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Boys who blubber make better lovers.
Turns out, sobbers are better in the sack, according to a sexpert.
“Men who cry are the best lovers,” Marina Lazaris, said relationship expert and author of Men Need Love Too.
“The fine line between vulnerability and masculinity is the biggest challenge for men in today’s society,” Lazaris told The Sun.
She explained that finding a man in touch with his emotions will allow people to find the “catch of a lifetime, rather than just a day.”
Gen Z is recognizing the appeal of nice guys who embrace their feminine side, such as the trendy “babygirl” type represented by actor Jacob Elordi, with many young women expressing interest in them.
“I think the definition of what is masculine is changing,” Adam Cohen-Aslatei, director of Tawkify matchmaking service, previously told The Post.
As societal norms evolve, masculinity is no longer solely defined by traditional tough-guy stereotypes but by qualities like honesty, respect, protectiveness, and emotional openness.
Bumble’s 2024 Dating Trends report reveals that approximately 31% of American men have actively adjusted their behavior to cultivate vulnerability and greater emotional expression in their dating relationships.
“Men are now more comfortable showing who they are emotionally, their authentic selves, and letting their personalities shine through instead of putting up barriers or worrying about being too emotionally expressive,” Cohen-Aslatei noted.
And for a quarter of men — 25% globally — this new-found openness has had a positive impact on their emotional state, Bumble reported.
“This desire to make mental health stigma-free for males goes hand-in-glove with a desire to reshape masculinity in ways that allow for a broader aesthetic and emotional range,” Gabriel Rubin, a professor of Justice Studies at Montclair State University, told The Post.