A conservative firebrand has gone viral after she bluntly shut down a transgender woman after she claimed there was no way she would know she is trans if she was in the women’s bathroom.

​Arynne Wexler, a content creator known for her razor-sharp ‘nonlib takes’, was speaking with a trans woman called Karolina Kaviar when the conversation veered into the explosive territory of bathroom politics. 

‘We are on the same page. If you don’t look like a girl, get the f*** out of the girls’ bathroom,’ Karolina said, trying to voice a seemingly shared sentiment.

But Wexler responded bluntly,  ‘I don’t think you belong in the girls’ bathroom.’

‘But my love, you wouldn’t know!’ Karolina insisted, prompting Wexler to firmly state, ‘I did know.’ 

The two then got into a further debate after Karolina tried to claim that some women feel threatened by trans women, as they are competing for the same men.

 ‘A lot of the issues that we’re having is the divide,’ Karolina continued. ‘It’s competition my love where we’re dating the same men…’

‘We’re definitely not dating the same men,’ Wexler interjected.

‘We are baby. Trust me,’ Karolina insisted.

‘No we are not,’ a calm Wexler replied. 

‘We’re dating the same dudes,’ Karolina went on. ‘I think there’s a competitive aspect to where…’

She was then cut off by the host who sensed the atmosphere was turning tense. 

The conversation, filmed in August 2024 and recently reposted by Wexler to her platforms has since gone viral.

She explained how the conversation began on a cordial note and that they had agreed on most points. 

‘Karolina was kind, funny, reasonable, and we agreed on most things,’ Wexler said.

‘Society would be way more productive with more Karolinas to talk through ‘trans’ issues, but then we got to this part of the conversation and it got bananas.’ 

Wexler, who describes herself as ‘just a nonlib girl in a crazylib world’, says her aim is to to challenge norms and spark conversations through her commentary and it appears most of her 290,000 followers agreed with her take. 

‘You are just proving the reason why we don’t want you in the same bathroom. Your energy is off from the beginning,’ one person wrote. ‘Pipe down on the aggression toward biological women.’ 

‘Transplaining at its finest,’ another added.

But some of those commenting agreed with Karolina, who also performs as a drag performer.

‘I think Karolina is onto something. And how many times have women used the Men’s bathroom bc the Women’s line was OMG so long,’ one person wrote. 

‘We get over it using empathy and understanding. Transgender females aren’t going to crawl under the stall door and ask you what your name is and if you’re pooping,’

Karolina later posted her own reply to the storm, offering a more philosophical take. 

‘This is the beauty of life. Biological women can sit in their truth whilst we live in the reality of what you don’t want to believe because it doesn’t fit the narrative of what you perceive us to be,’ she wrote.

‘We did agree on almost everything… Trans women aren’t your enemy. Ignorance and misinformation is.’