Lindsay Clancy may be able to point to the near-acquittal in her murder trial as a powerful bargaining chip in her civil claims against the medical providers she says failed to properly treat her, with legal experts telling The Post it could help push settlement talks into the millions.

The closely watched triple-murder case involving the 36-year-old mother from Duxbury, Massachusetts, ended Friday with jurors unable to reach a verdict. Since then, several members of the panel have said that 11 of the 12 jurors were ready to find Clancy not guilty by reason of insanity and were not persuaded by the prosecution’s argument.

That outcome, legal analysts said, could strengthen Clancy’s position as her civil litigation moves forward.

“It’s like a leverage play when you’re negotiating or mediating,” said Seth Zuckerman, a New York attorney who works on both criminal and civil matters.

Zuckerman said Clancy’s side could argue that jurors had already reviewed the evidence and appeared to believe she had been wrongly diagnosed or inadequately treated. “And 11 out of 12 were prepared to find her not guilty because of this defect, which means basically that they didn’t think that the medical providers did the right thing by her,” he said.

Another expert suggested the settlement could reach seven figures.

At trial, Clancy’s criminal attorney, Kevin Reddington, asked jurors to find her not criminally responsible based on the claim she was suffering from severe postpartum psychosis made worse by several psychiatric medications her doctors gave her.

Clancy is suing hospitals, doctors and other providers who treated her in the four months before the murders when she mentally spiraled as she desperately battled insomnia, anxiety, depression and intrusive thoughts about suicide and harming her kids.

Her lawsuit claims her providers failed to properly diagnose her and put her on a revolving door of powerful medications, ultimately leading to her killing Cora, 5, Dawson, 3, and Callan, 8 months, on Jan. 24, 2023 before she tried to take her own life.

Clancy’s then-husband Patrick Clancy also has a lawsuit pending against her providers.

“It’s persuasive if you’re talking to the defense attorney or insurance carrier as to why they should settle this because you already have some anecdotal knowledge from the from a juror as to what they thought of this,” Zuckerman said.

Three jurors revealed in an interview with NBC 10 Boston they felt the prosecution’s case was “harsh” and that they failed to put on any witnesses who said Clancy was a bad mom, leading the jurors to believe she “snapped.”

Another jury member told CBS News Boston the prosecution “didn’t have a figurative smoking gun” and the case had “too much gray area.”

ALSO READ: Carole Radziwill Reveals Unexpected Update on Ex Adam Kenworthy

Here’s the latest on Lindsay Clancy’s murder trial:

Medical malpractice lawyer, Doug Burnetti, told The Post Clancy’s civil team probably “feels emboldened to some extent.”

Clancy could potentially settle with the medical providers for millions, Burnetti said.

Some other ways the criminal trial could impact the civil case include that Clancy can’t be forced to sit for a deposition by the lawyers representing the hospitals and doctors she is suing until her criminal case has fully concluded.

Until that point, Clancy could plead the Fifth Amendment in the civil case in order to ensure she doesn’t incriminate herself further in the criminal case.

“She still has a Fifth Amendment right to not say anything,” attorney John W. Day told The Post. “And so what happens sometimes is judges say, ‘All right, the lawsuit can proceed, but if you want to take her sworn deposition, that has to wait until there’s no chance of any criminal prosecution.’ That could be a long time.”

Also, testimony from the criminal trial could be used against witnesses that may also testify in the civil case.

Clancy is suing psychiatrist, Dr. Jennifer Tufts, who met with Clancy over a dozen times in the months before the tragedy, claiming she failed to diagnose her with bipolar disorder and the doctor even gave her an SSRI drug, which can worsen symptoms for someone with the disorder.

Tufts testified for two days at the criminal trial which included hours of blistering cross-examination by Reddington.

Tufts would presumably be deposed and testify in any civil case, as the lead defendant and her testimony from the criminal case could be used against her — like to catch out inconsistencies.

Burnetti said Reddington may have been cognizant about the fact that Tufts would likely also be called in the civil case and that could have been another reason for him to leave no stone unturned during her cross-examination.

Burnetti also said the enormous media and public frenzy surrounding the trial could make it difficult to get an unbiased jury in the civil case.

“There is going to be an impact because if you’ve heard of it, you’ve formed some opinion one way or the other,” he said. “Even if you stand up in front of the judge and say, ‘Well, I’ve heard about it, but I have no opinion.’ That’s hard to believe fully because everybody has their built-in biases.”

Burnetti said in general the type of medical malpractice case Clancy has brought is difficult to prove because the doctors only need to prove they provided Clancy with the “standard of care, which is not perfection.”

“If the defendants can prove by a preponderance of evidence that they met the standard of care, even though the outcome was horrible, the jury could find a way to rule in their favor,” Burnetti explained.

PROVO, Utah — One year after Charlie Kirk was assassinated in the central courtyard of Utah Valley University, the school plans to shut down campus for the day, marking the anniversary as its new president pledges to protect open dialogue and free speech in higher education.

Dr. Jon Anderson, who arrived at UVU shortly before the fall 2026 semester began, was still serving as president of Pennsylvania Western University when Kirk was shot and killed on Sept. 10, 2025. In a sit-down interview with News Media, Anderson said the tragedy was deeply personal because of his family’s longstanding ties to Utah.

He said it was his wife who called to tell him what had happened.

“I had two daughters and a son-in-law, they were about 10 yards from the assassination when it happened,” Anderson said. “And so I knew that our future would be tied to it in one way or the other.”

The healing process:

“When the opportunity came up to come home — this is the place that I’m from — and help this institution move forward and heal, it’s something I leaned into immediately,” he told News Media. “I wanted to be here to help in any way that I could, and I have found since coming here, this place is so resilient. Its people are gritty, they’re ready to move forward, and they’re to learn from everything that we can learn from that day.”

With students, faculty and other campus staff dealing with Kirk’s assassination in their own ways, Anderson said the campus will be closed on Sept. 10, the one-year mark.

“I think one thing all of us at UVU have learned is that traumatic events, sometimes there’s an initial reaction and sometimes there is a delayed reaction, and it’s important for us to be very empathetic with each other as everyone goes through the healing process in their own way,” he added.

Although the school is not hosting an official event, he said Turning Point USA plans to hold its own memorial on campus.

“We want people to have their own space to heal in their own way,” he said. “TPUSA is using some space on campus to hold their event here, and we are supportive and reflective of that.”

MORE STORY: Charlie Kirk Assassination Timeline: Second-by-Second Account of the Attack

Kirk was a founder of TPUSA and was speaking at an event sponsored by its UVU chapter at the heart of campus when he was killed. The group will hold its memorial at UVU’s UCCU Center at 6:30 p.m. MT on Sept. 10.

As for plans for a potential permanent memorial, Anderson said work is underway from a group including board members and students.

“They’re sorting through lots of voices, getting people to the table to talk through what that might look like, looking at other institutions, what they have done,” he said. “I can’t guarantee that it’s going to be anytime soon, but I can tell you if and when that happens, it will be thoughtfully done and well placed.”

On free speech:

While the public university is “politically neutral and apolitical,” Anderson said it’s important to provide a space to share varied viewpoints for the students’ benefit.

“We don’t jump in the fray, but we host the frays,” he said.

“We allow people to come in and focus on civil dialogue, engaging in new and good ideas, and that’s where we hope to excel,” he continued. “A place that anyone can come with any idea, have a place for open, honest, violence-free debate, and that’s what our future is, and that is what institutions of higher education are, when they are at their best.”

The latest on the suspect:

Kirk’s suspected assassin, 23-year-old Tyler Robinson, pleaded not guilty to all charges through his attorneys at his arraignment on Sept. 1 — nearly a year after his arrest.

He’s due back in court on Oct. 23, when Judge Tony Graf Jr. could set a trial date.

He could face the death penalty if convicted of the top charge of aggravated murder.

Kirk, 31, was married with two children.

For students, it was the start of a new school year. For Charlie Kirk, it was a return to the road — and when the 31-year-old landed in Utah on the morning of September 10, 2025, he was brimming with anticipation.

Kirk had every reason to expect a receptive crowd. Utah, a reliably Republican state where nearly 60 percent of voters had backed Donald Trump the previous year, was fertile ground for Turning Point USA, the pro-MAGA youth organization he helped build into a national force.

Still, he knew the visit would not pass without resistance. Across the state, nearly 8,000 students had added their names to petitions urging universities to bar his American Comeback Tour from campus. Kirk, however, was eager to meet that opposition directly, inviting critics to step up to the microphone and challenge him beneath a tent stamped with the words: ‘Prove Me Wrong.’

The tour was set to begin at Utah Valley University in Orem, about 45 miles south of Salt Lake City. From there, Kirk planned to continue to Fort Collins for an event at Colorado State University, followed by stops at the University of Minnesota and Virginia Tech, before returning to Utah for a September 30 appearance at the State University.

Kirk and his team had promoted the schedule as a series of ‘high energy evenings featuring candid conversations about conservative values.’

The flier read: ‘Don’t agree with Charlie? Great, you go to the front of the line.’

Hours later, Kirk, father of a three-year-old daughter and 16-month-old son, would be shot dead.

Tyler Robinson, a 23-year-old apprentice electrician, has been charged with Kirk’s murder and faces the death penalty if convicted. A trial date will be set at the next court hearing, on October 23. He has pleaded not guilty.

This is prosecutors’ version of events.

Wednesday, September 10

8.29am:

Tyler Robinson, who lived with his lover Lance Twiggs at an apartment in St George, 260 miles south of Orem, is seen on surveillance footage arriving at a parking garage on Utah Valley University’s campus.

Robinson is driving a grey Dodge Challenger, wearing a maroon T-shirt, pale shorts and light gray Converse shoes with white laces.

He walks from the parking lot to where Turning Point USA workers are preparing the grassy courtyard for Kirk’s event, and speaks to them. It’s not known what was said.

Around 9am:

People start gathering for the event, which Kirk and his team requested be held in the open air, rather than inside an auditorium.

When he visited UVU’s campus in March 2019, for his first ever event in Utah, he spoke in a ballroom. But by the time he last visited the state, for an April 2024 event at the University of Utah in Salt Lake City, he had switched to holding events outdoors so that people could approach him and challenge his ideas.

9.25am:

Robinson is seen returning to the car and driving away from campus.

Just after 10am:

Robinson is caught on UVU surveillance camera footage returning to campus on foot, wearing the same clothing as earlier and carrying a blue backpack.

He walks to the Sorensen, a student center overlooking the courtyard where the event will be held, and buys food from Chick-fil-A, sitting to eat at one of the tables.

Robinson is then seen walking across campus to a wooded area beyond the perimeter of the university site.

He returns to campus shortly after, but this time he is not wearing his backpack.

11am:

Robinson is seen once more walking away from campus and heading back towards the wooded area.

11.52am:

Robinson returns to campus wearing different clothing – dark jeans, a dark t-shirt and a baseball cap. He still wears the Converse shoes.

He moves across the campus, walking up the stairwells with a very pronounced limp. His strange gait is believed to be because he has parts of the gun hidden in his pants leg.

The gunman is seen climbing onto the roof of a building some 450 feet away from the courtyard tent where Kirk was scheduled to speak at noon.

12 noon:

Three thousand people have now gathered in the grassy courtyard for Kirk’s event.

Turning Point USA has hired eight private security guards to accompany Kirk. The university has deployed eight of its own security officers – most of its 15-officer force. Six are in uniform, and two are patrolling the crowd in plain clothes. A campus police officer from Utah State University is also present, in preparation for Kirk’s September 30 appearance at their university.

12.09pm:

Kirk emerges and takes up his seat beneath the Prove Me Wrong tent, microphone in hand.

He delivers some prepared remarks and then begins taking questions from the crowd. The first question is about Mormonism and Kirk, an Evangelical Christian, spends eight minutes debating the questioner, who claims that Mormonism is more historically accurate than Protestantism.

‘First of all, I love Mormons,’ says Kirk. ‘I love how Mormons have more kids than they can afford,’ and gestures to members of his team who he says are Mormons.

‘You’ve got to get your mojo back,’ says Kirk. ‘No more of this LGBT stuff.’

The crowd roars in reply.

A second questioner, 29-year-old Hunter Kozak, takes the microphone and asks Kirk: ‘Do you know how many transgender Americans have been mass shooters over the last 10 years?’

Kirk quickly replies: ‘Too many’ – a comment again greeted with loud applause.

12.23pm:

The gunman, lying on the roof of a nearby building, pulls the trigger on his rifle from a distance of around 415 feet.

Kirk is hit with a single bullet to the neck and slumps over.

The crowd screams and people leap to their feet and run from the scene, while a group of Kirk’s supporters carry him to a nearby SUV, which drives off in such a hurry the rear door is still open.

Kirk is taken to Timpanogos Regional Hospital, 3.3 miles from the UVU courtyard.

Surveillance footage shows the gunman running across the roof; jumping down; and walk-jogging off campus towards the wooded area.

12.39pm:

The first FBI agents arrive and secure the scene.

Sometime after the shooting, according to charging documents, Robinson texts Twiggs and says: ‘Drop what you are doing, look under my keyboard.’

ALSO READ: French Lifeboat Service Refused to Rescue 120 Migrants on Dinghy

Twiggs finds a note which reads: ‘I had the opportunity to take out Charlie Kirk and I’m going to take it.’

Twiggs replies to Robinson and asks: ‘What??? You’re joking, right??’

Robinson replies that he is ‘stuck in orem for a little while longer,’ and had hoped to keep his involvement a secret ’till I died of old age.’ He apologizes for involving Twiggs.

Twiggs asks: ‘You weren’t the one who did it, right????’

Robinson replies: ‘I am, I’m sorry.’

12.48pm:

Utah Valley University sends out an emergency alert saying police are investigating ‘a single shot fired toward a visiting speaker’ – and that a suspect is in custody.

1.02pm:

President Donald Trump shares news of Kirk’s shooting on Truth Social, as videos of the shooting circulate online.

He writes: ‘We must all pray for Charlie Kirk, who has been shot. A great guy from top to bottom. GOD BLESS HIM!’

2.40pm:

Trump announces that Kirk has died.

‘The Great, and even Legendary, Charlie Kirk, is dead,’ he writes on Truth Social. ‘No one understood or had the Heart of the Youth in the United States of America better than Charlie. He was loved and admired by ALL, especially me, and now, he is no longer with us. Melania and my Sympathies go out to his beautiful wife Erika, and family. Charlie, we love you!’

4.00pm:

The Republican governor of Utah, Spencer Cox, holds a press conference on the murder and calls it a ‘political assassination.’

Cox says there is a ‘person of interest’ in custody but says that the investigation is ongoing.

4.21pm:

FBI Director Kash Patel tweets that the ‘subject for the horrific shooting today that took the life of Charlie Kirk is now in custody.’

5.59pm:

Patel tweets that the ‘subject in custody has been released after an interrogation by law enforcement.’

Beau Mason, commissioner of the Utah Department of Public Safety (UDPS), later says two people were taken into custody and then released.

George Zinn, 71, told police: ‘I shot him, now shoot me,’ but later admitted he lied to distract from the immediate manhunt. He was charged with obstruction, while Zachariah Qureshi was released without charge, UDPS said. Qureshi, 25, a newly engaged MBA student, was standing about 25 feet away from Kirk when he was shot.

Investigators quickly concluded that neither had ties to the shooting.

Thursday, September 11

Early hours:

A campus security officer stops a driver attempting to access the campus and notes the vehicle license plate.

The vehicle is registered to Robinson.

7.00am:

Mason, the UDPS commissioner, and FBI Special Agent in Charge, Robert Bohls, hold a press conference.

They confirm that the gun used in the shooting, a Mauser .30-06 caliber bolt rifle, has been found wrapped in a towel in woods near the campus as well as a footprint, palm print and forearm impression.

A screwdriver has been found on the roof.

9.58am:

The FBI posts the first set of photos of a person of interest. The pictures show a person in sunglasses and a baseball cap walking through a building wearing a long-sleeve black shirt, with the emblem of an American flag and bald eagle. Gray Converse sneakers are visible.

10.44am:

The FBI announces a reward of up to $100,000 ‘for information leading to the identification and arrest of the individual(s) responsible for the murder of Charlie Kirk.’

6.17pm:

The FBI releases more photos of the person of interest on social media.

7.30pm:

Cox says more than 7,000 tips have been made to the authorities, and investigators have conducted nearly 200 interviews.

The governor says the state will push for the death penalty when the suspect is caught.

7.45pm:

Air Force Two, carrying Kirk’s casket, lands at the Phoenix Sky Harbor Airport in Arizona.

Kirk’s widow Erika is on board and is seen being comforted by Vice President JD Vance and his wife Usha.

7.59pm:

The FBI releases video of the man they believe is the gunman jumping off the rooftop and running away from campus.

10pm:

Robinson’s mother, according to the charging documents, recognizes her son and contacts him. He tells her he was at home in St George and was sick – and that he had been at home all the previous day.

Robinson’s father believes that the gun the police say was used is the gun he gave to Robinson, so asks his son for a photo to prove he still has it with him. Robinson refuses.

Robinson texts Twiggs to complain about his father asking for the gun and requests that Twiggs delete their conversation.

Robinson tells his father he plans to kill himself, but his father convinces him to drive to the family home, which is near Robinson’s own apartment.

Once there, Robinson’s parents persuade him to speak to a family friend, who is a retired deputy sheriff.

Robinson, accompanied by his parents and the family friend, surrenders to the Washington County sheriff’s office, and is driven north towards Orem, where he is booked into Utah County jail.

Friday, September 12

6am:

Trump appears on Fox and Friends and announces ‘with a high degree of certainty’ that Kirk’s suspected killer is in custody.

7am:

Cox, Patel and other officials hold a press conference and name Tyler Robinson as the suspected killer of Kirk.

They say they believe he acted alone.

For some Americans, Sept. 11, 2001, has receded into the pages of history. But for the families who lost someone that day, 9/11 remains painfully close — even 25 years later, as vivid and immediate as if it happened yesterday.

That morning began with an ordinary civic ritual: I walked to my polling site to cast a ballot in New York City’s mayoral primary. Not long after, the first reports arrived that a small plane had hit the World Trade Center. But when the television images showed the massive wound torn into the tower, I knew instantly this was no small aircraft. Then, moments later, the second plane struck.

Three Bloomberg LP employees — Peter Alderman, Bill Kelly and Paul Ortiz — were attending a
customer conference at Windows on the World in the North Tower. They never returned home to their families. Nearly 3,000 others were also killed that day.

The magnitude of the loss, and the depth of the grief that swept through New York City, still defy easy description. It is etched permanently into the city’s memory — and into our hearts. Yet sorrow is not the only thing we remember.

In the bleak days after the attacks, New York and the nation drew together with extraordinary purpose. People lined up to give blood, donated food and supplies, volunteered wherever they were needed, prayed together, flew American flags, thanked first responders and service members, and filled vigils and funerals. Everyone tried to do whatever they could — even when it felt impossibly inadequate.

That spirit of unity was unlike anything most of us had ever experienced. It was patriotism at its best: love of country in action, through service to one another. And it was a spirit I was determined to keep alive as I began the greatest challenge and privilege of my life — leading our city forward as its new mayor.

When I took the oath of office, many wondered whether the city would ever recover. People worried that residents and businesses would flee and crime and decay would return. And the most pressing question of all hung over us: what to do with the World Trade Center site.

Some wanted the whole 16 acres to be a memorial. Others wanted cultural buildings but no commercial ones, while others wanted to rebuild exactly what had been there. After attending so many funerals and seeing so much grief, I made a solemn promise that the city would build a memorial worthy of the sacrifices of so many.

But I also believed the greatest tribute we could pay to those we lost, and the strongest rejection of the terrorists we could make, was to bring new life and vitality back to the site, and all of Lower Manhattan, by reimagining and rebuilding in ways that would attract new families, companies and visitors.

Doing that meant making room for all the proposed elements: commemoration, culture and commerce, plus a renewed spirit of community, through new housing, open space and a reconnected street grid.

Not everyone agreed, of course, and we didn’t control the site; the states of New York and New Jersey did, through the Port Authority, which had leased it to a private company, Silverstein Properties. We could not dictate what got built there, but we collaborated closely with them and we got to work on what we could control — what happened all around the site.

READ MORE: Remembering Charlie Kirk, Indispensable Voice for Truth

We began working to turn an area that had long been a 9-to-5 business district into a 24/7
neighborhood, with new homes, schools, parks, businesses and cultural opportunities. “A downtown for the 21st century,” I called it.

As the years passed, we made steady progress that people could see and feel on the streets, but the World Trade Center site remained empty. Disputes among different groups kept arising, which kept turning into delays, which kept pushing out construction timelines.

By 2006, the Memorial plan had stalled. Costs had soared. Design decisions became divisive. And as people began to wonder if it would ever get built, donors stopped giving.

Failure was not an option. We owed it to the families — and to the city and the country — to do everything we could to get the Memorial and museum built, so I agreed to become chairman of the effort.

In the months that followed, the great team we assembled broke logjams, brought down costs and raised money needed for construction. We worked with victims’ families to resolve difficult questions, including how the names would be arranged on the Memorial. And we set a clear goal: open it by the 10th anniversary.

Thanks to countless people, we kept our commitment. On September 11, 2011, families gathered at the completed Memorial. Its brilliant design, by a city employee and immigrant named Michael Arad, was selected by a special jury after an open competition that drew more than 5,000 submissions.

Standing at the Memorial and seeing the names etched in bronze, the reflecting pools set in the footprints of the Twin Towers and the waterfalls that drop beyond our line of vision is deeply moving. More than 100 million people from around the world have experienced it, and many of them have also visited the powerful and inspiring museum completed several years later.

The museum’s mission — preserving the stories of 9/11 and honoring its heroism and compassion — grows more urgent with each passing year. About one in three Americans are now too young to remember the attacks. In the decades ahead, responsibility for carrying that history forward will pass from those who lived it to those who learned it.

In 2023, we opened the Perelman Performing Arts Center (PAC NYC), a project we championed in City Hall and that I have chaired. The center stands next to the Freedom Tower and the tree-filled Memorial plaza, bringing together culture, commerce, commemoration and community, all in one place. Today, people come to the World Trade Center to remember, to work and to meet friends and see theater — just as we had hoped all those years ago.

On the sacred ground of the World Trade Center, memory lives on. So does life. And so does the spirit that inspired us in the wake of 9/11: unity, resolve and a patriotism that transcends party lines.

Twenty-five years later, our country could use more of that spirit. And so in honoring the vow we made back then — “Never forget” — let us also remember, and share with the next generation, the full extent of its meaning.

Michael R. Bloomberg is the founder of Bloomberg and Bloomberg Philanthropies and chair of the 9/11 Memorial & Museum and PAC NYC. He served as mayor of New York from 2002-2013.

As Americans pause Friday to mark 25 years since the Sept. 11 terrorist attacks, Kathleen Palladino will recall the morning not as history, but as a 6-year-old New Yorker struggling to make sense of what was unfolding around her.

Palladino was in kindergarten in Brooklyn when students’ names began echoing over the school’s PA system, one after another, summoning them to leave.

Her mother eventually arrived to take Palladino and her older sister home. During the walk back, the young girl turned her attention toward Manhattan.

“It was like a dividing line,” Palladino recently told News Media. “From the bridge backwards was just blackness.”

The other side of the afternoon sky remained clear and blue.

“Mommy, why is the sky black?” Palladino remembers asking. “She just kept squeezing my hand, and we just kept going,” she said.

A quarter-century later, Palladino teaches nursery school at St. Patrick Catholic Academy in Bay Ridge, Brooklyn, where her 3-year-old students were born more than two decades after the attacks that shaped their teacher’s childhood.

She is one of several educators at the school whose memories of 9/11 stretch back to their own school days.

As the nation remembers Friday, they are teaching children about an event that remains deeply personal to them but that their students know only as history.

Their principal, Kathy Curatolo, carries an even more personal connection — she watched one of the towers collapse from a school roof that morning, unaware her youngest brother, 31-year-old FDNY firefighter Robert Curatolo, was underneath it.

For Palladino’s young students, the lessons begin simply.

“I don’t go into the events of 9/11,” she said. “They are too young, and the scope of what happened is just beyond their understanding right now.”

Instead, she teaches them what they can do when someone is hurting.

“Can we clean up our toys without being asked? Can we go give them a hug?” she said. “Anything to show the ones that we love that we’re here for them.”

For fourth-grade teacher Elizabeth Giacchino, 9/11 begins in her memory with a ringing telephone.

Giacchino was a sixth grader at Our Lady of Guadalupe School in Brooklyn when her teacher answered a call and told the class something had happened involving the Twin Towers.

“So many of my classmates around me just started screaming and crying because they had family members that were working in the city,” she said.

Outside the window, Giacchino could see smoke. Parents began arriving, but Giacchino and her older sister remained because their mother worked at the school.

“All I wanted to do was just be with my family at that time,” she said.

Years later, after becoming a teacher herself, another memory took on new meaning. Giacchino remembered how calm her own teacher had remained while children cried around her.

“I don’t even know if she was feeling some type of way or if there was any personal situation she was going through, because all she thought about was us,” Giacchino said. “So that’s what I always make sure to do with my students too.”

Nikki Fregara, now a third-grade teacher at St. Patrick, was a high school senior when a phone call interrupted her first class of the day, history.

“I hate to tell you all this, but I’m afraid that the Twin Towers got hit,” she remembers her teacher saying.

The students went to the window.

“We saw the smoke,” Fregara said.

She remembers crying and screaming in the hallway and students gathering in the auditorium around a small box television to watch the news. Fregara worried about her father, whose work took him to buildings around the city, and her sister and brother-in-law, who worked nearby.

READ MORE: How an Agent Tapped El Chapo’s Phone and Helped Bring Down the Drug Kingpin

Today, she steers her third-graders away from the graphic details and toward the first responders who ran toward danger.

“Helping others is so important, especially when they are in need,” Fregara said.

Her message to them is simple: “Never forget to be an everyday hero.”

For Curatolo, however, the hero she tells students about was her younger brother.

Curatolo was headed to a principals’ meeting on Sept. 11, 2001, when she heard on the radio that a plane had struck the World Trade Center. 

At the meeting, she and the other principals watched the second plane strike on TV before returning to their schools.

Curatolo had four brothers, three firefighters and a police officer, and her mother initially called with reassuring news: all four were OK.

Curatolo turned her attention to her students and eventually went onto the school roof.

“I saw the second tower fall, not realizing that tower killed my brother,” she said.

Robert Curatolo had been an FDNY firefighter for six years and was assigned to Ladder 16 in Manhattan.

Kathy said Robert had just gotten off duty when the attacks began and headed toward the World Trade Center with two other firefighters in a police car. One survived, allowing the family to later learn some of what Robert did that morning.

Robert began directing dazed people away from falling debris, Kathy said. When the first building collapsed, he was in a walkway between the towers. Curatolo survived and then returned to the rubble.

Kathy said her family learned that Robert pulled a man with two broken legs through the debris and into the street. When the second tower collapsed, Robert dove beneath a fire truck, she said, but it could not withstand the collapse.

People have asked Kathy why he didn’t leave after surviving once. “That’s not who he was,” she said. “That’s not how we were raised.”

Yet that is not the only Robert she wants her students to know. The youngest of eight siblings, Robert was funny, easygoing and athletic. He loved movies and traveling and was, Kathy remembers, almost always late.

“So he actually ended up at the Trade Center on time, where we’re like, the only thing you ever got to on time,” she said.

Robert had married at Disney World just three weeks before 9/11. The wedding was the last time Kathy saw him, though she spoke to him by phone the day before he died.

“I want them to know that Robert was — he was a regular kid growing up just like them,” she said.

Curatolo remembers realizing around the 10th anniversary that students increasingly had no memory of 9/11.

“These kids have no idea what I’m talking about unless they learn it from us in school or their parents who had experienced something,” she said.

Today, she said, children accustomed to smartphones and instantaneous communication are astonished to learn survivors sometimes couldn’t contact their families.

She tells them about grounded planes, postponed baseball games and packed churches and remembers that after the attacks, “people were kinder to each other.”

Twenty-five years later, Curatolo said she also wants students to understand that remembering tragedy does not mean allowing it to define a life.

“My brother is always with me, but I don’t let 9/11 define me,” she said. “You can survive a tragedy and still live a good life because the people who were lost don’t want you to stop living your life.”

Her family continues to honor Robert through a scholarship foundation, charitable work and support for Tunnel to Towers.

Kathy still counts him among the eight Curatolo siblings.

“There are eight of us,” she said. “Four live in Florida, three live on Staten Island, and one’s in heaven.”