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Confronting Dark Thoughts: A Personal Reflection on Nancy Guthrie’s Impact

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On Wednesday evening, I felt a wave of empathy as I watched Savannah Guthrie, visibly distressed, making an emotional appeal to the person who had abducted her 84-year-old mother. She begged for her mother’s safe return to their family.

As I witnessed this heart-wrenching moment, I couldn’t help but think, “Savannah is truly one of the kindest individuals I have encountered. This must be a living nightmare for her.”

It’s hard to fathom why anyone would harbor ill will against her.

With 35 years in broadcasting and a significant portion of my life spent in front of the camera, I’ve developed a keen sense for assessing character. Whether interacting with fellow TV hosts, actors, musicians, or politicians, I can usually tell right away if someone is genuine or just putting on a facade. In my experience, it’s about an even split.

Having met Savannah Guthrie a few times, I can attest to her authenticity. She exudes warmth, especially when discussing her family, and there’s nothing insincere about her demeanor. Our brief interactions have left me convinced that her kindness and good-hearted nature stem from a place of true integrity.

Most people who exist in her orbit look right past you (I’m talking about you, Dana Bash and Lester Holt!) and if they must talk to a commoner, they’ll make every nanosecond about themselves. Savannah is different: she has a light in her eyes and a natural curiosity that speaks to a deeper goodness.

She obviously has this connection with her co-workers, that was evident when her clearly emotional Today show co-host Craig Melvin opened Thursday’s broadcast with the video plea Savannah, along with her sister Annie and brother Camron, made for the person who took their mom.

Savannah, rattled yet professional, spoke with purpose: ‘She is 84 years old, her health, her heart is fragile. She lives in constant pain. She is without any medicine. She needs it to survive. She needs it not to suffer.’

There is nothing phony about Savannah Guthrie, and I could also tell from our brief exchanges that her graciousness and good nature is rooted in genuine decency

There is nothing phony about Savannah Guthrie, and I could also tell from our brief exchanges that her graciousness and good nature is rooted in genuine decency

My heart sank Wednesday evening as I watched a grief-stricken Savannah Guthrie pleading with an unknown kidnapper to return her 84-year-old mother to her family

My heart sank Wednesday evening as I watched a grief-stricken Savannah Guthrie pleading with an unknown kidnapper to return her 84-year-old mother to her family

Then Savannah shifted and spoke directly to her mom, their depth of love evident in every word: ‘Mommy, if you are hearing this, you are a strong woman. You are God’s precious daughter.’

We are all transfixed by this story because we need a miracle for this family. Elderly abduction is exceedingly rare. For it to happen to a public person is nearly unprecedented.

There are reports of talk within NBC that they’ve tightened security and told employees (especially the on-air variety) to be especially vigilant in light of Nancy’s disappearance. Of course, no one knows what happened to Nancy Guthrie in the wee hours of Sunday morning, which also means no one at NBC knows if this is somehow motivated by a professional grudge. At times like this it feels like no one is safe.

In an era of senseless violence and assassinations – political, targeted, random – it’s disturbingly easy to entertain the darkest possible scenarios.

Nancy has been a fixture with her daughter on the Today show because she radiates the same relatable kindness.

The Daily Mail has reported that the authorities are investigating NBC ‘superfans’ who lavished Savannah with gifts and letters before her mother was abducted.

I hope and pray that Savannah is not considering whether those on-air appearances somehow led to this.

Like Savannah, I have an 84-year-old mother, and although as moms ourselves we are conditioned to endlessly worry about our own children (college-age kids breed their own sleepless nights), we typically don’t account for the worry we’ll pour into our aging parents until tragedy strikes.

I cannot imagine what the Guthrie family is feeling right now. No one could have conceived such a high-profile nightmare. But these, it seems nearly anything is possible.

Before Charlie Kirk’s September murder, I would not have assumed someone would have been capable of such unspeakable brutality against a person that they only knew as a media caricature. Then, in the killing’s aftermath, I was disgusted, not only by the act itself, but by the number of seemingly rational people who cheered it on.

I have an 84-year-old mother, and although as moms we are conditioned to endlessly worry about our children, we typically don't account for the worry we'll pour into our aging parents until tragedy strikes

I have an 84-year-old mother, and although as moms we are conditioned to endlessly worry about our children, we typically don’t account for the worry we’ll pour into our aging parents until tragedy strikes

After Charlie’s death a lot of my conservative friends who make a living onstage considering whether it was safe to continue performing. Bravely, the quick answer was a resounding ‘yes’, as avoiding the stage would’ve been a capitulation to these cowardly, evil forces so desperate to drive us apart.

As of this writing, no one knows if some hell bound thug, radicalized nut or someone else entirely kidnapped a nice older lady, the mother of a telegenic TV anchor, from the safety of her Arizona bed. I will not speculate about the identity of Nancy Guthrie’s kidnapper.

But it must be said that ordinary people today – teachers, professors, soccer moms and dads – are now so consumed by hatred that they’ve become blind to the common humanity that used to bind us together.

With every senseless act, the world feels like it is coming even further undone.

I am heartbroken for the Guthrie family and terrified that these forces have touched them.

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