not get swept up in the sweetness
  • The two leads have great opposites attract chemistry (after an annoying introduction)

This narrative closely mirrors the classic tale of “When Harry Met Sally,” the iconic romantic comedy by Rob Reiner and Nora Ephron. The film has endured over the years, despite being rooted in the outdated belief that men and women can’t just be friends. This premise also underpins Emily Henry’s 2021 novel “People We Meet on Vacation,” which has climbed the New York Times bestseller list. Henry unabashedly draws from this timeless story, aiming to capture the essence of a modern romance by channeling one of the most enduring examples in the genre.

  • Hews too close to the “When Harry Met Sally” narrative structure — and can’t get out of that movie’s shadow
  • The other relationships aren’t as well defined as theirs

Fast forward five years, and Netflix has brought the novel to the screen. What felt like a heartfelt homage in print now appears more like a derivative work on film. The echoes of Reiner and Ephron’s superior movie are hard to ignore, turning this adaptation into a Gen Z-oriented update with fewer laughs and less of the unexpected warmth that made the original so beloved. It seems destined to remain in the shadow of a film that audiences might be better off watching instead of this version.

Despite these challenges, borrowing from “When Harry Met Sally” ensures some of that classic charm carries over, even though the attempt to make it trendy and aspirational might feel foreign to fans of the original. In the updated setting, Poppy Wright (played by Emily Bader) is a disillusioned travel writer who has lost faith in her once-dream job. Every lifestyle article she pens ends with her imagining a myriad of ways the perfect vacation could go awry. Her career disillusionment has made her withdraw from life, and an invitation to a destination wedding in Barcelona only complicates matters. It forces her to confront her fractured friendship with Alex (played by Tom Blyth), which had soured years earlier.

This is, of course, the plot to “When Harry Met Sally,” Rob Reiner and Nora Ephron’s romantic comedy masterpiece that’s managed to stand the test of time despite being structured around the long-disproven conceit that men and women can’t be just friends. And as many reviews will have told you as it made its ascent to the top of the New York Times bestseller list, it’s a structure unashamedly lifted by author Emily Henry for her 2021 novel “People We Meet on Vacation,” because hey, if you want to make a crack at writing the great modern romance, why not just lift from one of the most timeless?

Five years later, the Netflix-produced film adaptation has arrived, and what played like loving homage on the page is something far easier to be cynical about on the screen, where the looming parallels with Reiner and Ephron’s superior film can’t be so easily shrugged off as a tribute. Now, it just looks like a Gen Z-friendly update with less of the laughs and unexpected warmth of the original prickly pairing, forever destined to live in the shadow of a movie that you should probably be streaming instead of this.

A romcom for wannabe influencers

With all that being said: a shameless copy of “When Harry Met Sally” can’t help but carry over some of the charm of its inescapable influence, even if it does attempt to be trendy and oddly aspirational in a way that will initially seem alien to anybody who has seen that movie. Opening in the present day, Poppy Wright (Emily Bader) is a jaded travel writer who has grown disenfranchised by her dream job; every single lifestyle article she now authors ends with her imagining every possible scenario in which the dream vacation could go wrong. She’s become a recluse too, despite her role, and an invite to a destination wedding in Barcelona only makes things worse, as it forces her to reckon with her friendship with Alex (Tom Blyth), which had turned sour a few years earlier.

Flashing back across the years, starting with that unexpected car share, we discover how these two completely different souls became close friends, only to break apart when the romantic elephant in the room proved too large to ignore. As you can guess from the title, their friendship was forged largely through taking vacations together every summer, which is where the movie begins to feel as if a warm, approachable romcom has been forced through the screen of an Instagram influencer. Yes, this structure allows for plenty of hijinks as the socially awkward Alex embraces his carefree side when abroad, but when the story aims to deviate from looking like a holiday brochure, each trip feels like it was shot in collaboration with the tourist board of each country. Even in the year when illness causes them to cancel last minute, the screenplay by Yulin Kuang, Amos Vernon, and Nunzio Randazzo ensures the dialogue takes time to stress the location they’re missing out on; a hotel made entirely out of ice in Norway. With that destination recently appearing in a flashback on “Pluribus” (check out Looper’s review for the series here) too, I can’t help but feel that the hotel’s PR team has been working overtime in the past few months.

Great couple — unbelievable relationships

As for the romance itself, Emily Bader and Tom Blyth have a sweet opposites attract chemistry that helps ground a story with far more air miles than the average viewer will have. However, having not read the book, I can assume that the biggest problem in translation is that their relationships with the extensive supporting cast of their friends and family — the wedding Poppy is invited to is that of Alex’s brother — don’t feel anywhere near as organic. Poppy’s relationship with Alex’s gay sibling is dramatized entirely through exposition, all but absent from the flashbacks that reveal why she’s been invited in the first place, stressing an important friendship that we’ve not had the chance to see blossom for ourselves. The same goes for her relationship with his entire family, which he seems like the black sheep of, and that is stressed to us repeatedly without actually being shown. Fundamentally, there would be no difference if she was meeting them for the first time at the wedding — it felt more akin to drunkenly meeting someone in a nightclub smoking area and declaring them to be your best friend after five minutes. There is an equal amount of depth to these relationships the movie wants us to believe have left a major impression.

And yet, it’s still not hard to get caught up in the sugary sweetness of it all; the kind of film it’s easy to criticize, yet every complaint is countered by its sheer charm. Which is saying something, considering both characters are introduced at their most annoying — Alex too miserable and withdrawn, Poppy too overbearingly happy and excitable about every small thing. It’s to the credit of the performers and director Brett Haley that this coupling genuinely feels improbable, initially appearing to counter the cliché that they’ll inevitably get together, much like how the original draft of “When Harry Met Sally” ended. That’s why it’s so easy to get swept up along with the characters when something does manage to develop out of a simmering mutual resentment.

So yes, Gen Z absolutely deserves better than “People We Meet on Vacation” as their equivalent to “When Harry Met Sally” — but until a worthy successor comes along, this will make for a charming substitute.

“People We Meet on Vacation” starts streaming on Netflix on January 9.



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