Phoebe Burgess revealed earlier this year that she had not been on a date in seven years after the breakdown of her marriage to former NRL star Sam Burgess.
Now, however, the mother of two says she may be ready to return to the dating scene.
Speaking to Daily Mail at the ARN Upfronts on Wednesday, Phoebe admitted she is unsure how to navigate romance while raising her children alone. She is hoping an upcoming episode of her podcast with Below Deck star Hannah Ferrier will offer some guidance.
‘It is so funny. I wish I could tell you something exciting about my dating life, but Phoebe Burgess doesn’t have time,’ she said.
‘On the podcast, I am going to really explore it. We have an episode coming up where I will finally get an answer to my question: “How are you supposed to date when you have two children and are doing it on your own?”‘
The 37-year-old said living under her parents’ roof has also made dating more complicated, while her responsibilities have left her with a much smaller pool of potential partners than she expected.
Phoebe Burgess says living with her parents and two children has put the brakes on her love life
‘I live at home with my parents, so we are definitely not going back to mine. It is a very narrow pool, and not nearly as large as I thought it would be, but I am getting the answers,’ she said.
Phoebe also opened up about the financial pressures she has faced since separating from Sam. She said the only major asset she now owns is her car, as she continues to prioritise the needs of her children, Poppy, nine, and William, seven.
‘We all have to give up certain things in order to focus on what matters most,’ she said.
‘When it comes to balance, I know exactly where my money is going, and that is towards the kids.
‘There is not much left over, but I have a very happy home, and I am grateful for that. I am not going to complain, but the car is the only thing I own now.’
She acknowledged that her circumstances reflect the broader financial challenges facing many Australian families during the cost of living crisis.
‘That is the reality for everyone in Australia at the moment,’ she said.
‘I chose to live with Mum and Dad, and part of that decision comes from necessity. The other part is about giving my children the kind of home I want them to have.
Phoebe has been single since the highly publicised end of her marriage to Sam in 2019
‘When you are raising children on your own, people understand that some things are no longer possible. But I am genuinely excited about what I can give my kids.’
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Phoebe has not publicly entered another relationship since her marriage to Sam ended in 2019.
She now lives with her parents, Mitchell and Sarah Hooke, at their country property near Bowral in the New South Wales Southern Highlands.
In September, she revealed that she had not been on a date for seven years and had not even experienced what she described as a ‘texting flirt’.
Speaking to Stellar magazine, Phoebe said she was shocked when a recently divorced friend quickly began seeing someone new.
The experience forced her to realise just how long she had been away from the dating world.
‘Goodness, seven years without a date,’ she said.
‘Not even a texting flirt! I need someone to explain how all of this works. I have no idea… It is terrifying.’
She lives with her parents, Mitchell and Sarah Hooke, at a country property near Bowral in the NSW Southern Highlands
Although she has previously thought about joining the exclusive celebrity dating app Raya, Phoebe said she could not work out how to represent her current life on a dating profile.
‘My life is not particularly suited to an app. What picture would I use? The children and me at school drop-off? Me at an event?’ she joked.
‘There is no obvious photo. I would question any man who clicked on my profile, to be honest!’
‘Then there is the biography: 37, divorced, and everyone knows the story. Two children. I never get weekends off, so you would have to work around that. And I live at home. There is not much that sounds appealing! I do not think dating apps are really for me.’
Instead, Phoebe joked that she might simply have to wait until romance finds her naturally.
‘Perhaps you just sit back, wait for all the divorces to happen, and catch one as it comes past?’ she said.
Phoebe and Sam separated in October 2019 after four turbulent years of marriage.
They had first split in December 2018, not long after the birth of their son, Billy, before reconciling in April. Six months later, they ended their relationship permanently.


