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Hugh Jackman’s recent separation from his wife of 27 years, Deborra Lee-Furness, has reportedly taken a significant toll on the Australian actor. Known for his diverse talents, Jackman has apparently been navigating the emotional aftermath of his divorce, which some suggest resembles a midlife crisis. Observers noted his unusual social media activity and a seemingly somber appearance at a football game alongside his “Wolverine & Deadpool” co-star Ryan Reynolds, while Blake Lively and Taylor Swift supported her fiancé, Travis Kelce.
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According to an insider speaking to In Touch, Jackman’s current social circle doesn’t align with his usual friends. “He seems to have distanced himself from his old friends, who feel sidelined along with Deborra,” the source revealed. They added, “Despite attempts to make plans, he only seems to have time for people like Ryan Reynolds, which feels like a snub.” While spending leisure time with Reynolds might be seen as a slight to his longtime friends, licensed counselor Stephanie Wijkstrom, CEO of the Counseling and Wellness Center of Pittsburgh, shared insights with Nicki Swift suggesting that such behavior isn’t uncommon following a divorce.
Wijkstrom explains, “Depending on the divorce circumstances, an individual might seek separation from mutual friends to avoid associations with their former partner. This can impact friendships, as friends may sense the withdrawal but not understand its reasons.” This context helps elucidate Jackman’s actions and the strain it may have placed on his relationships.
The announcement of Jackman and Furness’s separation surprised many, given their longstanding reputation as a committed Hollywood couple. Despite some describing Jackman’s post-divorce actions as “odd and erratic,” he appeared to stabilize after confirming his relationship with Broadway star Sutton Foster. Speculation about their relationship had circulated before their official announcement, with Furness alluding to betrayal in a statement to the Daily Mail: “My heart and compassion go out to everyone who has traversed the traumatic journey of betrayal.”
Divorce is invariably challenging, particularly after such an enduring partnership. While leaning on friendships can provide support, it may also introduce complications. Friends of Jackman expressed concern to In Touch, worrying that he might not be coping as well as he appears. Wijkstrom advises open communication as a remedy, suggesting, “Discuss your emotional state with friends. Assure them the silence isn’t personal but related to what you’re experiencing, allowing them to understand and support you without taking offense.” This approach can help maintain crucial friendships during such a transformative period.
What led to the end of Hugh and Deb could explain why he’s pushing close friends away
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News of Hugh Jackman and Deborra Lee-Furness’ separation came as a shock to many, as they were seen as one of Hollywood’s rare displays of commitment. Unfortunately, good things come to an end, even if you are the Greatest Showman. Despite post-divorce behavior that the In Touch insider described as “odd and erratic,” Jackman seemed to get it together after announcing his new relationship with Broadway star and dear friend Sutton Foster. Affair rumors about Jackman and Foster had been garnering attention for a while prior to the couple’s official debut, but it was Furness who all but confirmed it. In a statement made to the Daily Mail, she said, “My heart and compassion goes out to everyone who has traversed the traumatic journey of betrayal.”
Regardless of how exactly Jackman and Furness eventually came to an end, divorce will always be difficult, especially when you’ve been involved with someone for so long. While finding solace in friendships can help, those relationships can also prove to be equally challenging. An insider told In Touch of Jackman, “Friends can’t help worrying he’s not doing as well as he’s letting on!” At the same time, it appears that they also feel abandoned. Stephanie Wijkstrom says that the best way to deal with this is through open communication. “Talk with your friends about what you are feeling emotionally,” she advises. “Let them know the quiet is not about them but more about what you are going through so that they can lean in and check on you as well as not take it personally.”