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RHOC’s Tamra Judge Reveals Where She Stands With Son Ryan After Their Rift

RHOC's Tamra Judge Offers Update on Where She Stands With Son Ryan After Falling Out, Talks Being a Grandmother, and Reveals Spencer and Sophia Don't Speak to Dad Simon, Plus Being Labeled a "Bad Parent" Amid Feud With Daughter Sidney

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Tamra Judge is opening up about her current relationship with her 40-year-old son, Ryan Vieth, after a heated family dispute reportedly began over his social media posts, including his support for President Donald Trump and comments that appeared to be transphobic.

During a conversation about her three younger children — Sidney Barney, 26, Spencer Barney, 25, and Sophia Barney, 21 — whom she shares with ex-husband Simon Barney, 62, the 59-year-old Real Housewives of Orange County personality also reflected on her period of estrangement from Ryan. She explained why she has a different approach to being a grandmother to his 11-year-old daughter, Ava.

“It started with Ryan’s social media posts,” Tamra said during the September 24 episode of the RHOC: After Show. “I told him I didn’t agree with what he was saying and that I didn’t align with it. I said he needed to stop, and he became angry and left. Then it turned into him saying, ‘You’re not a good grandmother, and you’re not there for Ava all the time.’”

Tamra said she reminded Ryan that her work schedule prevents her from being the same type of grandmother her own mother was. “I work. I’m not the grandmother my mom was to you,” she explained. “She stayed home and cared for you when I couldn’t be there. I understand that, and I wish things could be different. But right now, I’m working not only toward my own retirement, but also to help provide for all of you.” She added, “There will be a time when I slow down, but that time isn’t now. I’m the grandmother who’s going to buy you a Gucci bag.”

Tamra acknowledged that the conflict with Ryan became particularly unpleasant, but said she ultimately felt the relationship had been repaired. “At the end of the day, I won,” she declared.

She recalled that Ryan even spoke with his siblings on Mother’s Day, warning them that their mother might say things they did not want to hear. “He told the other kids, ‘Mom might give you a hard time, and she might say things you don’t believe or trust. But most of the time, she’s right,’” Tamra said. “So there you have it. We’re great 1790419772. He calls me every single day.”

Although Tamra expects to have more time for Ava in the future, she said she is not currently the kind of grandmother who can simply bring her grandchildren home and spend the entire day with them.

“I’ve been raising children for 40 years,” she said. “At this point, I don’t want to raise anyone else’s kids unless I absolutely have to. They’re doing a wonderful job, so we’ll leave it there.”

Tamra also discussed her daughter Sophia’s past struggles with anxiety, which intensified while she was moving between Tamra’s home and Simon’s home.

“It was incredibly difficult for her, and the anxiety became overwhelming,” Tamra revealed. Sophia eventually moved in with her mother full time at age 14 or 15. Tamra said that, as a result, Sophia’s relationship with her father weakened significantly, and the two may not have spoken in roughly five years. She added that Spencer is also currently estranged from Simon.

“And yet I’m the one considered the bad parent because of Sidney,” Tamra added.

Fans of RHOC have followed Tamra’s long-running estrangement from Sidney, as well as the public disagreements that have unfolded over statements made both in interviews and on the reality series.

“People don’t understand that the divorce split the family, and the children ended up going in different directions,” Tamra said. “That’s not what I wanted, and it was never how I imagined things. It’s a heartbreaking situation.”

She went on to describe Sophia’s difficult teenage years, saying high school was especially painful for her daughter.

“I was so worried about her,” Tamra recalled. Sophia had lost a close friend to suicide after middle school, then faced bullying in high school while also dealing with the breakdown of her relationship with her father. “She went through so much,” Tamra said. Eventually, Sophia decided to take control of her future. “She reached a point where she said, ‘I can’t keep doing this. I’m responsible for my own feelings. I’m going to exercise, stay positive, move forward, go to college and accomplish these things.’ And she did. It was incredibly hard, but she came through it. I kept praying, ‘God, please make her okay.’”

Alongside pursuing her entertainment goals, Sophia is also in a relationship with her boyfriend, Nico. Tamra said he has had a “very positive influence” on her daughter.

Tamra said the couple has been together for a year and that Nico is Sophia’s first boyfriend. “She was a virgin when she met him,” she shared. While Tamra said she cares about Nico and could imagine the pair marrying someday, she emphasized that Sophia is still young at nearly 21. Nico has one year of school remaining, after which the couple hopes to move to New York.

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Fraternity Silence Questioned After Ole Miss Deaths, Penn State Case

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“If you’re trying to build an organization that functions essentially like a criminal enterprise, you need a code of omertà,” Andrew Lohse said.

Lohse was referring to fraternities. Now 36, he survived fraternity hazing and later wrote Confessions of an Ivy League Frat Boy about his experience.

While attending Dartmouth, Lohse became a whistleblower, describing the disturbing initiation rituals he said he experienced as a member of Sigma Alpha Epsilon.

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Robert Strang, 20, an Ole Miss student, was found dead this week. (Strang Family)

The recent deaths of two University of Mississippi students—one of whom belonged to a fraternity—along with allegations of a cocaine distribution operation near Penn State, brought Lohse back to his own days inside fraternity life.

“For the last 10 years, whenever someone dies in a fraternity, that’s when my phone starts ringing,” Lohse told News Media.

Ryan Strang, one of the Ole Miss students found dead this week, was a member of Phi Delta Theta. He was discovered at an off-campus residence. Investigators found packages of kratom—a commercially available substance sometimes labeled “gas station heroin”—at both locations, though authorities had not determined whether the drug played a role in either death.

Phi Delta Theta has not been accused of wrongdoing.

Fraternity house on Ole Miss campus was the scene of a drug death

General view of Phi Delta Theta fraternity house on the campus of the University of Mississippi, Oxford, MS, September 24, 2026. Black ribbons are tied to the columns of the porch in honor of the death of fraternity member, 20-year-old Robert Strang from Atlanta. (Rashid Umar Abbasi for News Media)

“The loss of two young lives is a profound tragedy,” the fraternity said in a statement. “Phi Delta Theta joins the University of Mississippi and the broader Ole Miss community in mourning Robert and Aidan Hamilton and extending our deepest sympathies to their families, friends, chapter brothers, classmates and everyone who knew and loved them.”

“These losses reinforce the importance of a collective commitment to health, safety and well-being on college campuses today. We encourage the Phi Delta Theta community to keep the Strang family, the Mississippi Alpha Chapter and all those affected by these tragic losses in their thoughts.”

Lohse said the drug landscape facing today’s college students is far more dangerous than the one he knew.

“There was no kratom, no tranq, no smoking bath salts, no fentanyl,” he said. “Back then, cocaine was more or less just cocaine. It wasn’t the case that every time someone used it, they could die.”

In Pennsylvania, prosecutors allege in court filings that pledges were pressured into cutting and packaging cocaine as part of an organized drug operation allegedly run by former Sigma Chi member Agostino Abbatiello.

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Agostino Abbateillo, 24, is one of 14 men charged with operating a massive cocaine ring near Penn State’s campus. (Getty Images: Grichka Beysson-Leandri; Kamil Krzaczynski for News Media)

“When I read that pledges were allegedly working in the background, I thought it was astonishing—in a terrible way—but also extraordinarily brazen,” Lohse said.

Fraternity hazing also came under scrutiny in Madison, Wisconsin, where police said they found about 30 partially clothed young men crammed into a sweltering basement. The men were reportedly covered in food, condiments and other liquids, while several pledges appeared to have suffered physical assaults.

Madison police said officers responded to the Alpha Epsilon Pi house Wednesday night and launched an investigation into the alleged hazing. Two people were arrested.

Partially clothed young men sit and stand inside the basement of an Alpha Epsilon Pi fraternity house in Madison, Wisconsin.

Partially clothed young men are seen inside the basement of an Alpha Epsilon Pi fraternity house in Madison, Wisconsin, during an alleged hazing incident. (Madison Police Department)

“AEPi Headquarters takes the allegations involving our Pi Chapter in Madison, Wisconsin, extremely seriously,” Jonathan Pierce, the fraternity’s chief communications officer, said in a statement. “We will cooperate fully with the authorities investigating this matter.”

“Hazing is a betrayal of everything our fraternity stands for. There is no place for it in AEPi,” he added. “No exceptions. No excuses. We educate our members about their responsibility to ‘Be Your Brothers’ Keeper.’ This is not an optional value.”

‘Sad moment’

“It’s a sad moment, for society, civilization,” Lohse said about some of the recent headlines involving fraternity behavior. “These organizations should be forces of good. Young men need it more than ever. Young men are more adrift than ever, there’s no moral leadership.”

“There’s a vacuum in the center of higher education and American society that used to be filled by God, by religion, by the church,” he said, adding that it’s “totally vacant now.”

During his time as a brother at Sigma Alpha Epsilon, he said he was forced to “swim in a kiddie pool full of vomit while being urinated on,” and “chug” vinegar or milk to the point that he and his fellow pledge brothers “would vomit” in a room covered with tarps.

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Six men are among fourteen facing charges in the alleged Penn State fraternity coke ring off campus. (Getty Images: GRICHKA BEYSSON-LEANDRI; Pennsylvania OAG)

He also said he was forced into a small basement crawl space for a period of time. This was all in addition to constant coerced binge drinking, he said.

“We’re talking like 10, 15 plus drinks,” he said.

He said the unwritten “code of silence” or “omertà” contributes to these repeated hazing or drug-related issues within frats.

“The original 19th-century concept of the American fraternity is not what exists today,” Lohse said.

Penn State cocaine ring suspect

Agostino Abbatiello arrives at Centre County Courthouse in Bellefonte, Pa., Wednesday, Sept. 2, 2026. Abbatiello is accused of masterminding a cocaine ring at Penn State University. (Kamil Krzaczynski for News Media)

“Essentially, you can look at a modern fraternity like a criminal organization. In most states, the unique behavioral attributes of a fraternity cross into criminal statutes—whether misdemeanor hazing or serious felony drug trafficking. You need a code of silence to protect that.”

He went on to say, “the organization forces the individual to compromise their own identity for the collective, taking something from its members to ensure the system perpetuates itself over time.”

Following the hazing incidents during Lohse’s time as a student, SAE was suspended from Dartmouth for the last 10 years and re-recognized in August, The Darmouth student-run paper reported.

When asked what advice he would offer students considering Greek life at major universities, Lohse stopped short of telling students flatly to avoid fraternities. Instead, Lohse urges young men to calculate the “opportunity cost” before pledging.

“Consider that the upside benefit, while maybe not zero, pales in comparison to the downside risk,” Lohse said, advising incoming students to reflect on what they truly want out of higher education.

The College Green on the campus of Dartmouth College in Hanover, New Hampshire,

The College Green on the campus of Dartmouth College in Hanover, New Hampshire, U.S., on Sunday, Oct. 17, 2021. (Bing Guan/Bloomberg)

“Think about what you actually want out of college. Who do you really want to be around, and who is actually going to be there to help you? I think you’ll find that a fraternity isn’t going to provide that.”

Judson Horras, president and CEO of the North American Interfraternity Conference, told News Media that “student safety is our members’ highest priority. The NIC has adopted enhanced health and safety guidelines and co-led advocacy to pass tougher anti-hazing laws in more than a dozen states, as well as the federal Stop Campus Hazing Act.”

Regarding the Ole Miss students’ deaths, Horras said: “We are heartbroken by the loss of two University of Mississippi students, one of whom was a fraternity member. Our sympathies are with both families and the Ole Miss community. We will continue working with universities and families to keep every student safe.”

News Media has reached out to Sigma Alpha Epsilon, Phi Delta Theta and Abbatiello’s attorney for comment.

Inside Britain’s benefits capital, where over half are jobless

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In a traditional brick smokehouse on Grimsby’s once-thriving docks, Patrick Salmon is keeping alive a working culture that was once part of everyday life in the town.

His artisan smoked fish, prepared in chambers darkened by more than 100 years of tar, is destined for some of Britain’s best-known chefs, including Tom Kerridge, Marco Pierre White and Raymond Blanc.

Yet there is little celebrity glamour in Mr Salmon’s own routine at Alfred Enderby, the traditional fish-smoking business he owns and operates. Now 62, he regularly works 12-hour shifts six days a week—and often puts in even longer hours.

After a lifetime spent working in Grimsby, however, he says he increasingly feels out of step with many people around him and has begun questioning why he continues to push himself so hard.

His business is based in East Marsh and Port, a Grimsby neighbourhood described in House of Commons Library figures as the UK’s leading area for worklessness.

Of the district’s 3,492 working-age residents, an estimated 1,700 are unemployed and receiving Universal Credit. That equates to 48.9 per cent of the local working-age population—almost one in every two adults below pension age.

Litter lines the streets and parks of East Marsh and Port district, Grimsby, the worklessness capital of the UK

Rubbish can be seen along roads and in public parks across Grimsby’s East Marsh and Port district, identified as the UK’s worklessness capital

Grimsby was once a bustling port town but now many of its shops are closed down and residents say the community spirit has gone

Once a busy fishing port, Grimsby now has shuttered shops and residents who say the area’s sense of community has faded

The figures are estimates compiled at constituency level before being divided into much smaller areas known as MSOAs, which generally contain fewer than 10,000 residents.

East Marsh and Port records the highest rate, sitting almost 1.5 percentage points above the next-placed areas, both of which are in Blackpool.

The statistics do not suggest that everyone out of work is choosing not to work. Ill health is a major issue in this part of Lincolnshire, where roughly 30 per cent of working-age adults also receive benefits linked to health conditions.

However, Mr Salmon and other residents told us they believe a significant number of people who could work have never developed a routine of employment—and no longer appear motivated to seek it.

That sense of frustration was reflected during a visit to East Marsh this week, where signs of what is often called social cohesion appeared increasingly difficult to find.

On Freeman Street, once the bustling commercial centre of a fishing town powered by the wages of trawlermen, a security guard outside an independent food store described catching his second shoplifter of the day.

The woman had taken a block of cheese and a packet of washing powder. When she realised she had been noticed, she made only a token attempt to walk away faster and did not resist when the guard recovered the items.

The guard said he was relieved that no knife had been produced on this occasion. He planned to report the incident, although he questioned whether police would have the resources—or the inclination—to pursue it.

Not far away, a man who appeared to be under the influence of drugs was causing alarm in a public car park, waving a knife in broad daylight.

More than a dozen Humberside Police officers surrounded him, but he ignored repeated orders to drop the weapon even as an officer kept a Taser trained on him. The incident offered a stark illustration of why persistent shoplifting may receive less immediate attention from police.

On nearby Victor Street, where neglected terraced homes can sell for around £50,000, a man drinking beer late in the morning was asked why he was not working. His blunt response was that he “can’t be f***ed”.

During our time in Grimsby—a town some residents jokingly call “the end of the line”—we repeatedly heard claims about people who were capable of working but had no plans to do so. Some residents said petty crime had become the alternative for a number of them.

Back on Freeman Street where a vape shop and Turkish barber shop are the only signs of any recent economic activity, Wendy Aisthorp, 61, was just finishing her shift.

Supermarket worker Wendy Aisthorp said there is a shoplifting epidemic in the town and it becomes a 'free-for-all' without the security guard

Supermarket worker Wendy Aisthorp said there is a shoplifting epidemic in the town and it becomes a ‘free-for-all’ without the security guard

She has worked at Heron Foods, the budget supermarket chain, for 11 years and has seen the problems of chronic joblessness at close quarters daily.

‘If the security guard isn’t in, it can be a free-for-all,’ she said. ‘People just help themselves.

‘I’ve worked all my life, brought my children up on my own and always paid my taxes.

‘But then you see people on benefits wanting everything for nothing. They’ve got no intention at all of getting a job.

‘Why do they have to work for something, when they can just take it instead?’ is what they seem to think.’

Parvaneh Ghanbar, 42, walking along Freeman Street for an appointment at the tanning salon, was equally frustrated.

‘There are jobs – people just don’t try hard enough to find them,’ she said. ‘There are a lot of people in this part of Grimsby who are more content not working, and claiming benefits.

‘There is a lot of drugs and alcohol abuse,’ she added. ‘Go down the back streets and you’ll see it everywhere.’

Parvaneh Ghanbar, 42, said there are a lot of people in Grimsby who are happy not to work and to claim benefits instead

Parvaneh Ghanbar, 42, said there are a lot of people in Grimsby who are happy not to work and to claim benefits instead

Statistics show how deeply deprivation has become embedded here.

Government data suggests 87 per cent of children in East Marsh and Port live in low-income families, compared with 38 per cent nationally.

Some 58 per cent of pupils qualify for free school meals, more than twice the national figure.

The most shocking statistic is for the healthy life expectancy here – the age up to which a person can expect to live in good health. For males here it is just 48. Women fare just a year better. This is a full 12 years below the national average.

And one doesn’t need to look far to see signs of this widespread ill health.

Among the unloved houses of East Marsh, Chloe Revell, 20, was pushing her one-year-old daughter Ivy-Ann with her partner, Charlie Wright, 22.

The household receives around £500 a month in Universal Credit and Child Benefit.

Chloe, who last worked in an arcade before falling pregnant, said: ‘Because we’re on Universal Credit, they don’t make us pay [rent].

‘The job centre will pay that off. So once we’ve paid to get food in, the gas and electric and stuff, we’re left with about £200.

‘We make it last a month but sometimes it can be hard.

‘If the baby needs anything, you’re like, ‘Oh God’.’

Charlie Wright, 22, and Chloe Revell, 20, are two of the 1,700 working age residents who are unemployed and claiming Universal Credit claimants

Charlie Wright, 22, and Chloe Revell, 20, are two of the 1,700 working age residents who are unemployed and claiming Universal Credit claimants 

Yet Chloe, who is originally from Nottingham, is adamant that benefits are not where she wants to remain.

‘I love working. I can’t wait to get back into work. I’d love to work in a nursery.

‘It’s good for your mental health. It’s good to get out of the house.’

Does she know people around here who could work but are happy not to?

‘Yeah,’ she says. ‘Definitely.’

Charlie is not one of these however, they say. He used to work on Grimsby’s docks but says that mental health problems had prevented him from working for the past three years.

Steve Dawson is a 70-year-old former Londoner who moved to Grimsby five years ago and is now so firmly resident that he bristles at the derogatory way that some outsiders talk about the town.

‘I find it lovely here. It’s like London used to be. People will speak to you, tell you to have a good day – they’re polite,’ he told us.

But Mr Dawson accepts that there are many who should be in work rather than being supported by the welfare state. He is also saddened by the number of red-brick Victorian buildings being filleted into Houses in Multiple Occupation.

‘There are rough sides to the place but I used to live in Brixton, so how rough do you want to get?,’ he asked.

‘My bugbear is all these kids on bikes and e-bikes. If they can cycle, then why can’t they work?

‘There are people who have Motability cars parked outside the pubs. Go inside and you’ll see them walking about and dancing.

‘And when they come out, they start wobbling. It’s just easy money.’

Disenfranchisement among the residents of Grimsby appears to have played out at the ballot box lately.

Once part of Labour’s famous ‘red wall’, the constituency of Great Grimsby and Cleethorpes turned Conservative for the first time in decades at the 2019 election.

While the constituency returned to Labour in 2024 – now represented in Parliament by Melanie Onn – Reform took a sizable 28.8% of the vote then.

Many shops are boarded up in East March and Port, where some 48.9 per cent of locals, almost one in two of all non-pensioner adults, are unemployed and on Universal Credit

Many shops are boarded up in East March and Port, where some 48.9 per cent of locals, almost one in two of all non-pensioner adults, are unemployed and on Universal Credit

And pollsters predict that if an election was called tomorrow, Nigel Farage’s party would now triumph here.

In the middle of the last century, Grimsby was the largest fishing port in the world. Its magnificent Victorian dock tower still looms over the waterfront as a reminder of a maritime golden age.

Seven hundred trawlers crowded its docks and around them grew an entire economy – net makers, chandlers, auctioneers and even a mortuary.

Deep-sea trawlermen who spent their sizeable pay packs on lavish nights out during their brief return to terra firma came to be known as ‘three day millionaires’.

Then, within little more than a generation, prosperity disappeared.

The three Cod Wars with Iceland culminated in 1976 with British trawlermen restricted from accessing fertile fishing waters.

Like the potteries in Stoke, the pit towns of Durham and Teesside, and Bradford’s wool trade, Grimsby’s main industry was decimated and unemployment surged.

Jon King, who runs Great Escape and the Blackball Cafe from buildings on the old docks, working with people recovering from addiction, said the town had struggled with a ‘collective grief’ over its lost past.

He is part of a collective of local people who are slowly turning derelict former docks buildings into creative hubs – the kind of slow-burning gentrification that has happened in cities like Hull and Liverpool.

Jon King, who works with people recovering from addiction, said the town had struggled with a 'collective grief' over its lost past

Jon King, who works with people recovering from addiction, said the town had struggled with a ‘collective grief’ over its lost past

Jon, 41, said: ‘In terms of brand identity, the name Grimsby doesn’t help.

‘But the town hasn’t been kind enough to itself and the loss of industry has led to a collective grief.

‘Most families had a connection to the docks. People got into a mentality of forgetting the docks exist because they are hurt.’

He added: ‘It’s been drilled into people living here that ‘you can’t have’. We need to change the mindset because there is opportunity for people here.

‘The nation’s energy infrastructure is on our doorstep’.

One former fisherman asked whether he missed life at sea after finally giving it up. ‘Every day,’ he replied.

Perhaps the greatest paradox in Britain’s worklessness capital is that there is, in fact, plenty of work available.

Grimsby’s seafood industry still supports 7,000 jobs directly and another 10,000 in the wider supply chain. There are vacancies.

The town is also pinning its hopes for a more prosperous future on billions of pounds of investment in the offshore wind and green energy sectors providing the cash for regeneration.

The derelict 19th century Ice Factory, for instance, where crushed ice was once supplied for the town’s vast fishing fleet, is set to be transformed into a hotel, conference centre and offices with capacity for roughly 1,800 jobs.

Financier and philanthropist Thomas Shutes, 58, who is behind the ambitious regeneration plans, said there is optimism that better days are ahead.

He said: ‘When you talk to local people, they know the jokes about Grimsby being the end of the line and it’s ‘grim up north’ and all of that nonsense.

‘And it is literally the end of the line in that it is the most easterly point on the railway. But local people will turn that on its head and say ‘it’s the end of the railway line, but it’s the beginning of the North Sea.

‘So there is a sort of optimism.

‘Even when you go around the East Marsh, people go ‘well, it’s all very well for you to say it’s s***. It’s not to us – it’s our home, it’s where we live. We rather like it, thank you very much’.

‘There’s a kind of defiance about that, which in a way is oddly healthy.

‘People love their places. There needs to be more ways of linking young people into the exciting stuff that’s happening in this region.

‘They don’t necessarily have to leave, the jobs are here for them, but their training pathways are not.’

Grimsby will also serve as the hub for the Hornsea 3 project, which will be the biggest wind farm in the world and generate enough electricity to power 3.3m UK homes.

However, for locals in East Marsh the thousands of jobs that will be created seem perhaps a world away and out of reach.

Mr Shutes said: ‘These will be really high-paying, high-skilled jobs.

‘[But] when you’re in the East Marsh, what they’ll say to you is ‘What’s offshore wind ever done for me?’

‘My electricity bills are still too high, my schools are underperforming, my kids are not getting those jobs, so whatever’.

‘That’s the disconnect that needs to be worked out.’

Back to that smokery where Mr Salmon, still hard at work, says that lately he has been increasingly wondering why.

Labour’s hikes in the minimum wage, national insurance contributions, rampant energy bills and inflation have all squeezed his margins to their thinnest in years.

Mr Salmon, who employs seven staff, has had enough of working hard to pay for other people’s benefits.

And he particularly wants Andy Burnham to get a grip on the nation’s spiralling welfare bill.

He said: ‘There are people abusing welfare – we all know them,

‘We all know people who are taking the p***. I don’t understand why we pussyfoot around it instead of just addressing it.

‘I know people who have got family who’ve never worked and they say ‘why would you?’

‘It is not just Grimsby. There is nowhere in the UK that isn’t touched by this underclass of people that we’re just not dealing with.

‘There’s nowhere you can go where you haven’t got hooligans driving three abreast on a motorcycle without a helmet on and stealing bikes or mobile phones or whatever.

‘Things need to change. We need to just get less whimsical about everything, have a bit more guts and have a very, very hard look at welfare. Otherwise we will lose control.’

Mr Salmon knows something about trying to get the long-term unemployed back into work.

Patrick Salmon, 62, works 12-hour days, six days a week at the Alfred Enderby traditional fish smokers

Patrick Salmon, 62, works 12-hour days, six days a week at the Alfred Enderby traditional fish smokers 

He employed two local people in recent years who had previously been out of work for long periods and he even persevered when the initial transition back into regular employment proved difficult.

He did so out of a desire to help his local community – but now says the financial arithmetic of doing so again no longer works.

He said: ‘If the Government really wants to get people back into work, it should make businesses thrive instead of burying us in schemes and paperwork.

‘Just make businesses strong and profitable, then turn round and say: ‘Now go and employ somebody.’

‘If you did that, businesses like mine would be out there taking people on.

‘At the moment, we’ve got the cart in front of the horse and it is the horse that is pushing this thing over the hill.’

Hong Kong Socialite Abby Choi’s Ex-Husband, In-Laws on Trial

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The murder trial of Hong Kong influencer Abby Choi has opened nearly three years after investigators discovered her dismembered remains inside a pot and refrigerator.

Abby’s former husband, Alex Kwong, along with his brother Anthony Kwong and their father, Kwong Kau, are accused of killing the 28-year-old mother of four in 2023 and obstructing the lawful burial of her remains. The alleged murder took place only days after the socialite returned from a Dior fashion show in Paris, according to the Associated Press.

The proceedings are expected to continue for 45 days. Prosecutors are scheduled to deliver opening arguments later this week, when they may outline a possible motive and disclose further details about the case, CNN reported.

A conviction could result in life sentences for the three defendants.

What Happened to Influencer Abby Choi?

Abby, who frequently documented a lavish lifestyle and glamorous appearances online, was reported missing on Feb. 21, 2023, according to CNN.

Three days later, police found dismembered remains at a house in Tai Po, a rural district of Hong Kong. Investigators also recovered a meat slicer and an electric saw. Authorities allegedly found Abby’s skull, ribs and hair in a cooking pot, while her legs were located in a nearby refrigerator, People reported.

Investigators later searched a landfill as they continued looking for evidence connected to the killing.

Alex Kwong was arrested while allegedly attempting to escape by speedboat, according to the outlet. He and Abby shared two children; Abby was also the mother of two other children.

Before Abby’s death, she and the Kwong family had reportedly been embroiled in a financial dispute involving a luxury property, the Hong Kong Free Press reported.

Prosecutors said the case took more than three years to reach trial because of the extensive evidence involved and the large volume of DNA testing required, CNN reported.

After hearing testimony and reviewing evidence from both sides, jurors will surrender their electronic devices and remain sequestered while determining the fate of the three men. Under Hong Kong law, jury deliberations are confidential.

It remains unclear whether any of the defendants will testify in their own defense.

Abby was widely known for her passion for fashion, regularly attending runway shows and appearing alongside luxury brands, according to CNN. She also cofounded an animal charity dedicated to helping injured dogs and cats.

Pierce Brosnan Celebrates Wife Keely Shaye Smith’s 63rd Birthday

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Pierce Brosnan and his wife, Keely Shaye Smith, appeared as loved-up as they stepped out in Los Angeles on Friday evening to celebrate her 63rd birthday.

The 73-year-old former James Bond star and the journalist looked every bit the devoted couple during the rare public appearance.

The pair, who have been married for 25 years, were joined for the lavish dinner by their sons Dylan, 29, and Paris, 25.

Keely exuded elegance in a little black dress styled with a black blazer, a statement pearl necklace and chic ballet pumps.

Meanwhile, Pierce looked youthful in a blue linen suit and fashionable sunglasses. The actor currently stars as Conrad Harrigan in MobLand.

Guy Ritchie’s gangster drama has been praised as “mind-blowingly perfect” since its release earlier this month.

Pierce Brosnan and his wife Keely Shaye Smith looked smitten as they headed out in Los Angeles for her 63rd birthday on Friday evening

Pierce Brosnan and his wife, Keely Shaye Smith, looked smitten as they stepped out in Los Angeles for her 63rd birthday on Friday evening

The former James Bond star, 73, and the journalist looked every inch the loved-up couple on a rare outing together

The former James Bond star, 73, and the journalist looked every inch the devoted couple during their rare outing together

Keely previously told People that she was immediately captivated when she met the Bond actor, recalling the “mischievous sparkle” in his eyes.

In the same interview, Pierce spoke warmly about his wife, saying: “I found a great woman in Keely Shaye. Not if I searched a million times over would I find one as good.”

Last year, Pierce said Keely still makes his “world turn” during an interview with Fox News, explaining: “She still makes my heart sing and she still makes my world turn.

“She allows me to go out into the world and create what I do as an actor, and that takes strength and stamina. We just enjoy each other’s company.”

In January, fans came to Keely’s defense after a cruel troll posted side-by-side comparison images of her as an alleged “reminder to avoid marriage.”

The couple are frequently celebrated as one of Hollywood’s great love stories, with their enduring relationship challenging the perception that celebrity romances are often short-lived. However, on Sunday, a user on X claimed their marriage showed why it should be “avoided.”

The post featured images of the couple at the Governors Ball for the Academy Awards in 1996, alongside a photograph from the Mamma Mia! premiere in 2008.

Many users quickly responded with supportive messages, insisting that Pierce and Keely represented true love. One wrote: “I don’t get some men on X devotion to degrade Brosnan’s wife. They’re both happy, aging gracefully, and she was & is absolutely gorgeous.”

Keely looked pretty in a LBD and black blazer, complemented with a large pearl necklace and chic ballet pumps

Keely looked elegant in a little black dress and blazer, accessorised with a large pearl necklace and chic ballet pumps

Pierce looked dapper in a blue linen suit and trendy glasses

Pierce looked dapper in a blue linen suit and fashionable sunglasses

Pierce and Keely, who have been married for 25 years, were joined by their children Dylan (pictured), 29, and Paris, 25, on the lavish dinner

Pierce and Keely, who have been married for 25 years, were joined by their children Dylan, 29, and Paris, 25, for the lavish dinner

Paris cut a trendy figure in a white shirt and black trousers as he departed the venue

Paris cut a stylish figure in a white shirt and black trousers as he left the venue

One fan stated that Pierce had ‘won the lottery of life’: ‘Pierce Brosnan’s won the lottery of life. Dude’s been married 30 years and they’ve both aged gracefully.’ 

Further messages from fans read: ‘Agreed. If you’re this shallow and stupid, you should avoid marriage at all costs. Sincerely, women everywhere… 

‘She is such a beautiful woman. How lucky they are to share that bond over so many years. Beautiful… Marriage is beautiful when you’re with the right person… he seems happy. they are lucky… This is unacceptable… 

‘Why? They are happy and value one another ? I don’t see what you’re getting at here ?… You couldn’t pick the worst example. First, she’s beautiful in both pictures and second they are glowing with organic happiness… 

Pierce was previously married to wife Cassandra Harris for 11 years but she died from cancer in 1991.

He adopted her two children, Charlotte and Christopher, from her previous marriage and they had one biological son together, Sean.

Texas BBQ Icon Butter’s BBQ Removes Brisket From Menu as Beef Prices Surge

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One of Texas’s most acclaimed barbecue restaurants has removed brisket from its menu, as soaring beef prices put mounting pressure on smokehouses across the United States.

Butter’s BBQ in Sinton, Texas, dropped the state’s signature barbecue meat after wholesale costs climbed so dramatically that owner and pitmaster Andrew Soto said he could no longer afford to serve it.

Soto said the decision came after the price of brisket rose by $1 per pound in a single week.

Passing that increase on to customers would have forced the restaurant to raise its price from $37 to $51 per pound — a figure Soto was unwilling to charge.

‘That was the final straw that broke the camel’s back,’ Soto told The Washington Post.

Beef prices across the US have surged amid high grain costs, inflation, elevated interest rates and, in some regions, drought.

Over the past year, steak prices have increased by 4 percent, ground beef by 7.2 percent and beef roast by 8.4 percent, according to an August consumer price index report from the Bureau of Labor Statistics.

Butter’s BBQ said on social media that it would remove its best-known dish, apologizing to customers and explaining that brisket had come to represent more than 70 percent of its total inventory costs.

Butter's BBQ in Sinton, Texas, has pulled the state's signature meat after wholesale prices surged so sharply that its owner said he could no longer afford to serve it

Butter’s BBQ in Sinton, Texas, removed brisket from its menu after wholesale prices rose so sharply that owner Andrew Soto said the restaurant could no longer afford to serve it.

Andrew Soto, the restaurant's owner and pitmaster, said he decided after the cost of brisket jumped by $1 per pound in a single week

Andrew Soto, the restaurant’s owner and pitmaster, said the decision followed a $1-per-pound increase in the cost of brisket over a single week.

‘We apologize tremendously, we’ve done all we can to combat the constant price hikes, but we can no longer sustain our current business model,’ the restaurant wrote.

The decision carries particular weight because Butter’s BBQ is the first restaurant on Texas Monthly’s list of the state’s top 50 smokehouses to eliminate brisket entirely, according to the magazine’s barbecue editor, Daniel Vaughn.

The move underscores the growing financial strain facing independent barbecue restaurants, with pitmasters across Texas warning that rising operating costs are making it harder to remain in business.

Soto’s restaurant is in Sinton, a town of about 6,000 residents roughly 20 miles north of Corpus Christi. He said sales during one recent weekend were 60 percent lower than during the same period last year.

Rather than shut down, Butter’s BBQ plans to offer smoked beef cheeks as a more affordable replacement.

Even so, the change marks a significant shift for a restaurant whose identity has been closely tied to one of Texas barbecue’s most cherished cuts.

Butter’s BBQ is far from the only smokehouse feeling the impact of the beef-price crisis.

Several Texas barbecue restaurants have closed in recent months, including Fiasco BBQ in Austin, Kelly’s Hill Country BBQ in Wimberley, Lenox Bar-B-Q in Houston, Brett’s BBQ Shop west of Houston, Sabar BBQ in Fort Worth and Wright On Taco & BBQ in East Texas.

Now Butter's is feeling that burden, announcing on social media that it will cut its most iconic dish, apologizing to customers and explaining that brisket had come to account for more than 70 percent of its total inventory bill. Brisket cost $30 by the pound at the establishment back in 2023

Butter’s BBQ said brisket had grown to more than 70 percent of its total inventory bill. The cut cost $30 per pound at the restaurant in 2023.

The move is particularly significant because Butter's BBQ is the first establishment on Texas Monthly's list of the state's top 50 smokehouses to remove brisket entirely

Butter’s BBQ is the first restaurant on Texas Monthly’s list of the state’s top 50 smokehouses to remove brisket entirely.

The soaring cost of beef is a major factor, with the US cattle herd shrinking to its lowest level in 75 years after prolonged drought conditions.

US Department of Agriculture figures show average retail beef prices reached a record $9.64 per pound in April, up 13 percent from a year earlier.

Industry experts have also pointed to higher operating costs since the pandemic, meatpacker pricing and tariffs imposed under President Donald Trump as factors squeezing businesses.

For barbecue restaurants, brisket is particularly expensive because it requires long cooking times and significant preparation, while customers are already struggling with higher food prices.

Shawn Jones, who ran Kirby’s BBQ in New Caney, Texas, announced that his restaurant would close at the end of 2025, citing unsustainable beef prices.

‘With brisket being our biggest seller here in Texas, that is really weighing on our profit margins,’ Jones told his followers on YouTube.

He warned that a barbecue meal could easily cost customers between $70 and $100 once ribs, sausage, sides and desserts were included.

‘That’s just not something that most of middle America can do as often as they would need to to support most barbecue joints,’ he said.

For barbecue restaurants, brisket is particularly expensive because it requires long cooking times inside the smoker and significant preparation

For barbecue restaurants, brisket is particularly expensive because it requires long cooking times inside the smoker and significant preparation 

Russell Roegels, who owns two barbecue restaurants in Houston, told The Washington Post that the industry was facing an unprecedented squeeze.

‘This is as bad as it gets,’ he said. ‘Everybody’s at risk these days: You’re one bad week from closing.’

For Butter’s BBQ, removing brisket may help keep the doors open, but it marks a painful moment for a restaurant whose identity is built around Texas barbecue.

Soto acknowledged how difficult the decision was.

‘It’s a gut punch,’ he said. ‘It really does hurt.’

Abdul El-Sayed Seeks Repeal of HIV Nondisclosure Felony Law

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Democratic Senate nominee Abdul El-Sayed is standing by his long-held call to repeal a Michigan law that once made it a felony for people who knew they had HIV to have sex without first disclosing their status to their partner. He made the position clear eight years ago and continues to defend it as he campaigns in one of the country’s most competitive Senate contests.

During his unsuccessful 2018 campaign for Michigan governor, El-Sayed repeatedly criticized the statute.

At the time, the law allowed for a prison sentence of up to four years for people who knew they were HIV-positive and engaged in sexual penetration without first informing their partner.

“You should not be criminalized for a disease. That is absolutely wrong. It’s hateful. It’s discriminatory, and we can, as a state, do better. You can count on me for that,” El-Sayed said during his gubernatorial campaign.

Eight years later, El-Sayed — an epidemiologist and former health director of Detroit-based Wayne County — is facing former Republican Rep. Mike Rogers in the race to replace retiring Democratic Sen. Gary Peters.

Michigan’s Senate contest is a critical hold for Democrats as they seek to regain control of the chamber from Republicans.

While pursuing the 2018 Democratic nomination for governor — a primary he lost to now two-term Gov. Gretchen Whitmer — El-Sayed’s campaign website called for the repeal of “HIV/AIDS criminalization laws and the exclusion of transgender Michiganders from state Medicaid.”

Asked in 2018 whether he supported legislation that would decriminalize HIV by establishing two levels of misdemeanors, El-Sayed said, “One of the big things that we have to recognize about HIV is that no disease can be illegal.

“The continuing forward of these laws on the books stigmatize people with the disease.”

Whitmer also backed changes to the law, which had been on the books since 1988. During her own campaign for governor, she said, “It’s wrong to criminalize sickness, which is what this law has effectively done. It absolutely should be revisited.”

The statute was overhauled in early 2019 after a Republican-controlled legislature approved the changes with broad bipartisan support.

The revised law limited felony charges to vaginal or anal intercourse involving an intent to transmit HIV, or situations in which transmission actually occurred. It also reduced certain offenses that did not involve transmission to misdemeanors and shielded people whose HIV was medically suppressed from prosecution under the reckless-disregard provision.

“Abdul supports the bipartisan reform bill that passed in 2019 through a Republican legislature that eliminated the discriminatory laws on the books,” campaign spokesperson Roxie Richner told Fox News Digital.

“As a public health professional, Abdul has fought to support programs that stem the spread of diseases, including HIV.”

Richner also said that “the Trump administration has completely exacerbated this crisis by defunding the organizations and programs that do frontline care to prevent transmission and exposure in the first place.”

“In the US Senate, Abdul will fight back against Donald Trump and RFK Jr’s attempts to dismantle our public health infrastructure and ensure all Americans have access to the care they need.”

El-Sayed continues to stand by his earlier calls to combat discrimination against people living with HIV.

Last week, after receiving an endorsement from the Human Rights Campaign, a leading LGBTQ advocacy organization, El-Sayed said that, if elected to the Senate, “I’ll fight to ensure every Michigander can live without discrimination and never have to wonder whether their rights will still be there tomorrow.”

El-Sayed narrowly defeated more moderate Democratic Rep. Haley Stevens in August in a contentious primary that underscored the divide between the party’s progressive and establishment wings. If elected, he would become the first Muslim senator in U.S. history.

A central part of his campaign is his support for “Medicare for all.”

El-Sayed has also called for abolishing Immigration and Customs Enforcement and has been a vocal critic of Israel during its war against Hamas, characterizing Israel’s actions in Gaza as “genocide” against Palestinians.

Princess Diana’s Brother Describes Her Troubled Inner Circle Before Her Death

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Princess Diana’s final years are being revisited in new detail by her brother, Charles Spencer, in his memoir “Swan Song: Diana, My Sister.” The book examines the late royal’s relationships, including her complicated friendship with Sarah Ferguson, and reportedly details what Spencer viewed as King Charles III’s insensitive response to Diana’s death. In one newly published excerpt, Spencer recalled Diana admitting that she felt jealous of Ferguson’s close bond with her father, Ronald Ferguson — a relationship Diana may have wished she shared with her own family.

Spencer, the 9th Earl Spencer, wrote that Diana was “[trying] to establish subtly if I might become more closely involved in her royal life.” He said he chose not to pursue the idea, explaining, “I did not want to openly reject the overture, but I knew I would be of no use to Diana in even a semi-official capacity,” according to InStyle. The siblings had experienced periods of tension, and Spencer said Diana sometimes stopped speaking to family members for weeks or even months. He attributed those rifts to the immense pressure surrounding her public life and her tendency to react strongly, noting that she was not speaking with two close relatives in the months before her death over what he described as relatively minor issues.

Sarah Ferguson echoed Charles Spencer’s sentiments about Princess Diana

Spencer is not the only person close to Diana to describe her final years as increasingly lonely. Sarah Ferguson, who had known Diana since childhood, discussed their relationship in her 2011 memoir, “Finding Sarah: A Duchess’s Journey to Find Herself,” writing that their friendship remained strong despite the inevitable “ups and downs” of a close relationship. However, the women had not spoken for an entire year when Diana died in 1997 at age 36.

Ferguson said she never understood exactly what caused the breakdown, adding that once Diana formed an opinion, it could remain with her for some time. Although they had once been close, Diana openly acknowledged feeling threatened by how quickly Ferguson was embraced by the royal family. In recordings shared with biographer Andrew Morton for “Diana: Her True Story — In Her Own Words,” the princess said Ferguson made her feel “terribly insecure.” She recalled hearing people praise “Fergie” as a fun, refreshing presence and compare her favorably with Diana.

Diana’s then-husband, Prince Charles, was also reportedly impressed by Ferguson and sometimes told Diana he wished she were more like her. By the final period of her life, however, Diana had become increasingly distant from several people in her inner circle, including Ferguson. Royal commentator Ian Pelham Turner told Fox News in 2026 that Diana struggled to trust others, suggesting that withdrawing from those around her — including her friendship with Sarah Ferguson — may have felt like a form of protection.

Jeffrey Archer and Wife Mary on Their Marriage and Life Together

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Jeffrey Archer, one of the world’s bestselling novelists, remains an irrepressible flirt. When our photographer arrives with his attractive young assistant, Archer is immediately captivated.

Before long, we are all standing in his penthouse bedroom, taking in the breathtaking London skyline through vast floor-to-ceiling windows — as well as Jeffrey’s magnificent, intricately carved 17th-century four-poster bed.

Suspended above the bed is a huge Lichtenstein speech-balloon Pop Art cartoon bearing the words: ‘Oh Jeff… I love you too. But…’

Lord Archer’s long-serving public relations adviser looks slightly taken aback. ‘I’ve only been in this room a couple of times, and I’ve known Jeffrey for decades,’ she says.

The allure of youth and beauty is clearly undiminished. Jeffrey, 86, talks animatedly to the photographic assistant in her 20s, who also works as a stunt double. ‘You’re such a flirt,’ I tell him. ‘Oh yes! What man isn’t?’ he replies.

‘But you can’t act on it these days,’ I remind him.

After being diagnosed with cancer in 2015, Lord Archer of Weston-super-Mare underwent surgery to remove his prostate. He later revealed that the operation had left him permanently impotent. ‘I’d rather have a life. “Fertile and dead.” It’s not much of a choice, is it?’ he told me when we last met.

‘Was losing your libido like being freed from a madman?’ I ask him now. ‘Don’t get cheeky,’ he admonishes, before explaining why the combination of intelligence and beauty can be so intoxicating.

Lord Jeffrey Archer with wife Mary at their home in London

Lord Jeffrey Archer with his wife Mary at their London home

Jeffrey and his wife Mary are pictured on their wedding day

Jeffrey and his wife Mary pictured on their wedding day

Here the author is pictured alongside former prime minister Margaret Thatcher in 1986

The author pictured with former prime minister Margaret Thatcher in 1986

Jeffrey has always admired women who are strong, attractive and intelligent, and he surrounds himself with them. Among them is his wife of 60 years, Dame Mary, 81, an eminent scientist.

His novels, which have sold more than 300 million copies in 115 countries and paid for three splendid homes and a priceless art collection, are equally packed with beautiful, independent and formidable female characters.

Now, his millions of readers around the world have a final blockbuster to enjoy, centred on another spirited and striking heroine.

It is true: Jeffrey Archer, the master of the page-turner and a consummate storyteller, has written his final novel. Exactly 50 years after the publication of his first, Not A Penny More, Not A Penny Less, he has chosen to give his farewell interview exclusively to the Daily Mail.

Adam & Eve, set against the upheaval of the Second World War, will be published next month. In many respects, it serves as a companion piece to his first international bestseller, Kane and Abel, which sold one million copies in its opening week. Both books centre on two children born on the same day — Armistice Day, 1918 — but into families at opposite ends of the social scale.

Adam is the son of a shepherd, while Eve is the daughter of an Earl. Moving at a relentless pace and filled with Archer’s trademark twists and cliff-hangers, the novel explores a recurring theme in his fiction: the distance between where people’s lives begin and where they ultimately end.

So why has he decided that this novel should be his last?

‘It’s my most ambitious yet, and I genuinely think it’s the best I’ve ever written,’ he says.

‘I’m 86. I don’t think I could do it again. So why not go now?’

‘It’s hard work. I write every word in longhand with felt tip pen on a 32-line pad. I hand-wrote 18 drafts over two years. I don’t know how to turn on a computer.

‘Besides, some authors’ last books are embarrassing. They go on too long. Some even go on writing after their death ‘with help from’ co-authors. I’ve put in my will that that can’t happen. It’s swindling the public – but the public aren’t stupid.

‘I find old age tiresome,’ he adds. ‘I don’t think I’d like to live to 100. I have a hip problem. I can’t move as fast as I’d like to but thankfully Mary and I both seem to be firing on all cylinders mentally.

‘Alzheimer’s is my biggest dread, so I test my memory all the time; for names, places, events.’

Jeffrey loves a drama. He does not merely speak but harrumphs, squawks and guffaws; his voice ranging through the octaves from grumbling baritone to indignant falsetto. He is great company.

He parries probing questions with mock outrage. ‘How rich are you?’ I ask. 

Estimates put his fortune at around £200million but today he declares: ‘You are a rude human being to ask! Genuinely I don’t know what I’m worth.

His new book, Adam & Eve, set in the tumult of the Second World War, is published next month

His new book, Adam & Eve, set in the tumult of the Second World War, is published next month

‘Some people care passionately about money. I don’t. As long as I can watch cricket, go to the theatre, do my charity auctions (he has raised a reputed £54million through these sales) and indulge my real passion, which is art.’

So no private jet or yacht? ‘No. I have an electric Mini. Perfect for getting round London. Mary has one, too.’

He tells a story about Mary’s frugality: ‘She had an Audi for 22 years. I got fed up with telling her to get a new car, so I drove it into town and left the keys in it. But no one stole it! So we sold it for £100.’

Clearly he enjoys her disregard for material possessions. I later discover her oldest shoes are a 61-year-old pair of Hush Puppies.

‘I’ll tell her to get a new suit or some jewellery and she won’t. I’ve had friends whose wives weren’t like that,’ he says pointedly. ‘Mary’s parsimonious. She has such integrity and an amazing work ethic.’ His admiration for her is genuine and heartfelt.

It emerges that Jeffrey is selling off his vast and diverse art collection. Or at least Mary is.

‘The proceeds are all going to her charities. She’s building a children’s hospital in Cambridge. Before I die she’ll have fleeced me. She’s a common thief!’

Despite Mary’s gradual decimation of his art collection, their vast, L-shaped sitting room, with its mesmerising vista of the Thames from Battersea Power Station to The Shard, unfurling through those giant windows, is still stuffed with treasures.

On one wall alone are two Picassos. I spot a Pissarro and a prized townscape by Impressionist Claude Monet of the Houses of Parliament hangs in the hall.

Suddenly Jeffrey breaks off from our chat to cry: ‘Enter the Dame!’

‘The most long-suffering wife in Britain!’ I add. ‘That’s very naughty of you,’ he tuts.

Mary, awarded a DBE in 2012 for services to the NHS, click-clacks across the vast acreage of marbled floor in block heels – that she’s had for decades – looking dazzling in a bronze coat dress, decorated with black swirls.

Discreet gold jewellery glints at her throat and wrists. Her hair is black as a raven’s wing and her smile is warm, which surprises me as I had expected glacial aloofness. She carries a mug, bearing the periodic table, full of milky tea. ‘I can sing it! I did at our 60th wedding anniversary party,’ she beams.

Jeffrey and Dame Joan Collins attend the launch of book Divining The Human: The Art Of Alexander Newley at Ognisko Polskie - The Polish Hearth Club in June 2023

Jeffrey and Dame Joan Collins attend the launch of book Divining The Human: The Art Of Alexander Newley at Ognisko Polskie – The Polish Hearth Club in June 2023 

The Archers, who have two handsome, accomplished sons – William, 54 and James, 52 – and five young grandchildren, celebrated this marital milestone in July with a garden party for 321 friends at their second home, the Old Vicarage in Grantchester, Cambridge. They have a third, a villa in Mallorca, where Jeffrey writes his novels.

The enduring conundrum persists: why is the beautiful, academic Mary – famously lauded as ‘fragrant’ by the judge at her husband’s 1987 libel action over claims he had slept with a prostitute – still married to him?

Jeffrey’s infidelities were publicly documented during and after his subsequent trial for perjury and perverting the course of justice in 2001, for which he was found guilty and served two years in prison.

‘My dear late friend Barry Humphries said, ‘I have a word that encapsulates Mary… tolerant,’ hams Jeffrey. ‘I adore the woman. I’d be lost without her. I just hope I die first. I’d last a week without her and it would be a bad one, at that.’

Mary once said she’d never considered divorcing Jeffrey – she confirms this today – but had come close to murdering him.

But how did she get over his infidelities? Jeffrey had a three-year affair with the late actress Sally Farmiloe, another with his then secretary Andrina Colquhoun.

‘People think it’s strange when I say this but there are worse things in a marriage than infidelity. Illness for a start. Debt.’

The Archers faced near bankruptcy in 1974 when Jeffrey, then Tory MP for Louth, Lincolnshire, lost his life savings of nearly £500,000 in a bad investment.

‘It was the making of me – although I didn’t think so at the time,’ he says now.

He stepped down as an MP and the Archers, then parents of a baby and toddler, lost their family home. Mary saved them, securing a teaching job at Cambridge University which came with accommodation and they lived on her modest don’s salary – until in 1979 Kane And Abel earned him a £2million advance.

‘After that,’ he says with a touch of bombast, ‘Mary’s achievements were not harmed by the fact that she didn’t have to worry that her work didn’t pay. She became chair of trustees of the Science Museum. They doubled her salary from nought to nought.’

I ask her why – even during the darkest times – she never thought about quitting the marriage. She answers with studied restraint.

‘Much of your life runs along on railway tracks. Then you come to a junction where you can choose the ‘I can cope’ route or the ‘I can’t cope.’ When you get into

the habit of coping you learn resilience. It’s harder if you say, ‘I crumbled last time but I’ll cope now.’ I’ve never suffered from depression, for which I’m very grateful. I’ve always taken the view that if today wasn’t great, tomorrow’s another day.’

They have, it seems, reached a period of comfortable equanimity. ‘I’m conscious that time is precious now,’ says Mary. ‘We must use it well and I’d rather spend our old age together than apart. We’ve both been through cancer.’ Mary overcame bladder cancer in 2011.

‘But I think we’re both fit for our age. I practise getting up from the floor without using my hands. It’s a brute but I can do it. We go swimming, jogging; to the gym.’

Jeffrey and Mary arrive at Westminster Cathedral for the Requiem Mass on the day of the funeral of Britain's Katharine, Duchess of Kent, in London, on September 16 last year

Jeffrey and Mary arrive at Westminster Cathedral for the Requiem Mass on the day of the funeral of Britain’s Katharine, Duchess of Kent, in London, on September 16 last year

She continues: ‘I rather like having Jeffrey around, cluttering up the place.

‘We’ve certainly had a very eventful life, although I can’t say I’ve enjoyed every minute.

‘There have been moments of irritation and anger but I don’t do tempests. I very, very seldom lose my temper.

‘Jeffrey’s fun. Very different from me. He has a wide circle of friends, energy and drive. Yes, I feel I’ve enjoyed rather than endured him.’

I ask if he has any regrets and he says: ‘Anyone who pretends they don’t is living in a dream world. You cannot expect to sail through life with everything going your way. If I had, I might have ended up as Secretary of State for Transport and never written a word.’

He reflects on ambitions he never realised: ‘I wish I’d won an Olympic gold and become Mayor of London.’ He became a life peer in 1992 and was poised to be elected the capital’s mayor when he had to resign his candidacy after it emerged he had lied in the libel case.

Did he ever covet a literary prize? Highbrow critics have derided him but his legions of fans applaud the genius of his deft plotting. ‘You’ll never win prizes for being a storyteller but once you sell you clearly don’t need them,’ he says.

Around him the sheer imperial opulence of the room testifies to this: clusters of cream sofas sit on densely woven carpets; glossy art books are stacked neatly on glass-topped coffee tables. A vast dining table is overhung by a giant chandelier.

A curved staircase leads to a mezzanine floor where Jeffrey’s PA works unseen – and the view wraps round it all, a peerless panorama of London unfolding on both sides of the great river.

It is hard to imagine him confined to a prison cell but he does not dwell on the contrast when

I ask about his two years of incarceration.

Even when he was locked up in Belmarsh high security prison in London, then Wayland in Norfolk and finally North Sea Camp in Lincolnshire, he used his time judiciously, to write diaries which later became bestsellers.

I wonder if he was ever frightened. ‘I was protected by a murderer called Big Al.

‘He’s no longer with us but I visited him for five years in prison. I visited three inmates in fact: two of them murderers.’

It is a measure of his character that he is a constant friend and also inspires loyalty in others. 

He and Mary remained close friends with the late Margaret Thatcher, who appointed Jeffrey deputy chairman of the Conservative Party in 1985. 

Baroness Thatcher was a regular attendee at their Krug and shepherd’s pie Christmas parties in the penthouse until her health failed in 2010.

The Archers held the last of these parties last year. Friends had died; others, aged, found it hard to stand for three hours. 

There has been a final valediction for their garden parties this year, too. Now no more novels either.

Jeffrey Archer’s world is constricting as he ages but something tells me there will always be a glint in his eye when there’s a strong, capable – and attractive – woman in his orbit.

Adam & Eve by Jeffrey Archer is published by HarperCollins on October 6, priced £22 hardback. 

Poll: Mike Rogers Leads Abdul El-Sayed in Michigan Senate Bid

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A majority of Michigan voters view Democratic Senate candidate Abdulrahman Mohamed El-Sayed, also known as Abdul El-Sayed, unfavorably, according to a poll commissioned by a Republican political group and released this week.

The survey, obtained by the Washington Reporter, found that 50.4 percent of voters held an unfavorable opinion of El-Sayed, while 39.8 percent viewed him favorably. Common Sense for America PAC commissioned the poll. Sen. John Kennedy (R-LA) serves as the group’s honorary chair.

El-Sayed’s past ties to the Democratic Socialists of America appeared to weigh further on his standing. After respondents were told about his history with the organization, 52.7 percent said the information made them less likely to support him.

Republican Mike Rogers criticized the group’s influence, saying its members believe they can make Michigan and the country more accepting of socialism. Rogers called El-Sayed the “Democratic Socialists of America darling right now” and framed the Senate contest as “crazy versus common sense.”

The Democratic Socialists of America also received a negative rating in the survey. Some 51.9 percent of voters said they viewed the organization unfavorably, compared with 25.5 percent who expressed a favorable opinion.

El-Sayed has additionally faced scrutiny over his association with streamer Hasan Piker, whom the Washington Reporter described as a “pro-9/11” figure. El-Sayed, who has received backing from Sen. Bernie Sanders (I-VT) and Rep. Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez (D-NY), says he does not consider himself a democratic socialist. Ocasio-Cortez is a member of the DSA.

The poll showed Rogers holding a slim advantage in the Michigan Senate race, with 44.4 percent support compared with 43.1 percent for El-Sayed. Because the difference falls within the survey’s 4.7-point margin of error, the contest remains highly competitive. Third-party candidates received 3.9 percent, while 8.5 percent of voters were undecided.

In the Michigan governor’s race, Republican Rep. John James trailed Democrat Jocelyn Benson by about one percentage point, 42.2 percent to 41.1 percent. That result was closer than the margins recorded in other public surveys. Economic concerns dominated voter priorities, with 52.6 percent identifying the economy and prices as the country’s most important issue.

The findings differ from a recent series of public polls that showed El-Sayed in front. A Washington Post–Schar School survey released last week gave the Democrat a narrow lead, while polls from Emerson College and Rasmussen Reports put him ahead by two and three points, respectively.

Torchlight Strategies conducted the survey among 643 likely voters using live interviews and text-to-web responses from September 15 through 19.