Pastor Embraces Authentic Self: Announces Gender Transition in Courageous Congregational Service

A Methodist pastor in New York has recently shared plans to begin a gender transition, identifying now as a woman and embracing an asexual orientation at the age of 51.

Rev. Phillip Phaneuf, serving at North Chili United Methodist Church in Rochester, made this heartfelt announcement during a Sunday service on November 23. Standing before the congregation, Phaneuf wore a rainbow stole as a symbol of this personal revelation.

“I am excited to share that I am transitioning,” Phaneuf declared. “This transition is about acknowledging my identity as transgender. Rather than becoming a woman, it’s more accurate to say that I am ceasing to pretend to be a man. This journey is complex and may be surprising to some of you.”

Phaneuf further explained that the pastor now identifies as asexual, which is characterized by little to no sexual attraction towards others.

Phil Phaneuf leading the Sunday service on November 23, 2025, in Rochester, New York. (Phil Phaneuf/Facebook)

The pastor said the bishop, church and theology support the transition, noting that the bishop was consulted before the announcement and that any pastoral duties at the church will not be affected. “What will stay the same is my deepening love for all of you,” Phaneuf said.

The 51-year-old’s parents, however, do not support the decision. “They asked me to tell you all that they do not support me,” Phaneuf announced during the sermon. “They asked me to tell you this.”

Phil Phaneuf revealed during a Sunday service that the pastor will be transitioning into a woman. (Phil Phaneuf/Facebook)

Last year, the United Methodist Church reversed rules that condemned LGBTQ+ identities in the community, according to its official website. The UMC now affirms human sexuality “as a sacred gift” and says this “applies to all persons, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity,” according to its official website. 

“The United Methodist Church commits to befriending and caring for all persons, including LGBTQ persons in our churches and communities,” it said.