Rozz Switzer believed she had met someone genuinely special.
Instead, the former television presenter was blindsided when messages from two women revealed a troubling secret about the younger man she had been dating.
The 54-year-old, now embracing life as a single mother of three while building a new career as an online content creator, told the Daily Mail that strangers contacted her and exposed her boyfriend’s multiple relationships.
‘I was seeing a guy. He was obsessed with me,’ Rozz recalled.
‘Then I got a message from two different girls who said to me, “I think you should know that he’s not just with you. He’s seeing us as well. And we know of about four other girls too!”‘
An uncomfortable confrontation soon developed into an unlikely friendship.
Former television presenter Rozz Switzer, 54, was stunned when two women contacted her with revelations about the younger man she was dating
Instead of blaming one another, the women compared stories to establish just how many people the man had been dating at the same time.
‘So I ended up meeting up with these girls,’ Rozz said.
‘We all got together, got rid of the guy. We’ve been good friends ever since.’
The episode gave Rozz a powerful reminder of the value of female solidarity and loyalty.
‘It’s very much chicks before d**ks!’ she added with a laugh.
Rozz also used the experience to discuss what she sees as the rise of ‘digital infidelity’—the pursuit of emotional attention and validation online while remaining in a real-world relationship.
Speaking to the Daily Mail, she said more people in relationships are turning to the internet for affection and attention outside their partnerships.
As an adult star, Rozz said she has received a steady stream of direct messages from married men seeking racy conversations with someone new. Many, she added, do not view those exchanges as cheating.
The 54-year-old, who is embracing life as a single mother of three and has reinvented herself as an online content creator, told the Daily Mail that strangers revealed her boyfriend had been seeing several women at once
Instead of turning against one another, the women compared stories to determine the full scope of the man’s dating life
‘Digital intimacy in today’s world has allowed people to seek a little spark, a connection, some validation,’ she said.
‘In a digital world, I feel that they can get the validation, that sense of just being desirable through messages and flirting.’
Rozz joined OnlyFans in April after previously selling content through her own website. She said many of the men she encountered drew a clear line around what they considered infidelity—and did not believe that having a racy conversation with an adult star crossed it.
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‘They’re putting on a bit of a fantasy about who they are, leaving their otherwise simple lives behind … almost taking on another role in order to have these chats,’ she said.
‘It’s a chance to actually be less lonely while not having to leave the comfort of your pyjamas on the couch!
‘You might not be actually looking for a relationship, but you want that feeling of being desirable, that feeling of “I could if I wanted to”.’
The former actress said some customers had even invited their partners into conversations for a bit of fun, though she said she knew where to draw the line.
‘There’s a lot of swingers out there as well as couples who are into bringing others in,’ Rozz continued.
The revelation comes as Rozz also opened up about what she described as a growing trend of ‘digital infidelity’, with more people seeking emotional connections and validation online while maintaining relationships in the real world
‘There are plenty of men that slide in to ask on behalf of them and their wives to be more than friends. It’s not unusual,’ she said, adding she kept things strictly online.
‘I guess it comes into whether you believe emotional cheating counts as infidelity… or just physical cheating. You have to have boundaries!’
She added that she had even had her own unique experience with digital infidelity several years ago, after she was messaged online by a group of women telling her that her younger boyfriend was also dating them.
‘I was seeing a guy. He was obsessed with me. I got a DM from two different girls who said to me, “I think you should know that he’s not just with you. He’s seeing us as well. And we know of about four other girls too!”,’ Rozz said.
‘So I ended up meeting up with these girls, we all got together, got rid of the guy. We’ve been good friends ever since! It’s very much chicks before d**ks!’
Rozz first caused a stir in 2024 when she revealed she had ‘hot men in their 20s’ lining up to date her, later adding that she was proudly embracing her ‘jaguar’ era.
‘I am coming out with a vengeance, bigger and better,’ she said.
‘I want older women to embrace who they are, and I’ll be sharing that message with a lot more people.
‘Younger men see MILFs as ‘real women’ who can look them in the eye and hold a conversation without playing with their phones, and who know exactly what they want in bed.’
Rozz is a familiar face to Australian television viewers, having built a decades-long career across the ’90s and 2000s as a presenter and the self-styled ‘Queen of Home Shopping’.
She has also appeared in several movies and TV shows, including Paradise Beach.
Now embracing her ‘jaguar’ era and digital ventures, Rozz says she is living life in ways she never imagined and having more fun than ever.
She finished by saying she does not judge the men she talks to, because every couple decides for themselves what counts as infidelity.
‘Cheating or not, you have to own your behaviour! Lean into it and have fun! Don’t listen to the noise of what other people think, because their opinions don’t matter!’ she said.
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