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Women Are Outperforming Men at Work, and Experts Say These Skills Explain Why

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Women drove nearly all of America’s job growth in August, accounting for an astonishing 98 percent of the nation’s net employment gains.

According to the figures, female workers filled 158,000 of the 162,000 jobs added to US payrolls during the month, while men represented just 4,000 of the increase.

The data offers another striking snapshot of a shifting US labor market, following a milestone earlier this year when women surpassed men in total payroll employment.

Still, economists warn that the headline-grabbing numbers may not signal a sweeping workplace takeover. The explanation is more grounded, they say, with seasonal hiring patterns in fields such as education and food service playing a major role.

Heather Long, chief economist at Navy Federal Credit Union, cautioned against drawing broad conclusions from one month of data, calling the gender split in the jobs report “noisy.”

‘I think there’s been way too much focus on the month to month – is it men gaining jobs or women?’ Long told Fortune. ‘That moves around a lot.’

And there is an important statistical wrinkle behind the 98 percent figure – it does not mean that 98 percent of everyone newly hired in America was a woman.

The figure is based on net employment gains – essentially the number of jobs held by women after gains and losses are taken into account.

Women are powering America's jobs boom - with female workers accounting for a staggering 98 percent of the country's net job gains in August

Women are powering America’s jobs boom – with female workers accounting for a staggering 98 percent of the country’s net job gains in August 

Healthcare has been one of the biggest engines of US job creation for more than a year - and women make up a large majority of workers in the industry

Healthcare has been one of the biggest engines of US job creation for more than a year – and women make up a large majority of workers in the industry

Healthcare has been one of the biggest engines of US job creation for more than a year – and women make up a large majority of workers in the industry.

Education is another major factor. Local government education added 42,000 jobs in August, while food service and drinking places added 59,000. Together, those two areas accounted for 62 percent of all jobs created during the month.

Both are industries where women are heavily represented. As Long put it, much of August’s dramatic gender swing came down to ‘teachers and servers.’

‘The reason that women were down in July and up in August is almost entirely driven by education hiring – the teacher effect,’ she said, alongside a rebound in hospitality. ‘It’s not like something dramatically changed for women.’

Women also gained around 68,000 jobs in leisure and hospitality in August even though the sector as a whole added only 62,000 – meaning male employment actually fell by about 6,000 in the sector.

And compared with a year earlier, the number of employed women has risen by more than 870,000 on a seasonally adjusted basis, while the number of employed men has fallen by almost 1.5 million.

Additionally, women have overtaken men in total payroll employment for the third time in US history, according to the analysis supplied with the jobs report. 

Unlike previous occasions – during the Great Recession and immediately before the pandemic – economists say the latest change could reflect a more structural shift in the economy.

Education is another major factor. Local government education added 42,000 jobs in August, while food service and drinking places added 59,000

Education is another major factor. Local government education added 42,000 jobs in August, while food service and drinking places added 59,000

Female-dominated industries such as healthcare and hospitality have continued to expand while some traditionally male-heavy sectors, including manufacturing, have struggled.

Women are also earning more college degrees than men, Long noted, potentially leaving them better positioned to benefit from growth in professional industries.

But the picture is hardly a straightforward victory for women. Laura Ullrich, director of economic research at Indeed Hiring Lab, warned that women’s outperformance could partly reflect the kinds of jobs being created.

Women are more likely to work in lower-paying occupations and are also more likely to hold multiple jobs, meaning some of the employment growth could reflect people taking on extra work rather than landing lucrative new careers.

‘You could look at it and say, ‘Yay, women,’ Ullrich told CNBC. But she cautioned: ‘I don’t think it’s necessarily a positive story for women overall.’

Meanwhile, men are increasingly concentrated in sectors facing their own pressures.

Reddit users pointed to manufacturing, construction and other traditionally male-dominated industries as areas where employment has been weaker, with one commenter arguing that job gains have increasingly been concentrated in women-dominated fields.

Another suggested the figures reflected a much broader economic divide, arguing that ‘healthcare and education are the two sectors that have been hiring recently.’

49ers Injury Report: Mike Evans Practices, Nick Bosa and Christian McCaffrey Sit Out

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The 49ers began their season-opening preparations Monday in Melbourne with a mixed injury outlook and several key names drawing attention.

Mike Evans returned to the practice field after missing a significant stretch of training camp, offering a welcome boost. Nick Bosa and Christian McCaffrey, however, were not involved in drills during the portion of practice open to reporters. Tight end George Kittle also continued to make notable progress in his comeback from a torn Achilles, taking part in individual work.

Evans’ presence provided the strongest sign of encouragement as the 49ers ramp up for Week 1.

The veteran wide receiver worked through groin and quadriceps issues over the summer, adding to existing concerns after hamstring problems sidelined him for games in recent seasons. Still, Evans indicated that his lighter training camp schedule was more about smart management by the team than any major setback.

“The training staff, they did a great job working with me,” Evans told reporters. “I know I’m an older player. I’ve had probably over a thousand practices, football practices in my life now, so I know what I’m doing out there. They know what they’re doing. They did a good job taking care of me.

“None of my injuries were significant. If it was a game week, I wouldn’t have missed any time.”

That assessment reinforces the expectation that Evans will play against the Rams on Thursday. His availability has become especially important with Ricky Pearsall and Christian Kirk on the injured reserve list.

What initially appeared to be a deep San Francisco receiving corps has quickly placed more responsibility on Evans to give Brock Purdy a dependable outside target.

The outlook surrounding two of the 49ers’ other stars was less transparent Monday.

Bosa did not participate in early drills after spending most of camp managing tendinitis in his surgically repaired right knee. Despite his absence, the defensive end was emphatic about his intentions before the team departed for Australia.

“I’m flying out there, I’m going to f–king play,” Bosa said.

McCaffrey spoke with reporters but remained off to the side once practice began. He missed two weeks of camp under what he described as a planned ramp-up intended to keep him fresh throughout the season. The running back appeared in all 17 games last year, rushing for 1,202 yards and 10 touchdowns on 311 carries.

Neither absence came with an official designation. Because of the unusual scheduling surrounding the first NFL game in Melbourne, the 49ers were not required to release a participation report Monday.

“Because we’re technically in the future from where we’re from and the Rams are in the present, I don’t have to talk about injuries until tomorrow,” Kyle Shanahan joked. “So I’m not talking about them.”

Kittle supplied another positive development by taking part in individual drills less than eight months after tearing his Achilles against the Eagles. Even if he is cleared, the 49ers could limit his snaps in his first game back.

With Aaron Donald returning to the Rams’ defensive front and likely seeing action soon, San Francisco will want as many of its veteran playmakers available as possible. The formal injury report will provide greater clarity on Bosa, McCaffrey and Kittle, but Evans has already removed much of the mystery surrounding his status.

Upscale Miami Steakhouse Manager Held on ICE Detainer After Mother Found Stabbed to Death

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A manager at a Miami steakhouse is accused of walking out of his upscale Brickell apartment smeared with blood and holding a knife, moments before police discovered his mother fatally stabbed inside, authorities said.

Stefano Eduardo Cremasco-Cicero, 36, allegedly told responding officers, “I was defending myself,” after Miami police were called to the luxury high-rise early Friday morning, according to an arrest report obtained by WPLG.

Miami-Dade County jail records show Cremasco-Cicero has been charged with second-degree murder with a weapon in connection with the deadly stabbing.

Miami-Dade booking photo of Stefano Cremasco-Cicero, who is charged with second-degree murder with a weapon

Stefano Cremasco-Cicero is being held without bond on a second-degree murder charge and an ICE detainer. (Miami-Dade County Corrections and Rehabilitation)

Police were sent to the building around 4:47 a.m. after receiving what was described as an “unknown request for police assistance,” the outlet reported.

Officers found Cremasco-Cicero in the lobby with blood on his hands, clothing and shoes, the outlet reported.

He allegedly directed officers upstairs to the apartment.

Inside the apartment, police found his mother lying behind the front door with multiple apparent stab wounds, according to WPLG. Miami Fire Rescue pronounced her dead shortly after 5 a.m.

authorities are seen investigating inside the lobby of the building

Cremasco-Cicero was reportedly found in the lobby with blood on his hands, clothing and shoes. (WSVN)

Authorities have not publicly identified the woman or disclosed her age. Police said she was visiting from Mexico and staying with her son.

The unusual chain of events began when a food delivery driver arrived at the building and encountered Cremasco-Cicero in the lobby, according to the report.

He allegedly opened the door for the driver and asked her to call 911. Cremasco-Cicero ultimately placed the call himself but handed the phone to the woman so she could give the dispatcher the building information, WPLG reported.

The driver noticed blood on him as they waited for police, according to the outlet. When she tried to return his phone, he allegedly refused to take it, and she later handed it to responding officers.

Investigators then turned to surveillance video and building access records to piece together what happened in the hours before police arrived.

a view of the apartment building where the alleged murder happened

Police were called to a high-rise in the Brickell neighborhood of Miami early Friday. (WSVN)

Surveillance video showed Cremasco-Cicero and his mother returning to the building together at about 10:32 p.m. Thursday, according to WPLG. They were reportedly alone in the elevator.

At about 4:26 a.m., surveillance video allegedly captured Cremasco-Cicero entering an elevator wearing a white shirt, khaki pants and white shoes that appeared to be covered in blood. Police said he was carrying a knife.

He allegedly dropped the knife after stepping out of the elevator, picked it back up and rode another elevator upstairs, according to the report.

Investigators said Cremasco-Cicero later reappeared in a different, long-sleeved blue shirt and walked out of the building while using his phone. He returned minutes later and sat on a couch in the lobby before flagging down the delivery driver, WPLG reported.

officials remove a body in a black body bag from the scene

Cremasco-Cicero’s wife, who was in France at the time, told detectives that his mother had been staying with him at the time of the incident, according to local reports. (WSVN)

Police said Cremasco-Cicero had small cuts on his hands and blood residue on his body and clothing. Crime scene investigators photographed him and collected his clothes, according to the outlet.

After obtaining a search warrant, homicide detectives allegedly recovered several kitchen knives with blood on them, blood-spattered shirts, broken glass and a broken wine bottle from the apartment, WPLG reported.

Cremasco-Cicero’s wife told detectives she was in France attending a wedding when the killing happened, according to the report. She said her husband and his mother had not been close since his parents divorced and that he had recently been under stress while preparing to open a restaurant in Coconut Grove.

Stefano Cremasco-Cicero sits for a TV interview in his restaurant

Stefano Cremasco-Cicero is seen sitting for an interview with WSVN-TV about his restaurant in July. (WSVN)

The Miami Herald identified Cremasco-Cicero as the U.S. operating manager of the high-end 1986 Steakhouse in Miami.

The arrest report identified Cremasco-Cicero as a Miami resident through an investor visa, according to WPLG.

Miami-Dade Corrections records reviewed by News Media show Cremasco-Cicero was booked Friday night and is being held at the Turner Guilford Knight Correctional Center. The records list no bond, a domestic-violence designation and a hold for immigration authorities.

The jail record does not provide additional details about the immigration hold.

A Department of Homeland Security spokesperson confirmed to News Media that Cremasco-Cicero is an illegal immigrant.

“On August 5, 2026, ICE lodged a detainer for Stefano Eduardo Cremasco Cicero, a criminal illegal alien from Mexico, charged with homicide,” the DHS spokesperson said. “We are calling on Florida to honor our detainer. His claims will be heard by an immigration judge and he will receive due process. This administration will not ignore the rule of law.”

“Under President Trump and Secretary Mullin, if you break the law, you will face the consequences,” the spokesperson added. “Criminal illegal aliens are not welcome in the U.S.”

A motive for the killing remains unclear.

News Media reached out to the Miami Police Department, the Miami-Dade Clerk of Courts and 1986 Steakhouse for additional information.

FAA: Miami Airport Missing Plane-Stopping Runway Safety Tech

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Miami International Airport did not have a critical runway safety system that federal aviation officials say might have helped avert the Amazon cargo plane crash that left five people dead.

The Boeing 767, operated by North Carolina-based 21 Air, sped off a runway at the South Florida airport on Sunday, slammed into several vehicles and then burst into flames.

The Federal Aviation Administration (FAA) confirmed that Miami International is not equipped with the Engineered Materials Arresting System (EMAS), a runway overrun protection feature now in place at more than 120 airports across the country.

The technology uses beds of lightweight, crushable material installed at the end of a runway, designed to slow and stop aircraft that travel beyond the pavement, according to the FAA.

Federal aviation officials have urged airports for years to adopt the system, which the FAA says has helped save at least 497 lives.

Despite this, EMAS is not a mandatory requirement and airports are permitted to use other FAA-approved methods to reduce the risk of planes running off runways.

The cargo plane overran the runway around 2pm Sunday after arriving from San Juan, Puerto Rico, and plowed across a road used by warehouse workers and other businesses that surround the airport. 

Five people died, three were critically injured and two others were hospitalized with less severe injuries, officials said. 

Firefighters were forced to use a ladder to climb into the cockpit of an Amazon cargo plane that crashed into a crowded street on Sunday

Firefighters were forced to use a ladder to climb into the cockpit of an Amazon cargo plane that crashed into a crowded street on Sunday

It has since been revealed that runways at Miami International Airport are not equipped with an Engineered Materials Arresting System ¿ crushable concrete designed to bring planes that overshoot the tarmac safely to a stop. Above, the system in use at Boca Raton Airport last year

It has since been revealed that runways at Miami International Airport are not equipped with an Engineered Materials Arresting System – crushable concrete designed to bring planes that overshoot the tarmac safely to a stop. Above, the system in use at Boca Raton Airport last year

The crash, which sent thick black smoke billowing into the sky, trapped the pilot and copilot in the cockpit and some occupants in cars, said Miami-Dade Fire Rescue.

Crews also had to extricate a person who was trapped under a vehicle. It wasn’t immediately clear if the pilots were among those killed. 

Video of Sunday’s landing appears to show the Boeing 767 remaining airborne well down the runway before touching down. 

The jet had been traveling at 129mph as it exited the ‘usable runway’ amid thunderstorms and gusting winds, according to data from flight tracking site Flightradar24.

It then came to a rest near a parking lot that services an Amazon warehouse and other businesses, with photos from the scene showing the plane largely intact behind two semitrucks.

Automatic Dependent Surveillance broadcast data also showed the plane touched down on Runway 30 at about 167 knots, or about 192mph, and went off the runway at over 120mph.

Meanwhile, Miami’s own Automated Surface Observation System reports that the plane had tailwinds of 20 knots to 30 knots amid thunderous conditions.

Aviation experts said investigators will seek to determine exactly where the plane landed and, if it was beyond the normal touchdown zone, why the pilots did not abandon the landing and circle back for another attempt.

EMAS stopping a plane at Roanoke-Blacksburg Airport in Virginia last year

EMAS stopping a plane at Roanoke-Blacksburg Airport in Virginia last year

The Amazon Prime Air cargo plane sits on its nose after it overshot the runway at Miami International Airport

The Amazon Prime Air cargo plane sits on its nose after it overshot the runway at Miami International Airport

Investigators will also examine the plane’s speed and braking, weather and wind conditions, the aircraft’s mechanical condition and other factors that could have contributed to the deadly overrun. 

The National Transportation Safety Board (NTSB) has sent a team led by Chairwoman Jennifer Homendy to Miami, where she is expected to give the agency’s first briefing on the investigation Monday.

Six airports in Florida are already utilizing EMAS, Michael Meyers, manager of the agency’s Airport Engineering Division, told WPLG in February.

The system is ‘designed to slow the aircraft down at a rate such that it doesn’t create too much stress on the landing gear so that it decelerates at a steady pace,’ he said.

‘EMAS does have a perfect record of saving all lives in every single incident that has occurred involving EMAS,’ he noted, adding that it is useful in South Florida, which ‘has some of the busiest airspace and aviation activity in the country.’

The product absorbs the weight of the aircraft and is designed for planes weighing more than 12,500 pounds.

‘It’s very similar to, like, riding from the parking lot onto the beach, into the sand,’ Runway Safe spokesman Trip Thomas explained.

‘So you ride your bike on the parking lot, it’s really easy to go, and then you ride straight and even right into the sand, all sudden it becomes very difficult. There’s a lot of drag on the wheels and that’s exactly, essentially what’s happening here.’

The system came in use last year when a small plane overran the runway in nearby Boca Raton, Florida, and the EMAS stopped the aircraft safely and prevented it from reaching the busy roadway just feet away.

Smoke billowed into the sky after the Prime Air cargo plane crashed into a busy road after overrunning the runway in Miami on Sunday

Smoke billowed into the sky after the Prime Air cargo plane crashed into a busy road after overrunning the runway in Miami on Sunday

The plane crashed into multiple vehicles after it overran the runway, leaving them 'mangled'

The plane crashed into multiple vehicles after it overran the runway, leaving them ‘mangled’

Officials investigating the runway incursion on Sunday evening

Officials investigating the runway incursion on Sunday evening

Sunday’s crash halted flights at the busy travel hub for much of the afternoon.

Some 200 emergency personnel responded, finding the plane with heavy flames and smoke from a complex engine compartment fire, the department said. 

Firefighters used foam from specialized airport firefighting units to extinguish the fire, and crews were still dealing with a fuel leak on the plane hours later.

The Prime Air plane came to rest beside a roadway near two semitrucks, images showed. The aircraft appeared to be resting on its belly and was largely intact despite the fire.

The flight had been operated by 21 Air, a cargo carrier based in North Carolina. The 32-year-old Boeing 767 was originally built to carry passengers and flew for several airlines for more than two decades before being converted to a cargo plane in 2015.

Mary Schiavo, who is a pilot and former Inspector General of the Transportation Department, said the NTSB will also closely examine the maintenance history of this plane – particularly since it has a history of foreign ownership, including by a Russian company.

More than 160 flights were canceled and nearly 325 delayed by late Sunday, according to FlightAware, a website that tracks flight disruptions. 

At least five were killed, while three others remain in critical condition at a trauma center

At least five were killed, while three others remain in critical condition at a trauma center

The Amazon Prime plane was landing at Miami International Airport from San Juan, Puerto Rico, when it overran the runway on Sunday at around 2pm and 'struck multiple vehicles' on Northwest 42nd Avenue

The Amazon Prime plane was landing at Miami International Airport from San Juan, Puerto Rico, when it overran the runway on Sunday at around 2pm and ‘struck multiple vehicles’ on Northwest 42nd Avenue 

Officials from Orlando International Airport, more than 200 miles north of Miami, said some flights were diverted there.

Amazon said in a statement that it would cooperate with any investigation.

‘We’re heartbroken to learn that five people lost their lives in today’s incident at Miami International Airport,’ the company said. ‘Our deepest sympathies go out to the families, loved ones, and all those affected by this devastating loss.’

Last year, a UPS plane crashed after losing its engine while accelerating down the runway at Louisville’s Muhammad Ali International Airport. The crash killed all three pilots and 12 people on the ground. Twenty-three more were injured.

Woman Who Killed Husband Kills Firefighter Wife 24 Years Later

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A California woman has been sentenced for fatally stabbing her firefighter wife, more than 20 years after she previously killed her husband.

Yolanda Marodi received a sentence of 36 years to life for the killing of Riverside County Fire Captain Rebecca Marodi, the San Diego District Attorney’s Office announced Sept. 2. She pleaded guilty last month to second-degree murder.

“This was a vicious murder of a respected and dedicated Fire Captain who dedicated her entire career to serving her community,” District Attorney Summer Stephan said. “This case also shows that no one is immune to domestic violence, which is one of the most hidden and dangerous forms of violence we confront.”

Rebecca Marodi spent 30 years with Cal Fire and, just one month before her death, helped fight the Eaton blaze, the fifth-deadliest wildfire in California history.

The 49-year-old was discovered with multiple stab wounds inside her Ramona home on Feb. 17, 2025, according to an arrest warrant declaration.

One first responder exclaimed, “Is that Becky?” a sheriff’s deputy later testified in court.

Ring camera footage from the couple’s home captured some of Rebecca’s final distressed minutes. 

The footage, cited in the warrant, showed Yolanda chasing Rebecca across their patio, as Rebecca called out for her mother, Lorena Marodi.  

Yolanda responded, “She’s not here.” 

The couple disappeared, then reappeared with Rebecca’s back covered in blood. “Yolanda! Please,” she yelled. ”I don’t want to die.'”

Yolanda, who was holding a knife and had blood on her arms, answered, “You should have thought about that before.” 

Rebecca repeatedly asked Yolanda to call 911, but instead, Yolanda loaded items into her car and drove off. About an hour later, she crossed the border into Mexico.

Investigators later learned that Rebecca was unhappy in her two-year marriage.

Lorena, who lived with the couple, testified that on the morning of the killing, Yolanda told her “she and Becky had some things to work out, but there wouldn’t be any fighting.”

She later came home to find her daughter dead. 

Yolanda’s friend then showed police a text message from Yolanda. 

“Becky came home and told me she was leaving me, she met someone else, all the messages were lies,” Yolanda wrote. “We had a big fight and I hurt her…I’m sorry.”

Yolanda was arrested in Mexico in March 2025. She was charged with murder and pleaded not guilty. However, one month before her trial, she pleaded guilty to second-degree murder.

The case revived attention to Yolanda’s dark past. 

In October 2000, Yolanda fatally stabbed her husband, James Joseph Olejniczak in the chest. She pleaded guilty to voluntary manslaughter and was sentenced to 11 years in prison, according to court records obtained by the Los Angeles Times. She was released in 2013.  

Rebecca’s friends said Yolanda displayed “controlling, isolating behavior” in their relationship, the Times reported, while saying Rebecca had not told them anything about Yolanda’s prior record.

Sydney Mum Thought She Finally Found The One on a Cruise

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A Sydney woman hoping for a long-awaited shot at love believed she had met her real-life Prince Charming on a luxury cruise — until an unexpected message from his hidden fiancée brought the fantasy crashing down.

Sammi, a 44-year-old mother-of-one, crossed paths with 41-year-old Brit Liam McAuley during a nine-day cruise from Sydney to the Whitsundays in August, and said she was quickly captivated by the charming passenger.

For years, romance had taken a back seat in Sammi’s life after she devoted herself to caring for her son, Jett, following his diagnosis with an aggressive form of brain cancer 14 years earlier.

McAuley, whom she nicknamed “Mr UK,” appeared to say all the right things, treating her to lavish dates and even introducing her to his mother as their cruise romance intensified.

By the end of the voyage, the pair were so close that other passengers reportedly assumed they were a long-married couple rather than two strangers who had only just met at sea.

And when the trip ended, the couple vowed to carry on their romance despite living on opposite sides of the world. 

Lovestruck Sammi posted a string of photos of them both on social media and gushed: ‘This girl is no longer single.’

But her world came crashing down when a message from Mr McAuley’s fiancée appeared among the hundreds of comments congratulating her. 

Sydney woman Sammi thought she had finally found the man of her dreams on a luxury cruise holiday

Sydney woman Sammi thought she had finally found the man of her dreams on a luxury cruise holiday 

Sammi, 44, met British holidaymaker Liam McAuley, 41, while sailing from Sydney to the Whitsunday Islands on a nine-day cruise in August

Sammi, 44, met British holidaymaker Liam McAuley, 41, while sailing from Sydney to the Whitsunday Islands on a nine-day cruise in August

‘I was humiliated and heartbroken,’ she told the Daily Mail. ‘I genuinely had no idea and now people are saying I’m a homewrecker.

‘Yes I was caught up in a beautiful holiday romance, the kind you see on movies, but I’m not an idiot.

‘I asked the right questions, I met his mum, I spoke to his sister, I looked out for all the signs.’

Sammi had previously sworn off men after a run of bad dates but booked the holiday with her son Jett, 18, to celebrate his girlfriend’s birthday with her family.

‘I almost cancelled the whole thing,’ she said. ‘A few months before, I’d decided to put myself out there to meet someone.

‘I even started to share my journey on TikTok to keep myself accountable and encourage other women to do the same but most of my dates had been awful.

‘I did meet one lovely guy in April and we were planning to see each other again, then suddenly he stopped messaging and I found out on Facebook he’d died.

‘After that I just said, that’s it, I’m not doing this anymore and needed a break.’

But on the second day of the luxury trip Sammi had a change of heart.

‘I was all dressed in my Carla Zampatti gown for an elegant evening, had done my psychic reading and was like, “Girl, this is it”,’ she said.

‘I went to the nightclub by myself and that’s when I saw “Mr UK” and I was like, “who the heck is that”. 

Sammi dubbed her holiday dreamboat Mr UK

Sammi dubbed her holiday dreamboat Mr UK

Sammi says she was swept off her feet by the handsome Brit

Sammi says she was swept off her feet by the handsome Brit 

‘He was 6’1 [185cm] and so handsome. We chatted, he was funny, he had banter, we danced, and oh boy, could he dance and that British accent. He took my breath away.’

The night ended with a kiss and the pair quickly became inseparable.

‘He merged with my big family, I merged with his big family and the funniest thing is people actually thought we had been married for years,’ she said.

‘We just clicked, like really clicked, and it changed my world.’

During the trip, Sammi decided to continue posting TikToks about her dating experience. 

She poured her heart out as thousands of people started to follow along for the next instalment.

‘I was having the best time, but I was being realistic because I knew this man lived on the other side of the world,’ she said.

‘As I was posting about him I could see some comments saying he was love bombing me and that he probably had a wife at home.

‘But one of the first things I asked him was if he was married, if he was single – and he said he was.

During the trip she began sharing her story to her TikTok account which went viral

During the trip she began sharing her story to her TikTok account which went viral

Sammi poured her heart out about falling in love on the ship

Sammi poured her heart out about falling in love on the ship

‘Plus I had met his mum too and she was just so lovely to me, I knew there couldn’t be anything to worry about.

‘It wasn’t just that either, he wasn’t secretive with his phone, he used my charger and didn’t try to hide it or go off to take calls.

‘I was looking for signs because I had been cheated on before and that’s one of the reasons I stayed single for so long because I just didn’t trust anyone… but Liam was different.’

After the trip ended and Mr McAuley headed to the airport to fly home, Sammi realised she was falling in love.

‘I thought I would be ok but I wasn’t, I cried and cried. We spent 18 hours together every day for nine days so it’s kind of like dating someone for six months,’ she said. 

‘We promised to meet in Italy for the next school holidays and I was excited about that but as I was driving home, he messaged me to come back to the airport because he had extended his stay by another week.

‘And that was it, I was no longer single and falling in love. Of course, I had to fall in love with a guy who lives in the UK but I had never met anyone like him, he was witty, flirtatious and so unbelievably kind.

When McAuley headed to the airport Sammi broke down

When McAuley headed to the airport Sammi broke down 

‘We discussed long distance and relationship visas and even money. 

‘We had hard conversations and I told him if it worked out, he’d never get my house because it was for Jett and he agreed and said he would sign anything.’

Then last week, on the day McAuley was due to leave, Sammi woke up to frantic messages from a friend telling her to check her TikTok.

‘My videos had blown up and there were hundreds of comments from people saying that Liam was in an eight-year relationship with his fiancée back in the UK,’ she said.

Sammi said while she didn’t want to believe what she was reading, his long-term fiancée was among those who had commented. 

‘Hi, I am Liam, AKA Mr UK’s fiancée of eight years. I’m not one to publicly post, but I’ve been left no choice, happy for you to message me,’ it read.

Sammi immediately confronted him: ‘I woke Liam up and at first he denied it but then he told me it was true but complicated. I told him to pack his things and go.

‘He was already leaving that day anyway so I drove him to the train station in silence. He kissed me and said, “I have never loved anyone as much as I loved you” and he left.

‘My heart wanted it to work but my brain knew it couldn’t.

‘He is gone now and I have been humiliated online and people think I knew – or at least feel I should have seen the warning signs, but there weren’t any. 

When one of her TikTok videos went viral, Sammi received a message from Mr UK's secret fiancée

When one of her TikTok videos went viral, Sammi received a message from Mr UK’s secret fiancée 

Sammi says she was humiliated by the betrayal

Sammi says she was humiliated by the betrayal 

‘I feel awful for his partner. No one deserved that.’

Mr McAuley, now back in the UK, told the Daily Mail he had handled the situation badly but he still believes they can make it work.

‘Sammi knows how sorry I am for how it all ended and we both know what we feel is real,’ he said. 

‘It will take some work to get back to where we were.

‘I’m also sorry for hurting [my fiancée], even if in my head it had been over for a while but the way I have been portrayed by her family and friends is downright vindictive.

‘Sammi changed my view on what happiness can be like and I have to live with the fact I ruined it.

‘I’m not sure what the future holds but I’m along for the ride.’ 

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King Charles Draws Line: Harry and Meghan Still Not Working Royals

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The King has signalled that Prince Harry and Meghan Markle will continue to be regarded as private individuals and will not carry out official royal engagements, even as the Duke and Duchess of Sussex spend time back in the UK.

In formal guidance issued to senior figures across government, the armed forces and those who act on behalf of the Royal Family nationwide, Charles stated that Harry and Meghan’s royal status remains in abeyance and that they should not be approached or received as working members of the monarchy.

The monarch also made clear that any questions concerning the Sussexes’ security arrangements should continue to be handled by the appropriate police authorities.

The instruction was circulated on the King’s behalf by the Lord Chamberlain, the most senior official in the royal household.

Palace sources stressed that the notice was issued in “full accordance” with the Sussex family’s previously stated desire to live as private citizens while in Britain, and that it remains consistent with the so-called “Sandringham agreement,” which officials say is still in force.

The letter, which confirms Harry and Meghan cannot use their HRH titles, has been shared with the Duke and Duchess. 

It came on the same day that Harry was pictured in Britain for the first time since he and Meghan returned a fortnight ago. 

The Duke smiled broadly while visiting Tower Bridge Studios – the central London premises where Diary of a CEO and The Apprentice are filmed – hours after the King’s letter was released. 

The studio’s Instagram page posted: ‘Thank you Prince Harry for choosing Tower Bridge Studios! It was an absolute pleasure to have you in our studios and signing our wall. We look forward to welcoming you back again.’

Prince Harry was pictured today for the first time since he and Meghan Markle returned to the UK

Prince Harry was pictured today for the first time since he and Meghan Markle returned to the UK

The Duke was seen signing a wall at Tower Bridge Studios in central London, where The Apprentice and Diary of a CEO are filmed

The Duke was seen signing a wall at Tower Bridge Studios in central London, where The Apprentice and Diary of a CEO are filmed

Harry and Meghan at a David Foster Foundation event in Canada on August 7

Harry and Meghan at a David Foster Foundation event in Canada on August 7

King Charles III and Queen Camilla attend The Braemar Gathering in the Highlands on Saturday

King Charles III and Queen Camilla attend The Braemar Gathering in the Highlands on Saturday

King Charles is understood to have found out about his son's impending move back to Britain on Sunday (the pair are seen together in 2022)

King Charles with Harry at Windsor Castle after Queen Elizabeth II’s death in September 2022

William, Harry, Meghan and Charles at a Commonwealth Service at Westminster Abbey in 2019

William, Harry, Meghan and Charles at a Commonwealth Service at Westminster Abbey in 2019

Charles’ letter read: ‘Following the decision by the Duke and Duchess of Sussex to relocate to the UK, we have received a number of requests for guidance. To help avoid doubt or confusion, the King has directed that the following information be shared.

‘It is well known that in January 2020 the Duke and Duchess stepped down from undertaking representative duties on behalf of the Sovereign, and are no longer working members of the Royal Family. 

‘This position, distinct from the state and royal duties undertaken by the working Royal Family, and with the personal latitude it brings the couple in respect of financial independence and protection of their privacy as they would wish, will continue to be fully respected.’

The letter – which was sent to relevant senior stakeholders across Government, the military and Lord Lieutenancies by the Lord Benyon, the Lord Chamberlain, who represents the Royal Household – continues: ‘It follows that there is no change to the current status of the Duke and Duchess of Sussex. Their styles as His and Her Royal Highness remain in abeyance and are not used. 

‘The charitable work of the Duke and Duchess is a personal matter for them both and undertaken in their private capacity. In short, their position is akin to private citizens with commercial and charitable interests. 

‘Any specific questions from official and State organisations about the courtesies which should be extended to the Duke and Duchess, and particularly where recourse to public funds may be required, should be directed to Buckingham Palace. Any operational security issues should continue to be directed to the relevant police authorities.

‘All correspondence and administrative questions relating to the couple should be sent directly to their office, which will continue to operate separately from the Royal Household.’

Officials have insisted there is nothing controversial or new around the letter’s contents, which simply make clear ‘the continued position for the benefit of all parties’.

However, the fact that the Palace needed to send the letter out in the first place demonstrates the level of confusion and consternation Harry and Meghan’s sudden to return to the UK has caused.

It will also be seen by some as a determined effort to put the couple in their place after sources close to them have repeatedly briefed out to favoured media in recent weeks their plans to undertake more charitable duties back in the UK.

The Sussexes returned to Britain a fortnight ago with their two children for what has been described as an ‘extended’ stay. Prince Archie and Princess Lilibet are believed to be starting at a British school this week. 

The wider issue of a framework for security provision remains for the Executive Committee for the Protection of Royalty and Public Figures (Ravec) to determine, a source stressed.

Officials could not be pinned down as to how many people the letter had been sent to, particularly in government, aside from saying ‘a select few at an appropriate grade of seniority’. 

Lord Lieutenants act as the personal representative of the monarch on in their assigned county or area. There are currently 98 across the UK.

Trump Reveals Starship Troopers-Inspired Space Force Uniforms

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President Trump on Sunday revealed a proposed new look for the United States Space Force, with uniform designs that appeared to take cues from the sci-fi action film “Starship Troopers.”

In a post on Truth Social, the commander-in-chief shared a mock-up of the sleek black-and-gray attire, describing the concept as “inspired by the discipline of the Starship Trooper uniform” while being “modernized for the guardians of the space domain.”

The reference points to the 1997 cult favorite, adapted from Robert Heinlein’s militaristic novel, which imagines a 23rd-century human civilization locked in a brutal interstellar war with giant insect-like enemies called the Arachnids.

The Space Force uniform reveal quickly drew reactions online, where users noted that the design also seemed to echo the sharp, authoritarian styling of Imperial officers from “Star Wars.”

“SWEET your [sic] going galactic empire! Let the Force be with you lol!” one social media user joked in response.

“Looking a whole like like Stars Wars Imperial Army Officer uniform,” another agreed.

“Sorry, but that looks like a Star Wars Evil Empire uniform,” a third quipped.

“Starship Troopers” director Paul Verhoeven has said that the movie, which stars Casper Van Dien and Neil Patrick Harris, was meant to be a satire of a “fascist utopia.”

“I decided to make a movie about fascists who aren’t aware of their fascism,” Verhoeven, who grew up in the Nazi-occupied Netherlands near a German military base, told The Guardian in 2018.

Trump revealed the new military digs during a massive social media blitz over the weekend, during which he also shared an image of the moon with the words “The Moon is Ours,” and the American flag to the side.

Trump established the United States Space Force (USSF) in Dec. 2019 during his first term in the White House.

Last month, the president announced plans to create a new military Space Academy to train the next generation of civilian and military aerospace experts. 

“You think of West Point, and you think of Annapolis, and you think of the Air Force Academy and you think of the Coast Guard Academy. It’s great. They’re all great, but we’re going to have now a Space Force [academy].”

The USSF earlier this year detailed its plans to defend US space capabilities and achieve “space superiority” in a manual titled “Space Warfighting: A Framework for Planners.”

The space-faring military branch defined space superiority” as having a “degree of control that allows forces to operate at a time and place of their choosing without prohibitive interference from space or counterspace threats, while also denying the same to an adversary.”

Andrea Yates’ Former Defense Lawyer Explains Key Parallels in Lindsay Clancy Trial

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Attorney George Parnham, best known for representing Andrea Yates after she drowned her five children in 2001, said the case against Lindsay Clancy echoes key aspects of the Yates case.

Parnham, a Houston, Texas, criminal defense lawyer, said he sees striking similarities between Clancy’s trial and the prosecution of Yates, whom he defended after the deaths of her five children more than two decades ago.

“Where a mother is accused of taking the life of someone she gave life to,” Parnham said, “that’s an overwhelming concept.”

In the Lindsay Clancy trial, jurors finished a sixth day of deliberations Thursday without a unanimous verdict. They had already informed the judge twice that they were deadlocked on whether Clancy should be found criminally responsible for the 2023 deaths of her three children.

Deliberations are set to resume Friday morning.

Parnham represented Andrea Yates after she drowned her five children in the bathtub of her home in the summer of 2001. He said the case weighed heavily on him, recalling that he would wake up in the middle of the night thinking about it and writing down notes.

At the time of Yates’ crimes, postpartum psychosis was far less familiar to the public than it is today. The case helped bring widespread attention to the condition and to the potential effects of severe mental illness after childbirth.

Postpartum psychosis is not a standalone diagnosis in the American Psychiatric Association’s Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fifth Edition. It is understood as a severe psychiatric emergency that can occur in connection with conditions including bipolar disorder and major depression.

Parnham said continued public discussion and expert testimony about postpartum psychosis and other serious mental health conditions remain important.

“Moms understand it, and husbands and fathers and men can appreciate the mental health issue,” Parnham said. “But you need to continue to drive that home.”

Yates was initially convicted of capital murder and sentenced to life in prison. Parnham successfully appealed the case, and Yates was later found not guilty by reason of insanity.

She was committed indefinitely to a state mental hospital, where she remains.

Parnham said the memory of the Yates case still affects him decades later.

“Even at this late day in my life, I still go back to that time,” he said.

While the Yates and Clancy cases share similarities, Parnham noted that the circumstances are different. Yates had a longer, well-documented history of psychosis, and Parnham said she stopped taking her antipsychotic medication weeks before killing her children.

Still, he said the nature of the allegations in both cases presents an extraordinary challenge for a defense team.

“A mother being accused of taking the life of a child that she gave life to,” Parnham said, “that’s totally unlike any other type of homicide.”

Glover: Only a Tory-Reform Pact Can Stop Labour in Britain

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Channel 4 News’s undercover operation last week, carried out by a broadcaster widely seen as sympathetic to the Left, landed like a grenade not only inside Reform UK but also among Conservatives and voters desperate to see the back of this failing Government.

Nigel Farage has every reason to be furious, though some of that anger should be directed at himself. The episode exposed an astonishingly amateur operation in which two senior Reform figures walked straight into what should have been a glaringly obvious trap.

Reform surely understands by now that it has enemies waiting for any misstep. Yet the threat is not some shadowy “Establishment”, as Farage and his closest allies so often claim with an almost obsessive insistence. The more immediate danger comes from the Left, embedded across political and media life and alert to every chance to damage them.

That two supposedly serious aides could be taken in so easily is almost comic. One, James Orr, is an associate professor of theology at Cambridge. Rather than being drawn into a conversation over oysters and wine with a bogus foreign multi-billionaire about a possible donation, he might have been wiser to remain focused on his books.

The other, 30-year-old Dan Jukes, belongs to the circle of young loyalists around Farage — an inner guard whose political instincts and experience are open to question. Jukes has been suspended, as has Orr, though in both cases a return to the fold cannot be ruled out.

Other members of Farage’s youthful coterie include press chief Ed Sumner, 30, and George Cottrell (aka ‘Posh George’). Cottrell is a 32-year-old wide boy multi-millionaire and convicted fraudster. Police are investigating donations worth £500,000 made to Reform UK by his mother.

For Farage to have relied so heavily on inexperienced and seemingly flaky young buccaneers reflects poor judgment on his part. He doesn’t have – though sorely needs – a proper chief of staff.

Coming after earlier financial scandals that are still unresolved, this latest discreditable episode is bound to damage Reform. All right, it was a set-up, but Reform was criminally naive to have swallowed the bait along with the oysters.

I’m cross with Nigel Farage for presiding over so amateurish a shambles that two of his senior aides could succumb to such an obvious ambush, writes Stephen Glover

Why wasn¿t James Orr (right) attending soberly to his books rather than trying to squeeze a donation out of a fake foreign multi-billionaire over oysters and wine? writes Stephen Glover

Why wasn’t James Orr (right) attending soberly to his books rather than trying to squeeze a donation out of a fake foreign multi-billionaire over oysters and wine? writes Stephen Glover

The other aide, Dan Jukes (seen left with Nigel Farage) is one of a group of young acolytes of questionable judgment and little political experience who form Farage¿s praetorian guard

The other aide, Dan Jukes (seen left with Nigel Farage) is one of a group of young acolytes of questionable judgment and little political experience who form Farage’s praetorian guard

Is the party finished? I very much doubt it. Reform’s roots aren’t so shallow that it can be pulled up like a weed. It appeals to millions of people. Some may be disenchanted by the evidence that it is run more like a nightclub than a political party, but it won’t easily shrivel and die.

I certainly hope not. One doesn’t have to be a paid-up member to understand that Reform is crucial in the struggle to get rid of a Labour Party threatening the prosperity, security and good name of our country.

While fed up with Farage’s mob, I’m also angry with those Tories who can’t suppress their joy at his discomfiture. If they think they’ll pick up all Reform’s lost support, and swan back to power, they are tragically deluded.

Look at the poll figures. A year ago, Reform was ten points or more ahead of Labour, which was stuck in the doldrums, along with the Tories. Now polls are showing that Labour under Andy Burnham’s new management are a few points ahead of Reform.

Meanwhile, though Kemi Badenoch’s personal ratings are excellent, reflecting her growing political skills, the Tory Party as a whole has only made modest advances in the polls.

In other words, the chief beneficiary of Reform’s tribulations is cheeky chappie Andy Burnham. If Reform were to crumble further, the Tories would of course pick up some support but Labour would do better.

When will the Tories learn that after 14 wasted years, during which they championed Net Zero, turbocharged mass immigration and increased the tax burden, they won’t quickly be forgiven by millions of sensible people?

Maybe in ten years, when memories have faded, voters will be prepared to allow the Tories by themselves to govern again. But they don’t have a divinely ordained entitlement to do so.

Tories are deeply tribal. I don’t particularly mean the people who trundle out to vote Conservative. I’m thinking more of councillors and MPs, of the diminishing band of party workers and various hangers-on.

It is because they are so resilient and tenacious that they have recovered from previous electoral wipeouts in 1906, 1945 and 1997. I expect they could again.

But not now. Not so soon. They must wake up to the fact that they won’t be able to topple Labour by themselves in the foreseeable future. Only the combined force of a Tory and Reform alliance can achieve that.

So I despaired when Kemi Badenoch recently described the prospect of a coalition government with Reform as ‘monstrous’. For good measure, she said that Tories who had defected to Nigel Farage’s party were ‘some of the most dishonest people’ she had met.

I appreciate that Kemi has to fly the flag for the Tories. But in demonising Reform, and dismissing decent people who have joined the party, she sounds like a cult leader

I appreciate that Kemi has to fly the flag for the Tories. But in demonising Reform, and dismissing decent people who have joined the party, she sounds like a cult leader

That sounds like abuse. I appreciate that Kemi has to fly the flag for the Tories. She needs to be their champion. But in demonising Reform, and dismissing decent people who have joined the party, she sounds like an intransigent cult leader.

Many Reform activists are equally cutting. Farage has also been unnecessarily rude about the Conservatives. Last year he called Kemi Badenoch lazy and her party’s MPs ‘stuffy, boring old b*****ds’, adding that ‘we pretty much despise the Tories’.

And yet on immigration, defence, welfare reform, British sovereignty and (so far as one can tell) lower taxation, both parties are singing from the same hymn sheet. Odd that they are so rude about each other despite being so alike in their policies, but then family feuds can be the most bitter.

What will it take for the Conservatives and Reform to realise they will have to cooperate if we are going to be rid of a government that is steering this country towards bankruptcy while refusing to defend it properly?

The threat was evident in a recent council by-election in Dover. The Greens triumphed with 28.8 per cent of the vote against Reform’s 27.5 per cent. The Conservatives won 17.1 per cent and Labour 14.6 per cent, while hard-Right Restore trailed with 10.7 per cent.

The parties of the Right got significantly more votes than the parties of the Left but, because they fought the seat separately, the Green candidate won. A similar pattern could be repeated up and down the country in a General Election.

There must be a pact between the Tories and Reform – or we will get five more years of a Labour-led coalition. And it has to be a pre-election alliance. It will be too late if the two parties come together after they have suffered the electorally dire consequences of fighting each other.

I realise that it will be extremely difficult to make an accommodation in view of the profound tribal affiliations of both the Conservative Party and Reform UK. But we must contemplate doing the near impossible in order to save the country.

Last week’s shenanigans tell us two things. The first is that Nigel Farage’s party is still frighteningly amateur, and needs urgently to be put on a professional basis if it is to protect itself from its remorseless enemies on the Left.

The second lesson is even more seismic. The centre-Right can’t prevail without Reform. Tories must stop hoping that their rival collapses. They won’t be able to see off Andy Burnham by themselves.

Where, in God’s name, are the politicians on the Right big enough to put country before party?